and dont u dare try to pass off the tuscani as a conti sports car. they know hor...LOL
My non-WL PRC colleague thought otherwise. FLs have an uncanny knack of spotting value in assets... tools of the trade.
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haha... the type that just wont go quietly into the nite...
The type that will never quit seizing an opportunity when they see one. They are sharp... honed by many years of practice.
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but if it is really true love, then why not the sampan? true love mah... so coincidental meh... the FL must always fall in love of all people, the rich ones...
Unconditional love rarely exists even with non-WL. The only time love is unconditional is that of parent and child. Many of us marry non-WLs but not for the sole reason of love... there were many other aspects to consider... finances being one of them.
FL falling in love with rich people, not coincidental but natural. Even Non-WL fall in love with rich people. Being rich is just like any other asset ie. looks, body, etc... animal instincts to look for a better provider and gene ppol.
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that's what i call a stock market crash... hahaha...
Rarely happens but does.
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glad u kept yr droll humour despite not posting over the long weekend...
Glad to be of service.
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I'm actually really glad that you replied. As in my ealier reply to Bro Surfer, I thought no one would bother about me and make my posts like "talking to the wall".
hi bro, we normally dont discriminate who we reply to. u took the effort obviously and i can only speak for myself, i like to reply to bros who quote my post. to me, it is basic human courtesy. but then again, i m speaking for myself here. so, sometimes u see me reply even the most bo liao post... do zap me for that the next time u see me do that hor... cos i was just according the basic courtesy back, ya?
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I apologize that I am not in least powerful enough to "up" you guys but will bear you guys in mind.
points come from bros who agree with what we say. the main purposes of points here is to ensure that we dont fall into moderation again and probably to get lobangs more easily... my point being, it is ok, not important.
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I think the point of the thread was to compare between an FL and a non-FL. What I was trying to point out was that when it comes to love and marriages, there isn't any real difference between them as compared to some notions that FLs only get married to "dig gold".
as i have said, gold diggers r aplenty due to the skewed outlook in life. when one is immersed in mud long enough, they r usually crocodiles. how often do u see a beautiful lotus in a swamp??? rare... why i know. i have immersed myself in the literal swamps long enough during army time (last place anyone would look what!!!) and the swamps known as ktvs, pubs, etc... very rare. i just cant take the overwhelming coincidence that they often end up loving the rich guy who also happened to be married. forgive my cynicism. i deal with numbers in my line of work and depend very much on probability for my decisions. thus, u r right to say that there r good ones. just that there r too few of them to increase the percentage to a more believable level. hope u get what i mean.
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Great mind thinks alike and I already like you for that.
ha!!! thanks for the compliment. but i think the next line is "fools dont differ"...
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I apologize if I had offended you in my previous post saying that she was not in love with you. My comments were uncalled for and I'm sorry about that.
at least for me, dont apologise. stand by what u believe in and discuss. as for the part about she being not in love with me, i think u r spot on!!! nothing to be sorry about.
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Now, I have just gone through a sad and bitter divorce. My ex clean me out for half of what I have, the matrimonial home and my kids leaving me with only the will to die. It took quite a while for me to get through it luckily with the help fo family, relative and friends.
haiz... another victim of the women's charter. well, all i can say is that they can take away our money, they can take away our family, but they can never take away our knowledge and our pride. with enough determination, we shall stand up and prosper again!!! so long as u have a single breath left, u have the power to take control of yr life again. cos money can be earned back and yr children will forever bear yr surname and yr DNA. she cant take away the fact that u r their father. she cant never ever change that fact. guess u have learnt yr lesson, albeit an expensive one. but u have learnt to be smarter, i m sure.
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What is the difference between my ex and your GF other than she was not an FL?
Further to that, even before I got married I had a few relationships, some several months and some a couple fo years. There was one which we even talk about the prospect of marriage too. But they didn't turn out.
Can I say that these girls were with me not out of love? Maybe some, but I'm sure there some which are.
