The Things they're capable of PRCs

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by kefuso

C'mon let's look for xx tmr and eat froggy again..I'll observe and share with you what I find and you tell me if I am right or wrong..what say you?

Wow....so fast hand fast leg going to look for XX again huh.....Bro Kefuso, seems like u are KCed too, whahahaha, must be feeling sweet sweet shiok shiok hor Just kidding Bro.

I guess its Christmas Week and the PRC Meimeis increased their KCing power to the max. hoping slaughter Bros for Christmas LV, Gold, Omega and Rolex Good excuse to demand for gifts now.

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by colins

I am not fit the least to be in any position to provide advice as I had recently been a victim myself. In fact, it is much easier saying about others than to see it happening to myself.

Bro Colins, I don't know whats your story but why so bothered about that? But any juicy reports you would like to share with me???.........whahaha....kidding Bro.

I guess now with the current economical situation, its best to pay more attention in our career or business. Don't be too bothered about how other sees us and also we don't need to put up a defensive front needing to prove something, if so, we are just adding stress to ourselves and be pressurised unnecessarily. Sometimes we fall, sometimes we achieved.....need not hang on to loss and gain that strongly - but many times when we lost someone very dear to us, we felt pain and hurt, thats very natural, and because we are human - not because we are weak.

Well thats what I felt personally....not targetted at anyone, just sharing with all how I felt above life.

Cheers

[shanshen]

as the sayings goes..what yours is yours..it it wasn't..it never was..

after learing the matching combination of birthdate for couples to see if they are compatible..i will always check the b/d of the girl and combine it with mine to see if there is any strong match or just a "buaya desire" to makan u..


if u are looking for serious kcing..than if the match is perfect..bingo..u have the right partner..if not...just screw and dump and move on...

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

U CAN KEEP THE KIDS....I DUN WANNA HV ANYTHING TO DO WIF THEM!!!!!

Such statements or actions can be explained but its beyond logic.....some kind of mother she is.....some PRCs simply sucks, but then others are so damn 'lovely' before they turned into the devil if they ever do......humans are so unpredictable......thats why we have the stock market going up and down daily because its market driven.

[goodfun]

Originally Posted by 1000 Apologies

any relationship that start w $$ is doomed to fail

truthly agree

[DO_YOU_BJ]

KCing is an art.
Why so? For one to totally remove their emotional aspect of being a human being, and treating you like an investment, is really not a simple thing.
I always say, pin pointing at others is as easy as 1-2-3...try doing that to yourself, now that'll be a real challenge.

We are human, yes, we all have feelings, yes...but we must remember, IT CAN BE CONTROLLED!
When going to such places, we must NEVER be human...externally, yes, but internally, you shud not have a heart at all. Why? Cos you aint getting any from them either........
The stage is set on who becomes a victim the minute 2 can click! The minute the one uses humanity to treat the other, it's already over. Why? Ghost and human's aint meant to be together. One can love, where the other can only harm.

For bros who have cheong wif me, as you all can see, can be very nice, but always awake, alert and hyper sensitive to every little action and word......the minute you allow your comfort zone to set in, you're finished!

As for now, in these troubled times, KCing will be on a all time high...men depressed, stressed and looking for solace and outlets.......its duck season for the WLs.......so do be very aware.

What is worth loving? What is not? What is worth cherishing and what is not.
To me it's this.

I will always love someone who loves or once loved me............And will always cherish her in my heart! Why, she deserves a place there!
But, I will never want to keep any filth in my body, cos it was never real, was all an act, a dream and its over....wake up, move on and start loving yourself again...hey, you never really owe anyone except yourself. If you wanna continue living in a dream that isnt there anymore, hey, go ahead, for the only one who suffers and looses out, is yourself.

Remember, at who's expense are you suffering at? You're so torn, so bitter, so much yearning etc etc etc.....but hey, she's enjoying herself, being wif the one she wants.....definitely totally opposite to how you're feeling........again, it's your own free will to choose the path you wanna walk.

[slider_72]

Wah, 大哥 today sound so philosophical.

On the subject of KC, actually I am getting a bit confused. We all know that all cheongster should avoid being KCed. What confuses me is the definition of being KCed and what are the symptoms of a person who is KCed.

Lets take one end of the spectrum. A bro takes a FL off the street, fucks her brain out and walk out of the hotel. He doesn't bother asking for her name or number and their conversation is limited to negotiating the price. Very obviously there is no KC involved at all.

On the other end of the spectrum, another bro may be so madly in love with a WL that he is prepared to marry her, give up his wife, kids, parents, career, etc just to be with her. Now this chap is seriously KCed.

Most of us fall in between these two ends of the spectrum.

Let's say a bro goes to a KTV and developed a liking for a particular girl he sat with. After that, each time he goes back to that KTV, he will ask that same girl to sit with him. Pays her the normal market rate tips, goes for bonks and again pays normal market rate tariffs. There may even be some flirting in the day via smses. Obviously there must be sufficient attraction in order for the guy to do something like that but the WL is not one which the guy looses sleep over at night, and it is not going to be a big deal for him if she suddenly disappears one day.

