[Please advise] Broke up with BF?

[HeLovesMe]

TS, your bf might not be your future hubby. Unmarried men here will queue up to be your next bf and dream hubby.

[brightnimo]

Wanna reply your PM but your inbox full full... Kik talk me? id is same as - brightnimo

[acidicavex]

Well u are young and u are a gal what is there to be afraid off to move along to the next better one that will take care of u.

Like a bro mention u know the answer to your own question u just want reassurance to that answer. And looking at the advise from all u already got that confirmation of the answer inside u.

Cheers have a great life ahead letting go doesn't mean the end of the world for u. It just a phase in all our human life.

[buahahaha]

I am sorry to hear your predicament.

I think he loves you but just like any guy his age, he has a high sex drive and sexual curiosity. If you truely love him and are really happy together with him, why not explore his sex fantasy as well as yours together.

In sex for guys, we like to give as well as receive. For example, I like to be oralled but I also like my girl to request for stuffs she enjoys. In this way, I feel closer to her as I know I am needed to fulfil her sexual needs. If I am always on the receiving ends, I feel a void.

As for the messages he exchanged with the girls, Nobody will be able to guess his intention. However at 22, it is not surprising he may get distracted by other girls but that does not mean he doesnt love you. He is after all a guy.

Do not be disheartened. Enjoy the relationship and sex.

[godwit]

Originally Posted by Jessyberry

👋 I’ve been a silent reader in this forum throughout the years.

Find someone who adores you and not reverse,

[valkyrierune]

Just move on.

Since both are grown up, we know there are better things out there.

I had just leave my ex. She is very good to me but, alot of narcissistic & blaming war issue which triggers me to leave her for good.

She does not move on and things got worse.

There are really better things out there. Achieve your goals, dreams and love will come one day

[Jessyberry]

Originally Posted by ToMakeLuv

This relationship wont last long. If a guy starts giving u the bo chup attitude, its time to rethink your relationship status

This is why I have been considering. And I wanted some assurance that my choice is right. Probably I was scare of been alone again.

[Jessyberry]

Originally Posted by Souledge

You are still young.. you should look around more.. as when he bo chup you.. you could try.. but you had to be prepared as well

I could try? Try of what? Cheat on him?

[Jessyberry]

Originally Posted by TiestoIsAss

If he does not care about how you feel, he is not worth for you.

This is how I feel it too. Sometimes I been think probably a one night stand partner might be even better off him.

[Jessyberry]

Originally Posted by Tai_zi21

Like I always say ppl don’t come here to ask for advise... they already know what they Wan and they Wan someone to confirm their answer for them

So I hope my advise is the same as what you are thinking

3 words

Let him go

Thanks for the encouragement.

[Jessyberry]

Originally Posted by Cross_

TS. As someone who has been in a relationship with 3 cheating females (unlucky lol), my best advice would be for you to break up with him asap.

Yes, it may be hard, but trust me, breaking up with him at this point is a million times better than breaking up when you realise he's fucking someone else behind your back. Delaying this relationship will burn both your mental and physical energy. Waste your youth, time and money.

Don't bother satisfying him with all this fantasies/fetish, because i'm pretty sure there'll be another guy out there who actually loves you and you'll enjoy the sex instead of letting him "feel good".

Smirks. I wasn’t sure I was letting him feeling good but what I am sure that he wasn’t really good at sex too. I didn’t even squirt once throughout the years.

[Jessyberry]

Hi yo people, thank you for all the encouragement you guys give. (Alittle hard for me to reply one by one). I’ve decided to confront him tonight.

Most probably we will break up. But it isn’t easy to find another one.

To be truthful, he wasn’t good at sex at all. I didn’t even squirted once throughout the years. He wasn’t willing to lick me. All he wanted was to dominates me, used me as a sex manikinn.

All these years I been putting myself down pleasing him, buying those sexy sleepwears and uniform to drives up our sex life using my own money.

When I think backwards, it is realise that most of the time is me requesting for sex and he rejected me, ignoring me. We only do it when he want and he will just insert me, no enjoyment for me.

[littleidiot]

Love yourself more, because if you don't even do that to yourself, then very hard to get basic respect or even others to love u. 22 only, still young lah

[NorthEastBrom]

Originally Posted by godwit

Find someone who adores you and not reverse,

I was trying to say the same,

[dragonroxs]

I will help you squirt then