A man can love to go to bed a woman but will never love her?

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by devilhasfallen

II guess for you guys, this is normal treatment for women you don't like right?

This is normal treatment for comfort women. Ladies whom guys only contact when guys need a free pussy. All those lovey-dovey talk is just to create a more conducive mood during sex. There is no meaning behind the words. It's like lighting candles during sex to create a mood. After sex, can blow off the candle till the next time there is sex. You know why he come to find you instead of going to Geylang? Because Geylang need to pay.

I know my words are harsh but hopefully you can use the harshness to move on and move away from him. This guy is manipulative. Do a test, tell him that fron now on, you will only have sex with your bf. Ask him if he will like to be your bf. Say you will like to meet his parents as his gf. See how he reacts.

[devilhasfallen]

Originally Posted by see see only

TS,

Relationship i would say .... is like dancing Cha- cha- cha with a willing partner ..

You taken 3 steps backward already ... now is time for you to take 3 steps forward maybe a twist & turn or side2side to go along ... however if this guy is not interested .... this graceful relationship will not works ... should that be the case, i reckon you change another "dance" partner

Good luck

yup... must find a suitable partner. thanks.

Originally Posted by Xgenre

This is normal treatment for comfort women. Ladies whom guys only contact when guys need a free pussy. All those lovey-dovey talk is just to create a more conducive mood during sex. There is no meaning behind the words. It's like lighting candles during sex to create a mood. After sex, can blow off the candle till the next time there is sex. You know why he come to find you instead of going to Geylang? Because Geylang need to pay.

I know my words are harsh but hopefully you can use the harshness to move on and move away from him. This guy is manipulative. Do a test, tell him that fron now on, you will only have sex with your bf. Ask him if he will like to be your bf. Say you will like to meet his parents as his gf. See how he reacts.

You are so right... And you hit the bullet. He does not want to be in a relationship. Anyways, I have come to my senses after re-reading his messages to me... He has been trying to tell me that I am just a substitute which I refused to acknowledge all the while, thinking that I will be able to change his mind.

[Darina]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

This is normal treatment for comfort women. Ladies whom guys only contact when guys need a free pussy. All those lovey-dovey talk is just to create a more conducive mood during sex. There is no meaning behind the words. It's like lighting candles during sex to create a mood. After sex, can blow off the candle till the next time there is sex. You know why he come to find you instead of going to Geylang? Because Geylang need to pay.

I know my words are harsh but hopefully you can use the harshness to move on and move away from him. This guy is manipulative. Do a test, tell him that fron now on, you will only have sex with your bf. Ask him if he will like to be your bf. Say you will like to meet his parents as his gf. See how he reacts.

Listen to Xgenre, although his words might be hard to swallow.

Therefore, if you enjoy his bed skills just live with it and don't expect more.
Listen to his sweet nothings just for the moment and tell yourself there is nothing after.

If he is a so-so lover only, might be better off finding someone new.

[devilhasfallen]

Originally Posted by Darina

Listen to Xgenre, although his words might be hard to swallow.

Therefore, if you enjoy his bed skills just live with it and don't expect more.
Listen to his sweet nothings just for the moment and tell yourself there is nothing after.

If he is a so-so lover only, might be better off finding someone new.

He is straight to the point and draws a very clear picture... Now I know what I am taken for.

I hope I can find someone who seriously like me soon!

[ArseAnal]

Yes TS, these women only meant to F&F, don't apply wrong feeling & emotion onto them

[Kigo San]

Originally Posted by devilhasfallen

He is straight to the point and draws a very clear picture... Now I know what I am taken for.

I hope I can find someone who seriously like me soon!

" Love 101",
Do not desparate for love, rather let it come when u least expect it.
when love comes, do not shy away, fuxk the brainy out of your guy.
Do not seek to be love, rather seek to understand and embrace love.
when the cupid hit and U hitch, leave some room for respect and flow.

My guess u r still rather young in love, age wise might not be, not to worry, there are lots of Wolfs here to be spare. or you go for I-nun.

[dudenumber1]

Originally Posted by devilhasfallen

I have no needs for STDs.

Just curious what makes u think he does not have STD and he does not sleep around?

[janelee]

Originally Posted by devilhasfallen

Any guys can enlighten me on the topic?

How do men differentiate it so clearly?

He can say that he gets hard the moment he sees me and loves me in bed with him but he don't like me...

Hi devilhasfallen,

Seems like we're in the same predicament. My ex who used to love fucking me still wants to bed me after we have broken up for more than a year, and I stupidly fell for his tricks (and spent a night tgt) after bumping into him @ zouk. So now I feel like a once-in-awhile gf, or should i say FB, to him, and the feeling SUX when he doesnt call/sms when he is with his gf.

But the diff with Sis devilhasfallen is....... He says he loves me.

Should I believe him? Any advice bros?

