Who here got 2 time gf, wife before? Can share experience?

[hunter12]

have before... feeling is thrilling and exciting and very tiring.... mental n physical... must rush here n there.. then when go out is the most tired de.... must eye big big to see around cause if OC friends saw it than that it liao... haha..

[late bloomer]

Originally Posted by tiger2009

Hi Bros,

Here is my story. It is all true. It happend many years ago.

The rest of the week, she stayed with me in the hotel like husband and wife and we had sex every night. She began to enjoy it the 3rd night I think. After that I went back to China about 3 more times but after that I was given local projects only so we stop seeing each other. At first we continue email but after a while lost the momentum and the relationship died naturally. I continued my relationship with my local gf in Singapore for another year or so and then we broke up. I think she gave up on me after she realized I was not into her.

Nice bittersweet story bro. Thx for sharing.

[desireme88]

Originally Posted by skarlett

How about if your gf two or three time you? In view of choosing right partner/dick ? You able to stomach that?

Well SaiD!!

[Gentle Beast]

Originally Posted by tiger2009

Hi Bros,

Here is my story. It is all true. It happend many years ago.

In 2001, I worked for MNC and did regional job and China was a regular trip (once a month). At that time, I got gf in Singapore, let's call her J. J got very nice facial features and fair skin but her boobs so-so. I never satisfied with her boobs. So every time, J and I had sex I did not want to take her bra off. Her boobs sagged. She was only 22 and I was 26. I think her ex also did not like her boobs.
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The rest of the week, she stayed with me in the hotel like husband and wife and we had sex every night. She began to enjoy it the 3rd night I think. After that I went back to China about 3 more times but after that I was given local projects only so we stop seeing each other. At first we continue email but after a while lost the momentum and the relationship died naturally. I continued my relationship with my local gf in Singapore for another year or so and then we broke up. I think she gave up on me after she realized I was not into her.

This 19 year old should be about 31 now. I suppose these days, whenever you happen to walk on the streets in China, your eyes will be looking around and wondering about the chances that you might actually bump into her again, haha! I know the feeling and for me, your story resonates with mine a long time ago. Memories such as these are hard to put away. Enjoy!

[jialatjinjin]

Originally Posted by VirginBoy1990

I have a gf and I was asked to go to China for a short term assignment (1 year) last year, so my gf stayed behind in sg for her work.

I met a pretty china girl there via work, not FL or anything, really just a normal china girl working a 8 to 5 job. At first I was just feeling lonely so I talked and flirted with her. She reciprocated. After going out for dinner, I told her I am not looking for anything serious because mine is a short term assignment, we can just go out and have fun. She agreed.

As time went by and we met and interacted during work (different company but will meet sometimes for certain projects) and we went out for dinners and movies (we never did anything sexual), she started saying strange things to me like calling me dear, or asking me about Singapore employment policies, whether it is easy for china people to find work there. She said she wanted to spend more time with me in Singapore. At this point, I knew she liked me for real.

So I told her I did not want a relationship. She cried and from then on she started avoiding me. When she was gone, I realised that I do like her in some way. Perhaps it was loneliness because I did not see my gf for the last 6 months? Or did I like her? Or was it a matter of pride because I failed to do anything sexual with her? Maybe it was because of these 3 reasons I asked her out again and she agreed.

This time I held her hand. I did not know what went over me but I just wanted to do it. She was happy and I was happy as well. All this while, I did not tell her I had a gf in sg. I was afraid that she will leave me after that.

Then there were some misunderstandings nearer to the date I was coming back to Singapore. I just felt that she had nelgected me over her other friends. It was something stupid and we argued but part of why I wanted to argue was that I was tired too. Trying to 2 time is no easy thing because you have to cover your tracks. In the end I chose my sg gf and I wanted to end this with the china girl. And I did end this.

I am now here with my gf and she is happy that I am back. I however cried the first few nights when I was back because I really missed the china girl. Lesson learnt for me is that 2 timing is very draining on all parties, not only for the girl but for the guy as well. I realise why some bros here said best is just bonk and go, don't get any mistress.

Like to hear any bros got any mistress or 2 timing stories to share as well, and how did it end.

Cheers

only one word.

POK!!!

if you carry on.

sure POK GAI. in terms of physical and financial.

[G.T.O]

Originally Posted by VirginBoy1990

I have a gf and I was asked to go to China for a short term assignment (1 year) last year, so my gf stayed behind in sg for her work.

I met a pretty china girl there via work, not FL or anything, really just a normal china girl working a 8 to 5 job. At first I was just feeling lonely so I talked and flirted with her. She reciprocated. After going out for dinner, I told her I am not looking for anything serious because mine is a short term assignment, we can just go out and have fun. She agreed.

As time went by and we met and interacted during work (different company but will meet sometimes for certain projects) and we went out for dinners and movies (we never did anything sexual), she started saying strange things to me like calling me dear, or asking me about Singapore employment policies, whether it is easy for china people to find work there. She said she wanted to spend more time with me in Singapore. At this point, I knew she liked me for real.

So I told her I did not want a relationship. She cried and from then on she started avoiding me. When she was gone, I realised that I do like her in some way. Perhaps it was loneliness because I did not see my gf for the last 6 months? Or did I like her? Or was it a matter of pride because I failed to do anything sexual with her? Maybe it was because of these 3 reasons I asked her out again and she agreed.

This time I held her hand. I did not know what went over me but I just wanted to do it. She was happy and I was happy as well. All this while, I did not tell her I had a gf in sg. I was afraid that she will leave me after that.

Then there were some misunderstandings nearer to the date I was coming back to Singapore. I just felt that she had nelgected me over her other friends. It was something stupid and we argued but part of why I wanted to argue was that I was tired too. Trying to 2 time is no easy thing because you have to cover your tracks. In the end I chose my sg gf and I wanted to end this with the china girl. And I did end this.

I am now here with my gf and she is happy that I am back. I however cried the first few nights when I was back because I really missed the china girl. Lesson learnt for me is that 2 timing is very draining on all parties, not only for the girl but for the guy as well. I realise why some bros here said best is just bonk and go, don't get any mistress.

Like to hear any bros got any mistress or 2 timing stories to share as well, and how did it end.

Cheers

from 2nd last paragraph...

" I however cried the first few nights when I was back..."

And I thought it was because your conscience was pricking you
It was an unexpected unintentional (conjured) twist. Haha

[senny86]

reading from the professional bro here who can 2 timed, how did you guys managed to split those time with 2 different gals?

its really amazing, i would like to learn a trick or 2 to be a good organizer...

its is really really not easy..