Danger Signs! Need Help!

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by axcel

thanks, brother five stone.... i am giving ourselves a chance that is why i am visiting her hometown..... she's been there since 15th Jan, and would be there till 25th Feb..... i would be there on 12th feb to visit her family and then go to guangzhou for holiday with her on 15th to 19th

also, she did show me an sms of a guy that asked her to come work in his company, no need to do anything... just take pay and be with him..... she told me if i did not keep my promise to come shanghai..... i would never would have seen her again....

now...its her turn to always check on me.... worried that i might look for a hassle free singaporean girl..... or that i would look for someother fling or that i am not serious

bro,

not i want to pour cold water, but:

1. becareful when visiting her family. one ger said i must give them ang pao for few hundred sing when visiting. i think i pay few hundred sing, i rabba the father or mother? no thank u, i run road.

2. sms? haizz. sometime the ger show me lovey dovey sms n ask me to help them reply or even worse they get other guys to give me lovey dovey sms. all these r tio chong xiao ji. sub sub water.

3. last time this charbor very upset when she suspect i seeing other ger. she demand i turn up if not she dont see me liao. is tis true love? no. she say she just dun want fei shui 2 flow into other charbor's pussy.

[dradonsnake77]

well... looks like alot of dis kinda BGR problems around during e CNY...
okie bro axcel always becareful wen u r aboard... looks like u r already in LOVE wif her... so Y ask around 2make urself more complicated... If u didnt love or like her... u wont agreed 2 go all e way jus 2 spend Xmas n CNY wif her n now her families... so let ur BIG head cool off 4 a while...
is she doing all dis jus 2 gain ur trust... as wat other bros had mentioned... throw small fish 2 fish bigger fish... well all dis is jus my toks n questions if i m in ur shoe... u r in e water itself, i m outside e water so i get 2 c e better pictures... NOT u...!!!
tink B4 U ACT...

[orangeox]

Read Thru all the post made by all Bros here....points taken.

I am sorry if I have to Offend anybody here.

This is Just my own point of View.

Point No1:

All advice here is Logical. However This is going to be an affair on the Heart Not Body. Thus NO LOGIC will be Involved. If it is that eaisly Solved, then This post will ot have happened. My old Saying...Man got 3 Head. Top 1 Logical. Bottom 1 Physical. Middle 1 Not Logical Not Physical BUT Emotional.
Don't think logical thinking will help this Bro. As I have said in my 1st line. All Advise here are based on Experience and logic. All answers are going in circles..no ending no begining.

Point No2.

We are talking about a KTV gal. Yes they are Human, Yes they are also a nice gal inside Yes She may not be out there to Con u. nI agree with all.

However, as a KTV gal. She has to make a Living, a living that will make this Bro Unconfortable if He has a soft spot for her, worst still if she has a soft spot for Him.

She still has to make a Living at the end of the Day. If not she would not have started in the 1st place. Halo....Not Easy mentally to Come all the way to SG from China and don't work Ar.....Trust Me. I Stay in CHINA long enough.

Point No 3

Think this Bro already Has the ANSWER in his 1st POST.....this suitation is dangerous for HIM. He cannot decide logically. His 3 Heads or rather 2 heads not agreeing. Top and Middle Not in Harmony. Bottom 1 never mind, it works on Basic Male Instinct.

Point No 4.

If cannot Haddle..then Avoid. Not Matter How Strong we think we are, there's always a soft spot, and this is it. So.Run Lar. Avoid lar. Change HP no lar. Go pay $ and get it done lar. Man have this ability to FcuK 1 woman while thinking he is Fcuking another...."What the Mind Can Concive, It will achieve"

Summary:

If you don't think you can handle it..don't Start!

Cheers

P.S. Sorry if This Post offends anyone..I seldom write so much

[axcel]

thanks to all brothers for your concern..... maybe u all are right..... but is there any brothers out there that have any happy endings ??? care to share your experiences?? although it may be encouraging people to try on such girls.... but if they are willing to change for the better and quit and start life anew, should we not give them a chance??

for my case.... i am still on the advantage.... have not spent a cent on her.... and it has been more of her than me...... but i admit.... i do like her alot......

so guys... for poor souls like us..... any positive stories ?? or words of encouragement??? i believe i am not the only one here.... whom is still single and got mix up with such a situation........

thanks in advance for sharing.....

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by axcel

so guys... for poor souls like us..... any positive stories ?? or words of encouragement??? i believe i am not the only one here.... whom is still single and got mix up with such a situation........
thanks in advance for sharing.....

What else can be more happy than a woman who love you more than you love her? You dont need any more real life stories to convince yourself, all of us had a different path, why not let yours be your own?

[heckcarre]

hmm, a few comments:

1) Doesn't mean Singapore girls (non-ktv) are not after a comfortable life when hooking up with a guy also, just that local girls are luckier. Like some local gals will choose to be with ang mohs the same way china gals view singapore guys, so no matter whether you choose local or china gals, still may end up with a girl who is materialistic.

