Will our future gf/wife a FL before also ??

[cmelater]

Past is past. We don't live forever. Why bear grudges... live and let live. How long can we bear the grudge? lol. Make merry and be happy today.

One uncle I talked to was so cheerful. That was more than a year ago. About 1/2 a year ago.... he died of lung cancer. It then became obvious that he knew he was going liao. Yet, before the inevitable happened, he did whatever he could to make everyone's life around him a better one. But, not everyone has the benefit of having that pre-emptive information. If what we do today like accepting someone's past is to make that person a happier one, why not?

One 20+ gal kena aids cos of blood transfer. Life seemed to have ended for her, but her bf stood by her and even proposed to her. The guy could have been very partial and step out. But, he didn't. We all seemed to have missed the point, which he saw. That was, life is to be lived prospectively. This interview was on the ST sometime ago.

Matter of fact is, do we know when we are going. Make everyday count and worthwhile. At least, if really suay, we take away pleasant memories and leave behind things that make others motivated to strive on.

[blaze85]

Sorry if my english is a bit bad,

I personally tink tat we haf to be see open a bit if we in future enounter our GFs or Spouses used to be in the FL Line. No matter watever the reasons they told u behind the story, We ourselves also haf to tink if nt for us who patronise them, will some of them in the end start a relationship wif some of the brothers in SBF???

They are able to start a relationship with some of the brothers here, its because they able to see that some of us are realli true in helping them to solving some of their problems. If not for us who patronise the FLs, some of us might nt able to understand how the FLs are feeling when we found out our Spouses or GFs used to be in the FL Trade.

If they can change themselves in a relationship or after a marriage, we should nt look at all FLs in this way ba and give each of us a chance to start afresh...