A simple girl's needs vs social moral

[Anahata]

Hey, from a girl's point of view, I totally understand how you feel. We all have sexual needs irregardless whether you are male or female. However, due to society norms we girls are often labeled ugly names like "sluts", "promiscuous" etc if we openly express our sexual desires, unlike the guys who has nicer labeled names like "Casanova" or "horny" (No offense to guys) ..Thus alot of females tend to repress their sexual needs.. I had flings before and like you, I love the art of receiving and giving pleasure but at the end of the day I have tiny debates with me & myself. I would question myself "am i doing the right thing?" or "Is this abnormal?" or "Am i a slut? why do i enjoy sex so much?" Haahaa... But I only live once and i do not want to wait till my hair has turn white and my teeth start falling off then i start to have regrets.....
Go with your heart gal....However a few "rules of engagement" still applies for me : Take your time to check out the guy (sorri guys hehe) be it over drinks or dinner, if yr gut instincts tells u you are not comfortable with him then just politely end the acquaintance . And always always use rubber!! ... Just my humble 2 cents worth!!

[kinkyiyi]

Hi guys,
Humbled and thanks for all your responses and suggestions. For now, i don't think i'm ready for any physically relationship - the guilt would probably be too much to bear, even if it is on a no-string attached condition. (So guys who offered to 'help' - thanks but no thanks). So definitely not looking for any guys from the forum.

As for sex toy, i might consider as i'm due to travel to Singapore soon (for a short holiday). It is probably easier to get one here, rather than my hometown.

So for the time being, it would be suppressing the urge.