20sec of implusion or remain silent

[Chanelfingers]

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[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by fb0407

Just felt that she suddenly became someone whom is a total stranger to me....hope you do stay strong too...

Ups and Downs of life.

Good story!

[5ag1_Boar]

Originally Posted by fb0407

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I had been through betrayal in one of my relationships and i seriously do not wish to persue further with Janice. I told her mum to just keep quiet and i shall silently walked away......

days later.........

Man.... that really sucks. Went through something similar before. Then gf planned trip to Australia with me... was looking forward to more hanky panky, but right from the start can feel that something was wrong. Eventually she dumped me on my birthday... after treating me to a nice meal and buying me an expensive (for her then salary) present.

I feel you, bro.

Originally Posted by HunterJ

What a story which touches the deepest corner of my heart. My current gf, older than me, also run down on me for some reasons. Things she said were like, "i usually date older guys, not younger guys; you are not financially strong; u don't have a car; you can't even afford to buy me a branded bag; etc..."

Bro, dump her now. Even if you become rich and she is still with you, when something bad happens, chances she won't be supportive. Worse, when you become rich, she might just hang to you but play the field.

To me, clear sign of a selfish, un-supportive type.

[SYTBigBoobLover]

Originally Posted by fb0407

Just felt that she suddenly became someone whom is a total stranger to me....hope you do stay strong too...

Bro, I feel you...

I had quite similar experience in my last r/ship.
Till date, I'm still quite skeptical about r/ship.

I'm almost 40, not married & no gf since that incident.
Pethatic right?

[HunterJ]

Originally Posted by sagiboar

Bro, dump her now. Even if you become rich and she is still with you, when something bad happens, chances she won't be supportive. Worse, when you become rich, she might just hang to you but play the field.

To me, clear sign of a selfish, un-supportive type.

I understand. But to be honest, she has been changing to the better slowly, although recently there were some unhappy incidents that happen between us. Things she said were like a sharp knife piercing thru my feeble heart.

Yet, to leave her is hard, to stay with her is also hard. So, what is the best option? Find one more !!!

[GeMiNiZzzzZzz]

Sbf don't need so much sex stories.

It needs more of this type of stories to upgrade its status.

Way to go TS

[fb0407]

Originally Posted by GeMiNiZzzzZzz

Sbf don't need so much sex stories.

It needs more of this type of stories to upgrade its status.

Way to go TS

thanks bro....I enjoyed those stories from sbf all these years be it true or false, friction or not. It doesnt matter. All bros and sisters here simply i must say, SOLID! CREATIVE! use another word in hokkien....bo beh ciao! hahaha

Originally Posted by HunterJ

I understand. But to be honest, she has been changing to the better slowly, although recently there were some unhappy incidents that happen between us. Things she said were like a sharp knife piercing thru my feeble heart.

Yet, to leave her is hard, to stay with her is also hard. So, what is the best option? Find one more !!!

wah bro hunterJ, i like your idea man....hahaha

Originally Posted by SYTBigBoobLover

Bro, I feel you...

I had quite similar experience in my last r/ship.
Till date, I'm still quite skeptical about r/ship.

I'm almost 40, not married & no gf since that incident.
Pethatic right?

i can feel you bro. I am 34, had a failure in marriage once but i still believe there is love. Have faith, hold a believe u never even wanna dream of. Our mind is the universe, everyone have a share in the universe. When we call, they will answer. Is just when the answer will arrived. Have patience

Originally Posted by sagiboar

Man.... that really sucks. Went through something similar before. Then gf planned trip to Australia with me... was looking forward to more hanky panky, but right from the start can feel that something was wrong. Eventually she dumped me on my birthday... after treating me to a nice meal and buying me an expensive (for her then salary) present.

I feel you, bro.



Bro, dump her now. Even if you become rich and she is still with you, when something bad happens, chances she won't be supportive. Worse, when you become rich, she might just hang to you but play the field.

To me, clear sign of a selfish, un-supportive type.

Originally Posted by Reoxy

Ups and Downs of life.

Good story!

bro sagiboar...thanks for supporting my thread. You are the best!

bro reoxy, yes i agree life is full of ups and downs. That's what makes life complete

Originally Posted by Chanelfingers

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Sis chanel, hope you enjoy!

Originally Posted by HunterJ

What a story which touches the deepest corner of my heart. My current gf, older than me, also run down on me for some reasons. Things she said were like, "i usually date older guys, not younger guys; you are not financially strong; u don't have a car; you can't even afford to buy me a branded bag; etc..."

Have faith bro Hunter

[fb0407]

Few days later.....

i got a watsapp from her and it goes like this:

Janice: Heard from my mum that you seen my phone.....

Well i guess now i am being cornered, no where i can run away from fate. So i decided to face it. and i just replied YES.......


she started with all the explainations blah blah blah....i can only say it makes me more sick as she explained. I am a one man woman and i really really dont enjoy sharing my woman. But it happens to me. I just gotta admit or should i say submit to fate....

After many rounds of debating, arguements, explainations. I am extremely drained out. my iphone batt was flat for dont know how many times and all i can do it hide myself in my car and exchange msgs. What a day to remember, or should i say....forget

I was very frustrated, inside my heart was filled with anger, filled with hatred and of course, lost. I dare not go home early, given the reason i dont wish to worry my parents, especially when my dad is sick. That night i was out till 4am in the morning. Once i got home, i went into my parents' room and took a look at my dad while he was sleeping. I teared........ i remember showering my tears while in the bathroom too. Simply cant think of any words to describe that sorrow deep in me. I am always a strong guy in the eyes of my family, but i do drop my tears when i am alone. Nobody knows, only the universe above everyone of us knew.......