[shctaw]

Man will say anything to bed you. If he love you; it will not be from his mouth. He will do thing from his feeling and his heart. You will feel it too.

If you hear "I love you" at least once a day. It is usually fake.

Just ask yourself when is the last time he really care about you when you are down or bring you to the doctor when you are sick. Does he walk away when you cry; and does he even want to hold your hand in public? Does he kiss you in the cheek once a while? Does he hold your hand and kiss it with his lip when you are not on the bed? Does he ever care about what happen in your family? Does he help your family at all? Does he even ask about your family? Do he look angry and rejected when you refuse to have sex?

All it voice down to one thing only: Does he care about you?

Originally Posted by janelee

Hi devilhasfallen,

Seems like we're in the same predicament. My ex who used to love fucking me still wants to bed me after we have broken up for more than a year, and I stupidly fell for his tricks (and spent a night tgt) after bumping into him @ zouk. So now I feel like a once-in-awhile gf, or should i say FB, to him, and the feeling SUX when he doesnt call/sms when he is with his gf.

But the diff with Sis devilhasfallen is....... He says he loves me.

Should I believe him? Any advice bros?

[shctaw]

A man can love to go to bed a woman but will never love her?

Answer: Man does it all the time. If man only Fuck when love... all Brothels in Geylang will close door.

Fucking in animal world is to reproduce. In human world is to have fun. When do you need love to have fun?

[sane]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

This is normal treatment for comfort women. Ladies whom guys only contact when guys need a free pussy. All those lovey-dovey talk is just to create a more conducive mood during sex. There is no meaning behind the words. It's like lighting candles during sex to create a mood. After sex, can blow off the candle till the next time there is sex. You know why he come to find you instead of going to Geylang? Because Geylang need to pay.

I know my words are harsh but hopefully you can use the harshness to move on and move away from him. This guy is manipulative. Do a test, tell him that fron now on, you will only have sex with your bf. Ask him if he will like to be your bf. Say you will like to meet his parents as his gf. See how he reacts.

Originally Posted by shctaw

Man will say anything to bed you. If he love you; it will not be from his mouth. He will do thing from his feeling and his heart. You will feel it too.

If you hear "I love you" at least once a day. It is usually fake.

Just ask yourself when is the last time he really care about you when you are down or bring you to the doctor when you are sick. Does he walk away when you cry; and does he even want to hold your hand in public? Does he kiss you in the cheek once a while? Does he hold your hand and kiss it with his lip when you are not on the bed? Does he ever care about what happen in your family? Does he help your family at all? Does he even ask about your family? Do he look angry and rejected when you refuse to have sex?

All it voice down to one thing only: Does he care about you?

Originally Posted by shctaw

A man can love to go to bed a woman but will never love her?

Answer: Man does it all the time. If man only Fuck when love... all Brothels in Geylang will close door.

Fucking in animal world is to reproduce. In human world is to have fun. When do you need love to have fun?

Straight to the bull eye....Gals, dun be stupid.

[n30n]

Originally Posted by janelee

Hi devilhasfallen,

Seems like we're in the same predicament. My ex who used to love fucking me still wants to bed me after we have broken up for more than a year, and I stupidly fell for his tricks (and spent a night tgt) after bumping into him @ zouk. So now I feel like a once-in-awhile gf, or should i say FB, to him, and the feeling SUX when he doesnt call/sms when he is with his gf.

But the diff with Sis devilhasfallen is....... He says he loves me.

Should I believe him? Any advice bros?

Sure he love you. He only love your hole.

He 2 time his gf to bonk another girl. And by doing so, do you think he love his gf as well?
How much trust can you put on a guy like that?
Think he's just living with his small head.

He's not the kind of guy you're looking for a serious exclusive relationship.

[devilhasfallen]

shctaw is another spot on... He does none of the things you mentioned.

Janelee, I think if he is 2 timing, he does not love you...

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by janelee

Hi devilhasfallen,

Seems like we're in the same predicament. My ex who used to love fucking me still wants to bed me after we have broken up for more than a year, and I stupidly fell for his tricks (and spent a night tgt) after bumping into him @ zouk. So now I feel like a once-in-awhile gf, or should i say FB, to him, and the feeling SUX when he doesnt call/sms when he is with his gf.

But the diff with Sis devilhasfallen is....... He says he loves me.

Should I believe him? Any advice bros?

since he says he loves u, tell him to break off with his gf and patch back with u lor.

words are cheap. action speaks louder. ask yrself if u really love a guy will u be contended with only a once in awhile sexual affair without any strings attached?

[shctaw]

What a beautiful day.


Maybe you will find your Mr Right today. Do not hide at home; walk anyway, any how and most importantly anywhere.

Do not think too much of your past. Look forward.

Maybe there is someone around you whom really love you but somehow you just did not feel it. Love need time to brew. I never believe in love at first sight.

I am just a monkey pretending to be cupid...