seeking wad to do next -_-

[cash88]

Nobody can tell u what to do with her. Is u, how u want it to be. If u choose to be with her then u must also accept her bad temper. If u choose giving up then go find new one loh. Ask yourself what u really want

[wantanabee]

in my.view, shes seeking for support instead of throwing.temper at you. it's the principle of reinforcement. perhaps i like to see things on the brighter side. try standing alongside her and observe how long n the level of her throwing temper. all she can do is talk, if i isn't wrong, she didn't say u are to shoulder responsibility for whatever the problem is.

[fabiann]

maybe ba.. she is juz trying to get my attention for certain stuffs.. but i cant take it is everything she does means RIGHT... even she is wrong she will juz wait for me to say sorry.. wtf

[ben1215]

Originally Posted by alan0338

if she is chio then just bonk her until u sian then dump her, if her body is fabulous and skills in bed is superb, also bonk her till u sian liao then dump her, if she rich, then lan lan, dry up her $$$ liao then dump her ... Overall is still dump her :d

yes,yes,yes
best<best<best>solution

[fookydud]

Originally Posted by fabiann

maybe ba.. she is juz trying to get my attention for certain stuffs.. but i cant take it is everything she does means RIGHT... even she is wrong she will juz wait for me to say sorry.. wtf

my ex gf was like this. i dumped her after 3.5 years of enduring. painful and i still miss her after 3 months

just follow you heart TS. do what u tink u should do. dont need to ask for help here. a relationship is about the 2 of u

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by fookydud

my ex gf was like this. i dumped her after 3.5 years of enduring. painful and i still miss her after 3 months

The saying that goes like this is very true:
If u love her, let her go.
If she returns, she's yours.
Otheriwse, it never was.

If such GF wants to leave u, all these tempers are just excuses.

If she really want to be with u, but just needed attention or patience, dumping her (letting her go) will be your chance to redeem a better-behave girl if she [initiate] patch back with you. That's where/when u set the record straight.

I got a feeling that TS is the one clinging on to this r/s instead.

[fabiann]

Bro cannot say cling la.. I also dunno wad can I do.. She dOnt usually text or call me after the whole incident..

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by fabiann

its between me and my soon to be gf...

the problems lies here..

...she insisted she call her frens along..
...and i get all the blame for no reason..
...she kept forcing me to say it..
...she throw her temper...
...she had a fight with her family..
...AND again i got fired for no reason...
...and she does is throw temper...
...close down her FB acct.. -__- (childish right?)
...she has a very very foul temper and a NV LOSE attitude...
...and even she is in the wrong she will still throw temper...
...and always expect me to know wad she is thinking...
...PS she is 27 this year, but dont u think she dont look like 1?

Originally Posted by fabiann

Bro cannot say cling la.. I also dunno wad can I do.. She dOnt usually text or call me after the whole incident..

If she is still not yet your GF, make sure you find all possible way to 1) bed her first, then 2) dump her. That's what you can do.
My advice is consistent with most every other advice here

Never mind who cling who.

p.s. again if it's me, I'll give her one ti... nebermind...

[peter69on]

Havent started already got problem.
2 way communication is very important. Both parties must be allow to
bad tempered each other. If it is always one way direction.
I really doubt it will last.

to be honest. I seem a few scenario like yours. Its always one way direction. The guy always think they can handle and manage. But in the end. Everything just collapse. But they are worst that you. Most of them is divorce. But during dating time already is like that. but they still go for the dive.

Maybe...just tried and look for others. Give yourself another chance to find a better match

[abchow]

HI TS ,
Dump her ! There is no reason for u to hold on to this relationship if its one sided . U get all the shit whenever there is problem or stress . Take it like a man and walk out on her and never look back.
Good luck!!

[sibaysong4u]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

If she is still not yet your GF, make sure you find all possible way to 1) bed her first, then 2) dump her. That's what you can do.
My advice is consistent with most every other advice here
.

Try all patterns Anal, CIM,COF,COB before you dump her.

[cookiemonsta]

ULTIMATUM!
decision making time
sit her down, lay down your terms
explain why you're unhappy with the situation
'change your attitude sister! or its over'
but you have to mean it
otherwise this move means nothing
this is your clutch to save this not-fully-developed-relationship

good luck!

[fabiann]

Yea, most of the ppl here are right... Juz happened another time juz now.. She dig up all the past.. Wtf.. She juz simply wanna win.. And she said ya I'm only treating u like this only.. Bcuz I don't trust u at all.. That's why we broke up last time.. For now I'm juz a girl with an attitude.. Zzz

[wantanabee]

time to show her you got an attitude too! no joke.

[cash88]

Woman alway say I forgive you but in her mind they never forget about. According to her style, she will alway bring out the past and the situation will only get worse as time went by. The longer the relationship the more problem she will bring out. By that time, the relationship not only affect your personal life but also your work, as u r unable to concentrate on your work. A relationship is just like opening a partnership company. When u found a good partner, it will help u a lot. But if u found a bad partner, the whole company will closed down. Think carefully before u make your decision on still wanting to be with her.