What I'm trying to point out is that if you take the job aspect out of it, the FLs are just like the non-FLs when it comes to love or marriages.
my point is the FL will always have this option to go back to become an FL again, simply bcos they have done it before. now, thinking back, if i died suddenly and is flat broke, will my ex-FL wife, in the name of having to feed my children, go and become someone elses mistress or even worse, become an FL again??? when this easy way out is in their mind, i can help but to feel a lil insecure. if i ever have an ex-FL wife, remind me to buy a lot more insurance. i dont want my children to be ridiculed of their mum being a "chicken"!!!
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Bro, I suggest you give a thought to your statement. I can say that I know of at least 10 ex-FLs who are now happily married.
u must know a lot of FLs... or maybe u r one of the ex-ktv customers my ex-gf called... hahaha... just kidding. but if she is, i suggest u take her off yr happily married list. i will encounter some logistical problems in garnering 1k FLs and ktv gers names who r not happily married. it will be difficult but i reckon it not impossible. fyi, i only know of 2.
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Your views are based on your experiences so you are entitled to them. I won't challenge your views. But I'm sure that there are others who have different views also based on their own experiences too.
no, challenge them if u feel that they r incorrect. i m not always right. in fact, i m wrong more often than i would like to.
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Taking the phrase in direct context, that is exactly what I mean. When we go to such places, we are looking for lie long partners and not life long partners.
yup, agreed. looking for love in the wrong places. surfer bro should reiterate his leech analogy for all to comprehend again in this instance.
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Like I said, your views are based on your experiences.
As you said, a good majority of men wants only to get into their pants so I don't see any wrong for them to be cautious and wary about the men whom they meet in their line of work.
But I still say that FLs like any other ladies also seek love, marriage and a normal life
men they meet wants to fuck them and fuck off. so they will think that men r not reliable. they r not exactly wrong in thinking that. but the rare one comes along and treat them well from the bottom of their heart, they still will think otherwise. they r also stereotyping, my friend. dont believe, ask them... even the nice guy will get fleeced by them cos they have already lost all hope already...
First of all, I want to thank you for your reply. Being a newbie in this forum, I thought my posts would normally be ignored and/or probably zapped.
You're most welcomed. If every newbie were zapped and ignored, this forum would be very lonely.
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I believed that FLs in their line of work, do goes for such luxury items. For that matter, not only FLs. I'm sure many of us have seen Singapore Girls from SIA having such items too and I'm quite sure from the SGs & FLs I know or met, the FLs are earning much more than the SGs.
Some Ass skewed girls are sometimes not too different. Just branding.
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But when an FL gets married and tied down with children, I'm sure their perspective in life changes. Much as they like any other girls would like to have some luxury items, I'm sure many are realistic enough to know whether they as a family can afford it or not.
Its difficult to take a step down from material offerings once used to it. It happens to everyone. If a drive a lamborghini one day and circumstances force me to drive a Hyundai, I would feel most uncomfortable and try my best to get my Lambo back.
Bro AXL won't understand this as he is still enjoying his Gallardo.
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Personally I won't know whether they would or would not be happy without them so I really can't comment on them.
Not happy for certain. Reasons as above.
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Which is why I stated that no women would go for such a man thereby making FLs & non-FLs having the same motive when looking for someone to marry to.
Agreed. Its just the theory of selection and evolution.
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Yes, it's a typo error but I glad you see the humour in it. Thanks.
Most welcome. I thrive on typos like that.
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Could agree more. An FL may probably fine one suitable guy for her through her hundreds if not thousands of customers. Sometimes maybe even not at all. The problem from what I've read through the forum is, there are guys who actually believe that they are the ONE true guy whom the FL really loves.
That's just human nature. Ego and optimism are the lubes for any engine.
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What I was trying to put across is that FLs are like many other ladies. They go through life. There comes a time in their life that they settle down like anyone else. The person they marry may or may not be their customers. The person they marry could be someone who doesn't know their past. Or could be someone who knows but doesn't mind.
Almost the same but normally a person's pandora's box is not a 5 foot container.
