You'll never know the persistence of a motivated slut.
however persistent, my mum is just not worth the trouble. she has connections, u know??? her mahjong kakis ever activated her to go catch their husbands with PRC women... last heard, they beat her up. moreover, my mum will be backed up by 3 sons who r trained in the martial arts, no thanks to my dad...LOL
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No need to rethink. Just jump straight in... afterall you have your bases covered on the charter.
contrary to popular belief, my fragile heart is not protected...
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This I gotta see.
catch us shopping in town and u will see. she hangs on to me like a leech, making sure that everyone knows that i belong to her and would probably scrowl at any women who takes a second look at me... haiz... all my chances down the drain...
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I used to drive a more expensive car than my ex-boss... then I realized that he was sorely underpaid.
like bro tom said, u r the one who is overpaid. and u know, the overpaid ones r the first ones to be laid off when times r bad... kekeke...
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I've let go of most things that took so long to come into my life. Most of the time, they're just not what I made them out to be.
with regards to my new ride, she is my black mistress, literally. OC did ask a couple of times to choose one between them... oops!
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$55k to the boss would see that guaranteed
no can do. better use for my money... not that i have that amount sitting around, doing nothing though...
At the end is always so familiar to hear the same words from the woman's mouth. "no $ no honey". The same rule applies for almost every female species.
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hi bro, we normally dont discriminate who we reply to. u took the effort obviously and i can only speak for myself, i like to reply to bros who quote my post. to me, it is basic human courtesy. but then again, i m speaking for myself here. so, sometimes u see me reply even the most bo liao post... do zap me for that the next time u see me do that hor... cos i was just according the basic courtesy back, ya?
points come from bros who agree with what we say. the main purposes of points here is to ensure that we dont fall into moderation again and probably to get lobangs more easily... my point being, it is ok, not important.
Hi Bro AXL,
Thanks for the words of encouragement. Your point on the re points is noted although I have to admit it does make me feel good when Bro Surfer awarded me some.
I'm sure I will also be given the opportunity in the very near future of how it will feel like when being zapped. Ha Ha Ha!
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i deal with numbers in my line of work and depend very much on probability for my decisions. thus, u r right to say that there r good ones. just that there r too few of them to increase the percentage to a more believable level. hope u get what i mean.
Yes I understand you perfectly. Maybe I should rephrase my stand in that most FLs will eventually marry but not to one of their customers. Very likely it would be to someone they met outside their trade.
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haiz... another victim of the women's charter. well, all i can say is that they can take away our money, they can take away our family, but they can never take away our knowledge and our pride. with enough determination, we shall stand up and prosper again!!! so long as u have a single breath left, u have the power to take control of yr life again. cos money can be earned back and yr children will forever bear yr surname and yr DNA. she cant take away the fact that u r their father. she cant never ever change that fact. guess u have learnt yr lesson, albeit an expensive one. but u have learnt to be smarter, i m sure.
Thanks again for the words of encouragement. I do hope that I have turned out smarter too.
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my point is the FL will always have this option to go back to become an FL again, simply bcos they have done it before. now, thinking back, if i died suddenly and is flat broke, will my ex-FL wife, in the name of having to feed my children, go and become someone elses mistress or even worse, become an FL again??? when this easy way out is in their mind, i can help but to feel a lil insecure. if i ever have an ex-FL wife, remind me to buy a lot more insurance. i dont want my children to be ridiculed of their mum being a "chicken"!!!
Ha Ha Ha! In that case, anyone who is married to an ex-FL has to make sure they don't die before their spouse reaches 50 years old, more so to ensure they can't fall back on their previous trade.
Then again, the alternative is to ensure we will leave behind sufficient to give them a god life.
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u must know a lot of FLs... or maybe u r one of the ex-ktv customers my ex-gf called... hahaha... just kidding. but if she is, i suggest u take her off yr happily married list. i will encounter some logistical problems in garnering 1k FLs and ktv gers names who r not happily married. it will be difficult but i reckon it not impossible. fyi, i only know of 2.
