[Please advise] Broke up with BF?

[MaraGuru]

Originally Posted by Jessyberry

Hi yo people, thank you for all the encouragement you guys give. (Alittle hard for me to reply one by one). I’ve decided to confront him tonight.

Most probably we will break up. But it isn’t easy to find another one.

To be truthful, he wasn’t good at sex at all. I didn’t even squirted once throughout the years. He wasn’t willing to lick me. All he wanted was to dominates me, used me as a sex manikinn.

All these years I been putting myself down pleasing him, buying those sexy sleepwears and uniform to drives up our sex life using my own money.

When I think backwards, it is realise that most of the time is me requesting for sex and he rejected me, ignoring me. We only do it when he want and he will just insert me, no enjoyment for me.

At your age, u already needs something to spice up your sex life? Hmmm, you sure that braless girl is a she or maybe he-she?

[fudgeholic]

He seem to be treating you more of a FB - Fuck&Bochup. He doesn't even try to please you.

Hard to find a boyfriend is not a reason not to break up, it's an excuse. You can always do some other activities to keep yourself occupied. There's guys here willing to help you too. Some girls don't squirt, don't worry too much on it.

It's a matter of mentality. Think of what you want to do and how you want to do it. The more you doubt yourself, the more you can't get things done.

[blacky123444]

Changed BF!!!
Haha anyway am I the only one that find it weird this type of qn came out in this forum?

[MonstarT]

Originally Posted by Jessyberry

👋 I’ve been a silent reader in this forum throughout the years.
Trying to pleased my guy because he always say I am like a sleeping beauty, wouldn’t interact with him in bed. Over the years through this forum, I learn a couple of skills, tried on him... but after a while he tried to ignore me again.

Very recent, I found out he has been going out with a girl privately. There’s is very slutty msg inside his phone sent by the girl. Including of a few selfie with white TOP but no bra on a beach. It is like wtf. But I didn’t question him as he doesn’t like me to look at his phone. So far, there is no evidence of him in bed with the girl. I’ve been researching online mentioning that he should be forgiven, as it is very common to cheat nowadays.

There are times, where he will request to cum on my mouth and face. I wanted him to feel good, so I will agreed on whatever he want. Including weird positions. Though he was my first. I always thought my size is good for him already 36C, abit chubby. Both of us is 22 this year.

Any guys is willing to give suggestions?

First, you need to understand guys. How they think and behave.

You also need to know what you want out of the relationship.

Since you brought up the issue of cheating, you need to be honest with yourself whether you are okay with your partner sleeping around.

[ibanezjem555]

Break up and move on.
Stick around with useless bugger for what ?
Sis TS, you are still young and no need be scared cannot find another one. Anyway, your current one also nothing to shout about.
Already your biological click is ticking. Burn the bridge and don't look back.
Look forward instead.

Rock On Sis

[whatever123]

Originally Posted by Jessyberry

Hi yo people, thank you for all the encouragement you guys give. (Alittle hard for me to reply one by one). I’ve decided to confront him tonight.

Most probably we will break up. But it isn’t easy to find another one.

To be truthful, he wasn’t good at sex at all. I didn’t even squirted once throughout the years. He wasn’t willing to lick me. All he wanted was to dominates me, used me as a sex manikinn.

All these years I been putting myself down pleasing him, buying those sexy sleepwears and uniform to drives up our sex life using my own money.

When I think backwards, it is realise that most of the time is me requesting for sex and he rejected me, ignoring me. We only do it when he want and he will just insert me, no enjoyment for me.

Like everyone said p, I think he’s not deserving of you. Just go bah.

[Fei2019]

Hi, you and your bf still young. I believe he will not settle down with u. You should play around first before u found your Mr Right to settle down. You need to compare. Cannot just stick to 1 guy. If not will regret. Just my opinion. Jiayou.

[balianlee]

So did TS broke up with the BF ?

[r.fowler]

he is taking you for granted obviously because you gave him your first.
Time to let go... u are still young, dont regret in life

[dulanjiao]

If you cannot save the relationship, at least save your dignity. The small hint here and there, doesn't need solid proof his heart is somewhat gone. If you feel that the sparks in this relationship is gone, just let it go like what Marie Kondo would have told you.

But even if you do that, I strongly advise you against doing all sort of stupid things. You know what I mean. Girls uses emotion more than logic mostly, do not let that emotion control you action. At least think about it a few times... Some of those things may sound fun, I am not stopping you, but at least do it when you have a clearer mind, not because you want to let it out due to a break up. You may regret it as it will have some impact in a way or another.

I wish you the best.