That was the night that i am so determine to totally cut my contact with Janice. Anyone around me can betray me, but seriously is not her. For the next couple of days, Every single texts from her, will just get a brushed off from me. Am not giving her any face, am also not going to treat her like how i treated her all this 18yrs..... She is my childhood friend, my best friend, my soul mate, the only woman whom i felt i could put my heart in total trust with besides my dearest mum. In the end she failed me......That feeling was terrible, and i suddenly turned quieter and toned down alot. But life must still goes on and work must still be attended to. And my sick dad was hoping i could spend more time with him.....which is something that truely pierced my heart that all these while i wasn't spending enough time with him. I Started to feel guilty for not doing that to my dad just becoz of this sickening woman.

That's when i started to knock off work earlier(since my job is managed by myself and i got total control of my timing). Kept telling myself to spend more time with my precious dad till his very last breathe. Encouraging myself to brave up and walk through this last moments with my dad.

And so i did, for most of the nights, without failed, i would go home early and sit beside my dad and at least hold his hand and talk to him. Sometimes i will do some massage for him and Telling him that the family is in total good hand and i shall stand up for the whole family no matter what happens or what it takes. I enjoyed looking at him when he gave out a small little smile. It just melts my heart And i knew he tried his best to smile. He was disabled, blind and was a kidney patient and was bedridden for the last 3.5 years. Every single day seeing him lying on his bed is a torture to everyone in the family. Is really mental torture

Gosh....writing this episode is literately emotional and heartfelt. Tears were dropping while i am typing. I hope everyone who still have their parents around you now. No matter how bad they treat u, no matter how poor they are and no matter how hard they tried but still cant give you the best in life. Dont blame them. Their present is always a gift from heaven. A gift that no one could replace and no one can give you the same memories ever........One fine day, the universe up there will ask for this GIFT to be back home.......

[Chanelfingers]

Their presence is a gift.
I so agree with u...

[SYTBigBoobLover]

Originally Posted by fb0407

i can feel you bro. I am 34, had a failure in marriage once but i still believe there is love. Have faith, hold a believe u never even wanna dream of. Our mind is the universe, everyone have a share in the universe. When we call, they will answer. Is just when the answer will arrived. Have patience

Bro, thanks for your encouragement. Probably I have passed a stage whereby my own family members are more important to me, while concentrate on my careers & making more friends.

I'm sorry to hear about your marriage. But look at the bright side, at least you have gone through another different stage of life. You have the experience being a married man, and know your responsibilities.

I feel you too, bro. Our parents are simply NO words can describe! All we need to do is to be very patience with them.

[big wood]

Ts fully agree with u, take care your parents when they are around inorder not to has any regrets in life

[RealEstateGuy]

Bradddah, you are an outstaning guy. You did the right thing. Your dad comes first no matter what. If his woman loved you truly she would have seen your need and you two would have had quality time in SG not in Europe. She is not worth another minute of your time whereas your family is worth every minute of your time. You are outstanding braddah. Just want to say that to you braddah.

[fb0407]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Bradddah, you are an outstaning guy. You did the right thing. Your dad comes first no matter what. If his woman loved you truly she would have seen your need and you two would have had quality time in SG not in Europe. She is not worth another minute of your time whereas your family is worth every minute of your time. You are outstanding braddah. Just want to say that to you braddah.

Thank goodness i did it right braddah! hahaha...if not now i will be hell out of a shit and regretting every single bit of my life

Originally Posted by big wood

Ts fully agree with u, take care your parents when they are around inorder not to has any regrets in life

cheers bro!

Originally Posted by SYTBigBoobLover

Bro, thanks for your encouragement. Probably I have passed a stage whereby my own family members are more important to me, while concentrate on my careers & making more friends.

I'm sorry to hear about your marriage. But look at the bright side, at least you have gone through another different stage of life. You have the experience being a married man, and know your responsibilities.

I feel you too, bro. Our parents are simply NO words can describe! All we need to do is to be very patience with them.

Bro SYTBBL, you are indeed a worthy and humble friend to have.=)

Originally Posted by Chanelfingers

Their presence is a gift.
I so agree with u...

you are right Sis, sorry kena spotted of spelling mistakes by you again...hahaha guess i wrote too fast and didnt do typo checks...hahahaaa

[SYTBigBoobLover]

Originally Posted by fb0407

Bro SYTBBL, you are indeed a worthy and humble friend to have.=)

You too bro... A man with hope is a man without fear. You are definitely a great friend with passion and responsibilies.

Originally Posted by fb0407

you are right Sis, sorry kena spotted of spelling mistakes by you again...hahaha guess i wrote too fast and didnt do typo checks...hahahaaa

Probably you may want to consider typing it on a word document, before copy over & post it?

Paiseh... Just kaypo abit if you don't mind...

[unsung80]

Originally Posted by HunterJ

What a story which touches the deepest corner of my heart. My current gf, older than me, also run down on me for some reasons. Things she said were like, "i usually date older guys, not younger guys; you are not financially strong; u don't have a car; you can't even afford to buy me a branded bag; etc..."

Sorry to hear that bro, seems like materialistic items got over true love. Love is not measure by how much money. Welcome to the 21st century again.