Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[tanman]

Just replace the 宝 to 钱💰 , the picture will be clearer. We all just need to know can liao.😁

Originally Posted by sleep

My humble contribution.
Yes, at time we met some super caring ML, young & pretty soft spoken.
I do met one ML I like when I saw her the first time, rythem clicked perfectly. She will share so much of her personal story, let you do more then what the Cat1 Spa can offer. This go on for number of years. She RTC then back here.

Received text :宝，在不？
宝哥，想你了。or 宝贝，今天来看我吗？想要你了。
Initially you get emotion. End of the day, you gonna work like a dog to see the ML.
My way is to switch ML. Try not to be too close to them.
Old man like me still got young pretty girl call me GeGe,😂 😂 😂
Just move on man.
Don't get yourself stuck. Eventually they will leave our shore.

[ngng0620]

Originally Posted by wongqy1359

I also decided to stop going for my ML. Over the course of 1 month, someone seems to be advertising her privately and she has been super busy and tired everyday to even talk to me. Nowadays when I try to book her, she is always fully booked and the last straw was when she forgot about my booking which I told her 2 days ago. I even msg her on the day itself at 8am and she replies me in noon that she is alr booked.

Really made me realise they are here really just for the money.

If not what you think they came here for? True love meh.

[wongqy1359]

Originally Posted by ngng0620

If not what you think they came here for? True love meh.

Not exactly finding love but it hits different when I have been visiting her for about a year and a half and she prioritises new customers instead. Forgetting my appt and constantly pushing it forward or back to accommodate other newer customers.

I mean I do understand that they are trying to slot as much as possible but she would upright cancel me if there was a snowball due to the earlier appt e.g. customer being late or extend their time

[tanman]

To be really honest, it is really not new at all. But I am glad you see this early and not get sucked into her too deeply. End of the day, you are to be bluntly put an atm to them. If not they wont be here. And its purely just business as usual. To add, if she priorties you, then u have to be sugar bao bao to them. You pay much higher , you get priority. But is that what you want to give? Thats ones decision.

Originally Posted by wongqy1359

Not exactly finding love but it hits different when I have been visiting her for about a year and a half and she prioritises new customers instead. Forgetting my appt and constantly pushing it forward or back to accommodate other newer customers.

I mean I do understand that they are trying to slot as much as possible but she would upright cancel me if there was a snowball due to the earlier appt e.g. customer being late or extend their time

[Newbieshag]

Originally Posted by tanman

To be really honest, it is really not new at all. But I am glad you see this early and not get sucked into her too deeply. End of the day, you are to be bluntly put an atm to them. If not they wont be here. And its purely just business as usual. To add, if she priorties you, then u have to be sugar bao bao to them. You pay much higher , you get priority. But is that what you want to give? Thats ones decision.

Not all are like this , maybe some bros and me were lucky. I find mainly those ML above 40s and had been in SG for quite sometime usually seek to settle down here with the right one. Sometime they find SG guys are more cultured compare to CHN.But I may be wrong too or my ML’s haven’t reveal her horns yet 😊

[sxem]

Share my story...nothing special actually just wanna get it off my chest.

Been patronising this ML for close to 4yrs+ on-and-off (at least every fortnight) and she is (and still is) in a 88 spa which boss dont allow any form of happy so all these time is ball teasing and all, manage to unlock to free light outside boobs roaming and pants roaming. This ML olis those pretty goody 2 shoes SYT who will act blur when you talk about sexual topics kind.

So after all these years, she finally agreed to HJ during the end of one of the sessions and judging by the way she do it...seems very well versed, subsequent visits thereafter she will ask if want release.

Felt abit like shit. Duno is it because my image of her is ruined, or the fact that all this time she does offer but for some reason or another i dont fit the criteria despite being a loyal supporter all these years.

Either way i have moved on and learnt not to invest too much feelings...its business after all

[ngng0620]

Originally Posted by wongqy1359

Not exactly finding love but it hits different when I have been visiting her for about a year and a half and she prioritises new customers instead. Forgetting my appt and constantly pushing it forward or back to accommodate other newer customers.

I mean I do understand that they are trying to slot as much as possible but she would upright cancel me if there was a snowball due to the earlier appt e.g. customer being late or extend their time

Sorry to hear that. But time to move on if they take you for granted.
I am quite lucky then. Most of the time I stick to ladies, I do agree service or massage is almost non exist. But I went not for massage but sensual part. Sensual part usually won't disappoint.

[cassey]

Just to share my own experience. I met this ML once and from the first time the chemistry was amazing. We just kept laughing and giggling and conversation just flowed. I immediately met her 3 consecutive days and subsequently she didn’t charge me any fees for a few times. We even went to the beach like a couple, went out few times and even spent the night together at her place.

