Husband Having Affair! Help!!! - Page 2

IwantbustyKim · #16 06-01-2015, 03:25 PM

OH dear.... cheer up babe....

Lots of good men in the forest (And this forum as well). My mother was very sad when my dad cheated on her...but she found a life outside...You need to see what is available to know how crappy he treated you.

xyz321 · #17 06-01-2015, 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Pui Pui

At days when he didnt drink he ask for a bj i also give it to him. Still not enof?

Its never enough. and yes. I don't think its nice to ask why he's taking such a long time because it just mean that you're not enjoying yourself. A jab at his ego.

BiRd13 · #18 06-01-2015, 03:36 PM

It takes two hands to clap...
Will suggest to have a good talk with him...
Do you both have kids?
See if he will for the sake of kids, will not continue the affair, and still be with you...
If he doesn't, then probably you will really need to file for divorce...

I can feel your situation, as I'm in like you previously....

urgg · #19 06-01-2015, 03:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Pui Pui

As his job require him to drink most of the days n when he drink he very long then ejaculate. So sometimes when he ask for it i will say im tired. Or even if got do i also will say y so long? Is it wrong of me to say tat ?

Hey PP, I think u mention the statement "Y so long".. To be frank, I hear liao oso sian... it is like u just do it for the sake of doing it.. i think every man wants their partner to enjoy sex together.. IMO, Y so long is the same as Y u cum so fast... Man dun like to hear tat..

I think ur genuine in asking for the advice.. sign up premium to get out of mod.. Best of luck to u! However, best thing is have a good talk with ur hubby.

fictionman · #20 06-01-2015, 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Pui Pui

As his job require him to drink most of the days n when he drink he very long then ejaculate. So sometimes when he ask for it i will say im tired. Or even if got do i also will say y so long? Is it wrong of me to say tat ?

Oh dear....No wonder he jiak outside

Pui Pui · #21 06-01-2015, 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by fictionman

Oh dear....No wonder he jiak outside

What u mean?

BiRd13 · #22 06-01-2015, 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Pui Pui

What u mean?

Cause u mentioned 'Why so long..' after he took long time to shoot...
That y from a guy's pov, his principle is hurt...

Similar like your hb having sex with you... YOu won't like him to say 'Why so loose..'
Hurt mah...

mseveninch · #23 06-01-2015, 03:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Pui Pui

As his job require him to drink most of the days n when he drink he very long then ejaculate. So sometimes when he ask for it i will say im tired. Or even if got do i also will say y so long? Is it wrong of me to say tat ?

Sis! it's wrong to mention the words - tired! or NOT today! when he need it!
Those words is a disaster in marriage! As a wife to prevented the husband from committing affair's - you need to fulfill his needs and well being!

Man are born to shoot and female are born as recipient's. That's make man goes to the others who could received his seeding!!!

All you could do now - talk to him and understand his needs and salvage from here. Make changes to accommodate him and as well to yourself! Once he comes around that he had someone close that resolving his needs - he is all yours!!! Goodluck!!

Pui Pui · #24 06-01-2015, 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by urgg

Hey PP, I think u mention the statement "Y so long".. To be frank, I hear liao oso sian... it is like u just do it for the sake of doing it.. i think every man wants their partner to enjoy sex together.. IMO, Y so long is the same as Y u cum so fast... Man dun like to hear tat..

I think ur genuine in asking for the advice.. sign up premium to get out of mod.. Best of luck to u! However, best thing is have a good talk with ur hubby.

Sometimes when we do also jus a bit of foreplay only then jus do it. Isnt it like tat?

urgg · #25 06-01-2015, 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Pui Pui

Sometimes when we do also jus a bit of foreplay only then jus do it. Isnt it like tat?

Well Mdm, every pple have different style and ways of having sex, some like to have a very long foreplay but some dun like to waste time just want to go straight into action..

How long have u been married with ur hubby? when he is sober, short foreplay also? by now u should noe his pattern liao..

Pui Pui · #26 06-01-2015, 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by mseveninch

Sis! it's wrong to mention the words - tired! or NOT today! when he need it!
Those words is a disaster in marriage! As a wife to prevented the husband from committing affair's - you need to fulfill his needs and well being!

Man are born to shoot and female are born as recipient's. That's make man goes to the others who could received his seeding!!!

All you could do now - talk to him and understand his needs and salvage from here. Make changes to accommodate him and as well to yourself! Once he comes around that he had someone close that resolving his needs - he is all yours!!! Goodluck!!

I really dunno what shld i do. Im the passive type. If he didnt ask me so i tot he dun need it. I also seldom will initiated.

Pui Pui · #27 06-01-2015, 03:58 PM

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Originally Posted by urgg

Well Mdm, every pple have different style and ways of having sex, some like to have a very long foreplay but some dun like to waste time just want to go straight into action..

How long have u been married with ur hubby? when he is sober, short foreplay also? by now u should noe his pattern liao..

We r married for ard 10yrs. Sometimes when sober he didnt ask i also seldom will initiated.

ah rat · #28 06-01-2015, 03:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Pui Pui

I really dunno what shld i do. Im the passive type. If he didnt ask me so i tot he dun need it. I also seldom will initiated.

Sis,next time U ask him,Do U want to piak piak me

BiRd13 · #29 06-01-2015, 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Pui Pui

We r married for ard 10yrs. Sometimes when sober he didnt ask i also seldom will initiated.

Probably that's the reason why he had affair...

Cause of boring sex...

You may want to try spice up your sex life right now...
Hoping he will turn back though...

Pui Pui · #30 06-01-2015, 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by BiRd13

Probably that's the reason why he had affair...

Cause of boring sex...

You may want to try spice up your sex life right now...
Hoping he will turn back though...

So wat do i have to now? Im not really good at tis kind of thing. Isnt it jus a bit of bj then enter n jus ejaculate?