Girl who rejected you before. Do you go back to her?

[3someking]

5 years ago you confess your feelings to a girl whom you like.
But she reject you because you are poor and fat. You dont have a stable job at that point in time and you are overweight. You also got no car at that point in time.

That motivates you to lose weight, improve your looks and climb up corporate ladder earning more. Fast forward 5 years today, you manage to have a lean and fit body, earning much more money and got car.

Then you meet her again and she is surprise to see you. And she start to show interest and suddenly hint that she like you.

Will you go out with her, or you find other girls? Some guys got dignity and will ignore her and find other girls.

[crood]

Originally Posted by 3someking

5 years ago you confess your feelings to a girl whom you like.
But she reject you because you are poor and fat. You dont have a stable job at that point in time and you are overweight. You also got no car at that point in time.

That motivates you to lose weight, improve your looks and climb up corporate ladder earning more. Fast forward 5 years today, you manage to have a lean and fit body, earning much more money and got car.

Then you meet her again and she is surprise to see you. And she start to show interest and suddenly hint that she like you.

Will you go out with her, or you find other girls? Some guys got dignity and will ignore her and find other girls.

I won’t be serious with someone so realistic so if she find a better one, she will be jumping ship?

If just fb / fwb , then ok lor , 玩玩而已。

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by 3someking

Will you go out with her, or you find other girls? Some guys got dignity and will ignore her and find other girls.

I will move on, is not so much about being prideful but more on the lady being superficial and materialistic, chances are she haven't change since 5 yrs ago.

Last thing you want for a partner is to keep arguing about money matters when the going gets tough.

[iLuvSashimi]

Why ignore her? Keep her by your side for fucking and then in the meantime, you can continue looking out for the serious relationship you want

[mrpickles1996]

Originally Posted by 3someking

5 years ago you confess your feelings to a girl whom you like.
But she reject you because you are poor and fat. You dont have a stable job at that point in time and you are overweight. You also got no car at that point in time.

That motivates you to lose weight, improve your looks and climb up corporate ladder earning more. Fast forward 5 years today, you manage to have a lean and fit body, earning much more money and got car.

Then you meet her again and she is surprise to see you. And she start to show interest and suddenly hint that she like you.

Will you go out with her, or you find other girls? Some guys got dignity and will ignore her and find other girls.

if the positive changes if the reason she comes back, then do not take her back. she is just interested in the positive changes. not you. which most women are.

[gabrielboey]

take la free fuck

[cornporn]

well take her back, if you not too emotionally attached, like some bros say, free fuck.

if emotionally attached then better dont.

[magicpatrick97]

Originally Posted by mrpickles1996

if the positive changes if the reason she comes back, then do not take her back. she is just interested in the positive changes. not you. which most women are.

i agreee with see-ing the reason first la

[teddybeartim]

never ! we must not give in to girls that do not treasure us

[limitbreaker]

Originally Posted by crood

I won’t be serious with someone so realistic so if she find a better one, she will be jumping ship?

If just fb / fwb , then ok lor , 玩玩而已。

yes too realistic dont bother... i agree with you. i also will play play fwb fb with her only

[LooksLikeJesus]

Originally Posted by 3someking

5 years ago you confess your feelings to a girl whom you like.
But she reject you because you are poor and fat. You dont have a stable job at that point in time and you are overweight. You also got no car at that point in time.

That motivates you to lose weight, improve your looks and climb up corporate ladder earning more. Fast forward 5 years today, you manage to have a lean and fit body, earning much more money and got car.

Then you meet her again and she is surprise to see you. And she start to show interest and suddenly hint that she like you.

Will you go out with her, or you find other girls? Some guys got dignity and will ignore her and find other girls.

Siao, any man who is thinking with his penis will do that.

If you want to be the gd guy: Just say hello and bye and move on

If you want to be an arsehole: Accept the offer, pump and dump

If you want to be a stupid arsehole: Accept the offer and married that bitch who rejected you when you're at yr lowest.

Choice is yours!

[iluv33]

Originally Posted by LooksLikeJesus

Siao, any man who is thinking with his penis will do that.

If you want to be the gd guy: Just say hello and bye and move on

If you want to be an arsehole: Accept the offer, pump and dump

If you want to be a stupid arsehole: Accept the offer and married that bitch who rejected you when you're at yr lowest.

Choice is yours!

a very nice summary of 3 possible outcomes

[mrpickles1996]

Originally Posted by magicpatrick97

i agreee with see-ing the reason first la

yes we need to protect ourselves. these girls are not worth it.

[ironiclife]

Originally Posted by 3someking

5 years ago you confess your feelings to a girl whom you like.
But she reject you because you are poor and fat. You dont have a stable job at that point in time and you are overweight. You also got no car at that point in time.

That motivates you to lose weight, improve your looks and climb up corporate ladder earning more. Fast forward 5 years today, you manage to have a lean and fit body, earning much more money and got car.

Then you meet her again and she is surprise to see you. And she start to show interest and suddenly hint that she like you.

Will you go out with her, or you find other girls? Some guys got dignity and will ignore her and find other girls.

havnt experienced this, but if this occurs to me i will hang to sell lol

[magicpatrick97]

Originally Posted by mrpickles1996

yes we need to protect ourselves. these girls are not worth it.

protect ourself is one thing. we also cannot rush into things. impulse decisions are usually bad decisions