For a guy in such a situation, do you senior gentlemen of the Learned Council think he is KCed?

问世间KC为何物

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Ok 老大 me try my best to reply you based on my very very virgin knowledge hor!!!!!
Wah, 大哥 today sound so philosophical.
Sleep enuff liao la

On the subject of KC, actually I am getting a bit confused. We all know that all cheongster should avoid being KCed. What confuses me is the definition of being KCed and what are the symptoms of a person who is KCed.
The word KC says it all. 感情? What is it? How does one really express this word into realism? IMHO, it's when someone is attached......to wat degree? Well, again, the spectrum is broad.......some can feel a liking of that person...so when the person is not around, the feeling is kinda weird.....but that's about it....but then again, this is the prelude to KC to the second degree.
Of course, the extreme is literally putting the person in your personal space and if not there, your whole world upside down.

Lets take one end of the spectrum. A bro takes a FL off the street, fucks her brain out and walk out of the hotel. He doesn't bother asking for her name or number and their conversation is limited to negotiating the price. Very obviously there is no KC involved at all.
Yuppers bro, that's what we all know as comm sex

On the other end of the spectrum, another bro may be so madly in love with a WL that he is prepared to marry her, give up his wife, kids, parents, career, etc just to be with her. Now this chap is seriously KCed.
Yeah, and we know several who are like that already ya!

Most of us fall in between these two ends of the spectrum.
Obviously

Let's say a bro goes to a KTV and developed a liking for a particular girl he sat with. After that, each time he goes back to that KTV, he will ask that same girl to sit with him. Pays her the normal market rate tips, goes for bonks and again pays normal market rate tariffs. There may even be some flirting in the day via smses. Obviously there must be sufficient attraction in order for the guy to do something like that but the WL is not one which the guy looses sleep over at night, and it is not going to be a big deal for him if she suddenly disappears one day.
This is not uncommon. The moral of the story for your statement or scenario above show that KC is not involved........for 2 persons to enjoy each others company, they must click...so clicking wif someone will actually make your nite more enjoyable...this i'm very sure bros here will agree.


For a guy in such a situation, do you senior gentlemen of the Learned Council think he is KCed?
It'll be more of a 友情 than 感情 that's Y even if the WL disappears, the guy feels near nottin. But then again, this is threading on a very thin line.......for falling over to KC will be very easy...all it takes is timing, moment and mood! So be very awake my brother!
问世间KC为何物

[Steadyman1]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Let's say a bro goes to a KTV and developed a liking for a particular girl he sat with. After that, each time he goes back to that KTV, he will ask that same girl to sit with him. Pays her the normal market rate tips, goes for bonks and again pays normal market rate tariffs. There may even be some flirting in the day via smses. Obviously there must be sufficient attraction in order for the guy to do something like that but the WL is not one which the guy looses sleep over at night, and it is not going to be a big deal for him if she suddenly disappears one day.

Just sharing my view and not as senior (SBF) like many of you.
Would consider this situation has half half and very close to the boarder of crossing over to be KCed.

Once the KTV girl stop taking money from him, be it in KTV or bonking and has been making calls daily, there the boarder has crossed.

Liking one companion is at that point e.g. during KTV or bonking and should not have daily calls and FOC. The danger is there however if the brother has a clear mind, he should not cross the boarder.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Steadyman1

The danger is there however if the brother has a clear mind, he should not cross the boarder.

Well said my friend, like i always say:
A CLEAR MIND IS A DANGEROUS MIND!
Kudos bro

[DO_I_BJ]

Originally Posted by profane

His old nick is dead.


jojogigi

how u know its me?

[slider_72]

Hmmm.... the more I get exposed to this game, the more complex it seems. The line between the safe zone and the danger zone seems so thin. I guess I shall cross the river by feeling for the stones.

[kefuso]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Well said my friend, like i always say:
A CLEAR MIND IS A DANGEROUS MIND!
Kudos bro

OMG, no wonder I fall deeper after each meeting with her, cos I always meet her in a confused mind, a mind where I fantasized about our future, blissful and happily together...but in reality, there is no future...

Guess it's never easy to have a clear mind in such instances, esp for pple like me...always cloudy and building my own dream, happily counting stars at home, awaiting for my love to be reciprocated...guess I'll always be screwed by ktv gals cos I'm too dumb to learn anything...only hope is that damage will be minimized each time...less suffering...less agony...maybe I owed her in my previous life? When can I ever learn to be like them, devil in human form?

[xyz1001]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Well said my friend, like i always say:
A CLEAR MIND IS A DANGEROUS MIND!
Kudos bro

Is dangerous because it is powerful... AND addictive.

Originally Posted by slider_72

Hmmm.... the more I get exposed to this game, the more complex it seems. The line between the safe zone and the danger zone seems so thin. I guess I shall cross the river by feeling for the stones.

Be honest with yourself and ask yourself this question,
Can you stop all contacts with her immediately?
If yes, still in the safe zone.
If no, think u cross the border already.

[Wooden_Handle]

Seems like I missed all the fun last week when I was struggling with customer in Ozzie land... haizzz