2) The main problem is, can you accept a ktv girl. If cannot, then just go together as lovers as long as you can, but never discuss marriage, no point, just enjoy the relationship until the point when she wants commitment then move on. This will require a bit of hard heartedness though

3) Think brother ignite should break up with gf if think not rite one lah, don't waste gal's time, esp if dun intend to marry her. Then at least can enjoy AA guilt free, less one problem

4) Better make sure you practise safe sex man, can never be too sure......

just my tots

cheers

[asdfghjkl]

Originally Posted by heckcarre

at least can enjoy AA guilt free

bro.. AA is ??

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

bro.. AA is ??

automobile association? the ktv charbor lah!

[heckcarre]

gee thanks, at least somepeoplegot follow thread...

[Optimus_Prime]

Bro Axcel & Ignite,

I am also stuck in a similar situation as you guys except mine is a TN gal and not a KTV gal.

All I can say is that when ur heart is in knots, it's very hard to have clear thoughts. All these doubts go thru your mind, and you do not what to think. I have spent countless sleepless nights thinking.

Ponder over this bros, if this was a Sin gal would you have so much doubts? It's the exact nature of their job and where they come from (and it's a long way from home, to work here) that makes it hard for us to know what's in their head.

For me... I lay tossing and turning over the Q below.

"Does she sleep around?" - No, she told me. Only with me currently (2 prev, 1 sin married lover & 1 china bf). Well her pussy is still tight so not that far off- i hope.

"Is she after my money?" - Never asked me for $$$, and she always pay 4 her own stuff. Thou I do visit her often at her workplace (just lots of frenching and heavy petting)

"Is she after my citizenship?" - Maybe, cos I'm not rich. heheh..can't even upgrade to sian KTV gal. She says she doesn't want to be tied down, so probably waiting 4 bigger fish.

"Is she seeing someone else?" - Hard to find out, cus so many of her customers sms her everyday. (to fix appt for TN and to sian her) Oh well...

"What does she see in me?" - She likes to say "so long as we happy, everything is ok" Feelings are hardest to ascertain.... she's either Oscar caliber actress or real... onli time will tell

For now, I've decided that I will enjoy the ride as long as I can bear with it. Just let things take their course.... Sometimes the pain is unbearable and you want to get off. But I think everyone wants to experience a "hong hong lie lie de ai" so thats why I'm still in it.

So HANG TOUGH bro Axcel & Ignite

Even if it all turns to nought in the future at least you have some happy memories of your times together.

Experience the journey and not the destination !!

Just my point of view. From a bro who's stuck in the same boat.

[axcel]

well.... brothers.... time will tell....whether she is true or not.....still a long way to go and see whether she is able to endure all the obstacles and hassles to be with me.....

me now dont think too far (although she is the one that is wishing that it will have a "Pretty Woman" ending)

cheers bros...... would update you all during my trip to her hometown during CNY

wish me good luck

[heckcarre]

Bro Axcel,

Good luck! Do note that somebody did bring up a point about to bring angpow/present though. Even though your gal may not be materialistic but her family may,hard to say lah, you know some older folks.....

Anyway, all the best!!

[Kilograms]

Hey Axcel, be warned.....when you follow her to her hometown, you are in her land....and the kampong ppl are very strict about woman bringing home guys, worse, the parent will even treat you as a son-in -law even before you could say "aunty or uncle". Now , you are stuck in this situation when she queitly called home & tell her parent to prepare for wedding ceremony....with all the kampong ppl invited...., think again, if you say 'NO'......what will happen ...the villagers are nasty ppl.....

NOW YOU GOT "CHECK-MATE" PALLLLL........

PS: BTW, SG or PRC gals, all shit with the same smell....its only how they clean it.....Singapore way or the PRC way

[tanterry]

Originally Posted by gladimhunk

Ingnite , you have a GF .

What if it's the other way round ... your GF goes to KTV , found a handsome charming caring guy with a huge cock ten times longer and thicker than yours, He clicks to her...

Now, they way you would hope your GF to react in the above situation, would be how you would want to react in your current situation .

If you have Love.

Yes, I do agree with you even though you kenna chop points for your views.

To the bro who start this thread, stick to your girlfriend even though she could be nasty to you sometime. At least, she is letting you know her emotion. Afterall, one day she is likely to be the on who drops tears if you are down.

To sexify your lust over AA... After getting your aim to bed her, you should hint to her, can be her lover but not bf. Fuck & Forget lah

Good luck

[Optimus_Prime]

To bro ignite,
u still need more time to see if this is going to work out. If u think u can bear the heart pain later on, just carry on and see where this takes you. U never noe... there's always a chance it could be good though chances are not high. and if it turned out bad, you will be in a world of hurt be warned. if it turns out gd...then best wishes to u.

To bro axcel,
take heed of the warning signs when u there. always have backup plan in case. But I can only wish you the BEST of LUCK and hope everything turns out ok.

"I used to see only the BAD side of things but now I strive to have a BALANCED mind-view but with a tinge of OPTIMISTIC."