How Do You Bros Seal the Deal? Need Some Insights

[Raniance]

If she is willing to go to your place, interest is more or less established.
However, other people can indeed be discomforting for some people, so maybe it was a put off for her.

If it was me, would just try to see if there is any activity that can put both of us side by side, eg watching a movie or something to pass the time where you can be side to side and put your arms around her.

If arms accepted, then just proceed smoothly and slowly until she says otherwise.

Girls looking for fun don't want nice guys, they want naughty guys.

[songuntiljurong]

Hahaha thanks for all bros that shared their opinion.

I think my conquest carried on and I managed to set up a few dates over the week. Being upfront really helped and instead of asking consent, going with what I wanted did help.
During a party I took the opportunity to test out being a direct with girls and it was very rewarding. I think being clear with the intention from the start made it better.

Some of the conversation that went well:

Come to xxxx bar later from drinks at 9am. I want to see you.
Date: why do you want to see me.

I like you. If you don’t like me you don’t have a choice either, you have to accept it. It worked out well for me as she proceeded from the bar to a successfully conquering!

[bonkon]

If she's at your place, you're 60% getting it.
If there's drinking, you're 75% getting it.

When I invite a girl over for drinks, I usually start with games. With some drinks, they're mostly on wan. 5-10 etc. And usually with games, we will sit side by side. After a few rounds, stop and rest and still continue sit beside her. I usually will then smell her hair and purposely make sure my sniff can be heard. This is my way of showing I'm interested. Then from the side of the hair, I'll slide my face to the front slightly and ask if she's ok so far. This way, I'm closer to her and lips closer to lips. If she doesn't siam, I take it as a signal and give her a light peck on the lips.

Then thereafter I think it's game on.

[andrewtong]

The key strategy I used to have with chicks that I want to bed is to just be direct. Don't wait and fuck around and 'wait and see' or 'see how' or whatever. Life is too short. Grab it by the short and curlies and just go for it.

So I would just ask: "Hey is it ok if I kiss you?" Then you put the ball in their court. You ask for consent... and once they say yes it's usually ok to go all the way.

Of course you have to be able to read the room lah. I mean in the scenario where your chick is already ON YOUR BED AND DRINKING WINE then that's a pretty damn obvious sign. If you didn't go ahead and do anything then fucking hell, you're the loser here.

So in all my previous instances with my girlfriends or flings or whatever and they are in my home, drinking wine on my couch, and we are seated side by side, it's about an 80% hit rate that my cock is plunging into her pussy within the next hour or so. If you're not seated side by side, then make an excuse to - go to the toilet and then come back to the couch and bring like a book or photo album and sit next to them.

Have some music playing, and that your room smells nice... then pop that question: "hey can I kiss you?" or "sorry I know this is really direct and I can't help it but can I kiss you?"

Sometimes they will ask why, then it's your cue to say something nice like "I'm really attracted to you, I mean you smell so nice and I just can't help it but I want to kiss you."

Hope the above helps.

P.S. don't get me wrong - I've also been a dumbfuck before, i.e. not reading the signs cos the girl asked me to go to her room and look at her goldfish and then I said something dumb like "oh no it's ok it's quite late lah - better go rest". Only when I'm driving home then I think "WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK DID I JUST DO???" hahahaha

[BoxerBoy]

When she said 5 minutes more i will go home....

A) I will joke back usually I need at least 30 minutes.....
B) I will dare her so let me do anything I want within 5 minutes?

Then wait for her reply and reaction..

With the help of alcoholic, I will pretend I'm drunk and move close to her and have body contact.... She is already lying on your bed, drinking alcoholic drinks. If I'm you, my dick sure already hard and I will make it very obvious to her.

If u want play the good guy card, sorry to say that. Sooner or later she will be on others guy bed, riding high and cursing u non stop for wasting her time for knowing a gay. Haha.....

Mind sharing her contact? 😏