Fast forward about a month later, feeling was still great but she started mentioning she needed to RTC and asked if I can help with her rent. I paid half of that and she RTC. But throughout the 2 weeks there she ghosted me saying that there was poor line there and I accepted.

When she came back somehow it was totally different. The conversations felt awkward and out of the blue one day after I texted the usual good morning text, and she said she doesn’t need someone who only uses the mouth to care and how I couldn’t support her.

From then on, I realized it was all transactional. Took me awhile but I got if it but honestly the sucker in me still feels it was my fault. But oh well life has to go on. Alright thanks for those that read through this

[ngng0620]

Originally Posted by cassey

Just to share my own experience. I met this ML once and from the first time the chemistry was amazing. We just kept laughing and giggling and conversation just flowed. I immediately met her 3 consecutive days and subsequently she didn’t charge me any fees for a few times. We even went to the beach like a couple, went out few times and even spent the night together at her place.

Fast forward about a month later, feeling was still great but she started mentioning she needed to RTC and asked if I can help with her rent. I paid half of that and she RTC. But throughout the 2 weeks there she ghosted me saying that there was poor line there and I accepted.

When she came back somehow it was totally different. The conversations felt awkward and out of the blue one day after I texted the usual good morning text, and she said she doesn’t need someone who only uses the mouth to care and how I couldn’t support her.

From then on, I realized it was all transactional. Took me awhile but I got if it but honestly the sucker in me still feels it was my fault. But oh well life has to go on. Alright thanks for those that read through this

You can have feeling for them. We are all human afterall. And some bro also looking for gfe ma. Got feeling is normal. But when a ml talk to you about money, you have to switch back quick. There are always ml telling you their business poor but whenever book her, she will say no slot. Then you know something is wrong. Borrow money from
customer etc. I will jitao act blur and swith topic. I know it might be hard but if you dun want your pocket to be burn, you will have to be thick skin abit.

[venusteo89]

Be realistic bro. They are here working for the money. That is the reality of life. Back home in china, they probably already have a hubby and kids in tow.

Pay for their services, bring outside to fxxx them etc but that's it. Do not get your feelings involved or it will just be a downwards spiral. Reality of life.

[afterburn]

Originally Posted by venusteo89

Be realistic bro. They are here working for the money. That is the reality of life. Back home in china, they probably already have a hubby and kids in tow.

Pay for their services, bring outside to fxxx them etc but that's it. Do not get your feelings involved or it will just be a downwards spiral. Reality of life.

Open mouth tell you she is divorcee but take it with a big pinch of salt.

Ever have one that tell me sad story of how she got pregnant and had to abort when the guy didn't want to take responsibility. Then later as I knew her better and visit more times, found she actually has that kid back home in china, hahaha. Tell me extra class or tuition very expensive.... Knn

[Newsasap]

Was wondering some MLS had strong fan supports that providing her monthly cash, but why those supporters never gets upset knowing she is receiving money from her other supporters.
Are they willing or they got no choice just to obey what she do.
实在想不通。

[ngng0620]

Originally Posted by Newsasap

Was wondering some MLS had strong fan supports that providing her monthly cash, but why those supporters never gets upset knowing she is receiving money from her other supporters.
Are they willing or they got no choice just to obey what she do.
实在想不通。

Because it is just a transaction. One willing party willing to give to get service. Why bother if she had other bro supporting her. Unless you bao her she still do business with other bro. Then diff issue. She also need to lay her own expenses ma.

[Edisonoh]

Originally Posted by venusteo89

Be realistic bro. They are here working for the money. That is the reality of life. Back home in china, they probably already have a hubby and kids in tow.

Pay for their services, bring outside to fxxx them etc but that's it. Do not get your feelings involved or it will just be a downwards spiral. Reality of life.

if we are old player in this it will be easy to control it. but I once fell into feeling and not being realistic when I was a newbie bro hahaha

[rapier1978]

Originally Posted by cassey

Just to share my own experience. I met this ML once and from the first time the chemistry was amazing. We just kept laughing and giggling and conversation just flowed. I immediately met her 3 consecutive days and subsequently she didn’t charge me any fees for a few times. We even went to the beach like a couple, went out few times and even spent the night together at her place.

Fast forward about a month later, feeling was still great but she started mentioning she needed to RTC and asked if I can help with her rent. I paid half of that and she RTC. But throughout the 2 weeks there she ghosted me saying that there was poor line there and I accepted.

When she came back somehow it was totally different. The conversations felt awkward and out of the blue one day after I texted the usual good morning text, and she said she doesn’t need someone who only uses the mouth to care and how I couldn’t support her.

From then on, I realized it was all transactional. Took me awhile but I got if it but honestly the sucker in me still feels it was my fault. But oh well life has to go on. Alright thanks for those that read through this

Most of them still have family and kids at home. Due to their educational level the only jobs that can earn money is massage. So best is not fall in love with them.