Dumped because you are poor

[Atta]

Originally Posted by senters89

bro, what if you tried so hard, but only get so far. she is still in your mind.
I know many brothers will tell us the following reasons:

1) try exercise etc etc
2) keep yourself busy
3) you are young, jus move on
4) she is not worth your tear
5) etc etc

Don you brothers have a woman you cant forget, it is easy to say, some ppl tried so hard. Is it really so easy to move on? I have seem ppl getting drunk, drugs, gamble trying to forget. It is not easy. sometime it is not easy. there is not alt delete and enter. no restart power, cannot hold your on/off button for 5 seconds then it get restart.

the fact is you only live once, but don't the fact is also that you only loved a woman the most once.

Senters89

It is different for each person. No offence to you, but if I were to be dumped for being poor, I would thank the person for not wasting my time and wish her the best. I would only blame myself if I cannot get over this relationship that seemingly values money over person. Even if I manage to salvage this relationship, there is no telling the relationship will fail again in the future due to money issues.

To each his own.

[senters89]

Originally Posted by Atta

It is different for each person. No offence to you, but if I were to be dumped for being poor, I would thank the person for not wasting my time and wish her the best. I would only blame myself if I cannot get over this relationship that seemingly values money over person. Even if I manage to salvage this relationship, there is no telling the relationship will fail again in the future due to money issues.

To each his own.

Ya brother, i totally agreed, there is no way to salvage a R/s like this, you cant change her thinking.
Bite the bullet and go through it.

[Neogeo]

As many had mentioned, the keyword is unambitious. Women will never give you a straight answer but we all know their pussy is golden and only offer to FT with high pay check. Accept the fact, find yourself another girl that truly love you for what you're.

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by senters89

bro, what if you tried so hard, but only get so far. she is still in your mind.
I know many brothers will tell us the following reasons:

1) try exercise etc etc
2) keep yourself busy
3) you are young, jus move on
4) she is not worth your tear
5) etc etc

Don you brothers have a woman you cant forget, it is easy to say, some ppl tried so hard. Is it really so easy to move on? I have seem ppl getting drunk, drugs, gamble trying to forget. It is not easy. sometime it is not easy. there is not alt delete and enter. no restart power, cannot hold your on/off button for 5 seconds then it get restart.

the fact is you only live once, but don't the fact is also that you only loved a woman the most once.

Senters89

This kind of pain do not disappear in a day or even a week. There is also no magic bullet to expedite the healing. You have to wait it out, let time numbs the pain. Your friends advice is right keep yourself occupied to take away the time you spend thinking about her. Stay strong!

[Archerguard]

Originally Posted by senters89

Totally agreed with your 2 comments my brother.

1) Sometime what people see is how bad the girl treat you, just like MY SASSY GF. but you know when someone tell you the true it is another way of comforting you, the one who love you truly will tell you the true. these true words can be hurting and cause you low moral. you think the KTV will tell you things that are not nice? haha

2) There are not many Ms right, the most to most 1 or 2 ba.

brother. . . . . . . . .

regards to 1) the one who love you truly will tell you the hidden true. it is the truth yet at the same time, she don't hurts you while being able to keep your fire and dreams high. if you ever met someone like i have just described, never let her go.

a rich person doesn't indicate success. . while a poor person doesn't indicate anything bad. . the different lies in each person's different lifestyle. . this is not quote by me. . it is quoted by a billionaire.

regards to 2) there are more Ms than you can ever imagine. local ladies. tons of them out there waiting to be swept off their feets by you. so do you want or not? that is the main question to yourself.

[orangeproud]

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by senters89

Brothers, any one got dumped by a girl before because she say you are too poor?

Any story to share?

There are good girls around.
We have to look.

Calling her man lack of ambition and dumps him is simply lack of respect for her man. As good as a man calling his wife ugly and so he thinks he is entitled to dump her.

An ambitious man will never satisfy himself with one woman. But many women fail to recognise this. A simple old idiom best reflects this.

男人不坏女人不爱
A woman loves only a man who is also popular with other women.

[maxsee]

True love is not falling in love simply because you got no money...If she is earning a decent salary while you are jobless, it does not make sense for her to love you....Who in the rite frame of mind would make their life worse when they are single unless they are bonkers...

People only gets together if their life will be better if they are together...No one will get together to make their life worse...If their life going to be worse if they are with you, might as well be single...so much better.

If a girl loves you coz u are poor...most likely she is poor herself and don't have much choices....

[hugs]

Originally Posted by Maxlion

So far nope...I am poor but not dumped yet..

There is still good womans around..dun lose hope

Because your sex is good.

[Atta]

Originally Posted by hugs

Because your sex is good.

I am somewhat reminded of the phrase "No money, no honey". It seems that what comes after should be "Got good sex still can have honey"...

[vampangel]

why can't anyone see this?

[Atta]

Originally Posted by vampangel

why can't anyone see this?

People do see this. However, seeing and interpreting are two different issues.

One may interpret it as the $10 person giving everything, as compared to the other who only gives 10%.

Or...

One may interpret it as the whole of what the $10 person can give, cannot even be compared to 10% of what the other can offer.

It may be sad, but it is true.

[senters89]

Many people make mistake in life, loving the wrong person is either a mistake or a lesson to learn. Many that are heart broken solve it many ways.

Story 1: i have a friend(J) who fall in love with a China KTV working in Shanghai, she find her different from any other girl who work in this industry. The girl accompany him throughout his 4 day work trip there. They had sex, eat,shopping blah blah. If you guys had been to Shanghai before you will know the standard of living is far more expensive then SG. Even a H&M Uniloq shop cost 2-3times then sg.

When they went shopping around and for meals, the girl will go on dutch with J, she will not ask J to pay for any of her shoppings even when he offer to do so. At the end of the 4th day, is about time for J to return to sg. He handed over RMB5000 to the girl, as tip. The girl keep it and sent him to airport. (J never realise he under paid the girl until me and my china colleague told him, the rate he paid is cheap) the average rate for tabao 1 night in Shanghai high class KTV is RMB 2500-RMB3000 per night.The girl accompany him a full 3 night, it will easily cost you 7-9K RMB.

J had a very hurt r/s before and he alway tell us he will not want to fall in love again. But this time, he fall for her.

When J asked around, we alway advise him not to get hook, afterall she is a 夜场的女人, make she wan a PR in SG. He believe he had nothing to lose, so he just never think too much.

To be continue!

[redhun]

Originally Posted by vampangel

why can't anyone see this?

Nice one, one should never just look at the surface.

[hugs]

Originally Posted by vampangel

why can't anyone see this?

Lifestyle.