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Whatever it is, I'm not about to condemn them as being worst off then any other ladies as such will not compare them with other ladies as far as happy marriages are concern as I can't find any basis to compare.
They are happy mostly because they got the raw end of the deal. What about their partners? It takes alot from the man to accept that... cash inclusive.
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Anyway, mine is just a matter of my opinion which I hope does not offend anyone here. I apologize if it did.
No offence taken. 5 points given.
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My non-WL PRC colleague thought otherwise. FLs have an uncanny knack of spotting value in assets... tools of the trade.
of course lah... from the car, they decide whether they should fall in love with the car (oops, guy) or not mah...
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Unconditional love rarely exists even with non-WL. The only time love is unconditional is that of parent and child. Many of us marry non-WLs but not for the sole reason of love... there were many other aspects to consider... finances being one of them.
so what??? think i must reconsider my criteria. instead of looking for the woman i love with all my heart, i must start looking for the woman i want to be the mother of my children.
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FL falling in love with rich people, not coincidental but natural. Even Non-WL fall in love with rich people. Being rich is just like any other asset ie. looks, body, etc... animal instincts to look for a better provider and gene ppol.
alpha male syndrome ah??? gorrillas for them then...
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Rarely happens but does.
oh, it happens. getting rich is easy actually. staying rich is more difficult.
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Glad to be of service
thanks, u r my constant source for one-liners.
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Bro AXL won't understand this as he is still enjoying his Gallardo.
hello, dont insult my ride. she is more subtle than the gallardo... and not so expensive. i dont have that kind of money to throw around.
of course lah... from the car, they decide whether they should fall in love with the car (oops, guy) or not mah...
Depends on the OMV and residual COE. When they ask for your NRIC no., there are doing a background check with LTA.
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so what??? think i must reconsider my criteria. instead of looking for the woman i love with all my heart, i must start looking for the woman i want to be the mother of my children.
Normally, that would be the same person.
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alpha male syndrome ah??? gorrillas for them then...
Wolves, lions, Hyenas, etc. Any social animal does that.
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oh, it happens. getting rich is easy actually. staying rich is more difficult.
Easy for you to say that since you've achieved the former.
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thanks, u r my constant source for one-liners.
In view of your appreciation, you should take some off my tab.
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hello, dont insult my ride. she is more subtle than the gallardo... and not so expensive. i dont have that kind of money to throw around.
Ya lah... I'll stop insulting your Maranello then.
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must make sure i know about it right???
Especially for you. I'm waiting to hit power 10 before you get upped. Must make sure you get more points mah.
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Depends on the OMV and residual COE. When they ask for your NRIC no., there are doing a background check with LTA.
oh shit!!! they will find that the owner of the car is my dad!!!
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Normally, that would be the same person.
different approach to find the same person???
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Wolves, lions, Hyenas, etc. Any social animal does that.
sorry, dont really have time to watch animal planet...
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Easy for you to say that since you've achieved the former.
nope, havent reached that milestone yet. but have seen many got rich fast but could never keep it there...
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In view of your appreciation, you should take some off my tab.
in view of that, do u think i would offer to put a set of fresh clean clothes in my car. contra!!!
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Ya lah... I'll stop insulting your Maranello then.
i will never spend so much on my car cos dont have so much money. even if i ever have that kind of money, i also wont spend so much on a car. already told u 2 door coupe, 4 seater.
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Especially for you. I'm waiting to hit power 10 before you get upped. Must make sure you get more points mah
no need. just when i needed u most. 213+5 = 218 points!!! nice number, u know??? but alas, i have to wait for another 1000 days more since u have already secretly zapped me liao!!!
oh shit!!! they will find that the owner of the car is my dad!!!
Better be more careful then. They will be more friendly and want to meet your dad.
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different approach to find the same person???
Many means to justify the end.
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sorry, dont really have time to watch animal planet...
Was forced to learn more about your peeing all over Kimchi's place.
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nope, havent reached that milestone yet. but have seen many got rich fast but could never keep it there...
Of coz not reached yet after all that spending on Gallardos and Maranellos... not to forget your brand new CLS 500.
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in view of that, do u think i would offer to put a set of fresh clean clothes in my car. contra!!!
Damn... now I need to think of more one-liners.
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i will never spend so much on my car cos dont have so much money. even if i ever have that kind of money, i also wont spend so much on a car. already told u 2 door coupe, 4 seater.
Ok... seriously. I'll stop teasing about about your CLS 500.
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no need. just when i needed u most. 213+5 = 218 points!!! nice number, u know??? but alas, i have to wait for another 1000 days more since u have already secretly zapped me liao!!!
What about 268? sound nicer. I'll be a mate and wait for 55 more years then.
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We are wary of them cos they are FL. Likewise they will be wary of us cos we are ex customers.
Many bros here give good advice not to have relations with them cos they belong to high risk group. They are here to make money so will they fall in love over money? Likewise for FL they have also been advised not to fall in love with customers who only want to have a good time and will not be serious about them.
So to answer the thread title question I think my answer would be YES, which follows the next question- But is she in love with you?
Must be careful there... they can tell the differences between the Windom and ES300, Harrier and RX300.
bro, i was just making a general statement. most of them cant tell the difference between the LX300 & camry... all they can say is, the brand is different. but we know that the specs are largely similiar.
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But then again we would at the most brace ourselves for some skeletons in the closet and not the Pirates of the caribbean.
scouts motto; be prepared
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Wouldn't the QE2 be a better vessel than a sampan to ride over bad weather?
Nevertheless, point noted... the Titanic did sink on its maiden voyage... but then again the ratio of seaworthiness still points against sampans.
not to mention, the prince of wales sunken during the WWII. there's always strength, weakness, opportunity & threat in everything & in every situation. just gotta learn how to deal with it, to create leverage for optimum results.
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Its a matter of when, how soon and how much. The problem begins when the girl behind the door moves next door but does not change the door bell.
LOL, i like this analogy! good 1! but of cos, there's also those that totally severe all connections with the past to lead a fresh new life.
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...... Maybe you like to also give some pointers between a LX 300 and a Camry other than the price? At least show to me, if not all the readers here, that you are not like the FLs who as you put it "dunno about cars".
if you compare the designs of these 2 makes, they're virtually the same, except that the lexus was intended to penetrate the european market. nevertheless, the general specs the same, except the camry may fall short of optional fucntions/features, that comes as default with the lexus.
watever it is, for the material savvy chicks, they'd insist on brand name... ignoring the performance specs. likewise their mentality for men. bcos the default settings of all men, the same, only very minor extreme differences i.e.: longer or thicker manhood.
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For forty over years of my life, I have not met anyone, male or female who is transparent.... By the way, are you transparent to your GF?
you just helped make my point. nobody in fact is transparent to their partner(s).
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It is very unfortunate that the surrounding you are in, is full of unhappiness and sad stories. ....But like I said, your views are based on your own experiences and I do feel sorry for you that you live in such a negative environment with not even a glimmer of light.
not that there's no glimmer of light. there's always a silver lining for every dark cloud. the only problem is, how long it takes for the cloud to clear... not to mention there's a possible citing of a rainbow during/after the rain
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... Unconditional love rarely exists even with non-WL. The only time love is unconditional is that of parent and child. Many of us marry non-WLs but not for the sole reason of love... there were many other aspects to consider... finances being one of them.
FL falling in love with rich people, not coincidental but natural. Even Non-WL fall in love with rich people. Being rich is just like any other asset ie. looks, body, etc... animal instincts to look for a better provider and gene pool...
couldnt agree more... nice perspective via animal planet...
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sigh, so much said about woman/FL/WL & their eyes for flashy cars. what they fail to realise... most motorists who own a set of wheels inevitably is working for the bank, cos they bought it on hire purchase. not unless he's family owns the mint & can walk into the car showroom... pay cash & drive away.
at the end, its all the same. even if its the car their after, they still need to know who's the bloke bleeding for it every month.
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