Well, I had my fair share of cheonging, Ha Ha Ha!
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yup, agreed. looking for love in the wrong places. surfer bro should reiterate his leech analogy for all to comprehend again in this instance.
I've read somewhere which is something like "They sucked!"? Well, don't we want our women to do just that? Ha Ha Ha!
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men they meet wants to fuck them and fuck off. so they will think that men r not reliable. they r not exactly wrong in thinking that. but the rare one comes along and treat them well from the bottom of their heart, they still will think otherwise. they r also stereotyping, my friend. dont believe, ask them... even the nice guy will get fleeced by them cos they have already lost all hope already...
Well, it is a fair world afterall. We stereotype them, and they stereotype us. And as the nice guy got fleeced by them, somewhere out there is also a nice FL who was also fleeced by some guy too.
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sorry for the lor sor reply...damn shagged
No problem, I think I'm the one who is lor so. Ha Ha Ha!
Thanks for the words of encouragement. Your point on the re points is noted although I have to admit it does make me feel good when Bro Surfer awarded me some.
yup, mark of agreement. makes u feel like u r in his inner circle, doesnt it??? LOL... i m still trying to get there with bro surfer.
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I'm sure I will also be given the opportunity in the very near future of how it will feel like when being zapped. Ha Ha Ha!
aye, part and parcel of life, i guess. when u reach a certain level, u will not feel that much anymore as there will be guys who will be asking u to exchange points.
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Yes I understand you perfectly. Maybe I should rephrase my stand in that most FLs will eventually marry but not to one of their customers. Very likely it would be to someone they met outside their trade.
outside their trade??? the guys they meet at the dance club??? or the sales associate at LV, Gucci or Prada??? kekeke... i have seen their lives and u should know that too... they spend much of their time watching DVDs after work and sleeping. maybe some grooming appointments here and there but do they really meet people besides their customers??? rarely lah...
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Thanks again for the words of encouragement. I do hope that I have turned out smarter too.
i do hope so... nothing is a lost cause, especially when we r still healthy and strong. imagine those who r very ill... they have the guts to spend every moment fighting their illness. we r much luckier, no matter what. so, optimism is the way to go...
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Ha Ha Ha! In that case, anyone who is married to an ex-FL has to make sure they don't die before their spouse reaches 50 years old, more so to ensure they can't fall back on their previous trade.
hah!!! u never know!!! the old uncles who have just collected their CPF could be their targets. hate it when people take "going back into FLing" as an option. no self-respecting woman will do that...
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Then again, the alternative is to ensure we will leave behind sufficient to give them a god life.
that is when good character of the woman u marry comes in. leave them with enough insurance, house, cash... so what??? if she decides to find another man and the guy ill-treats yr children??? u could at most turn in yr grave, whine and grief about it. nothing much u can do!!! i have never seen or heard any dead husband's soul coming back to kill the new ill-treating bastards!!! that's why i think must find a woman with enough character to tell the man to fuck off if he is found to be treating her children poorly. but for the ex/present FLs i see, not really. it is like they cannot live without men and their dicks, even bloody poor excuses of men who ill-treat her childen!!! these kind of mothers ought to be shot!!!
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Well, I had my fair share of cheonging, Ha Ha Ha!
i reckoned too...
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I've read somewhere which is something like "They sucked!"? Well, don't we want our women to do just that? Ha Ha Ha!
hahaha... u like it when it is physical. but when it turns out to be their character, boy, r u in for a ride!!! recent enlightenment from a channel partner: "it is easy to love a woman, but if u want to marry her, ask yourself this, is this the woman u want to be the mother of yr children???"
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Well, it is a fair world afterall. We stereotype them, and they stereotype us. And as the nice guy got fleeced by them, somewhere out there is also a nice FL who was also fleeced by some guy too.
yup... so i guess they r stuck in a vicious cycle. between love and money, they choose money cos they dont think love exists for them anymore. but as for the nice FL, got lobang or not? i also want!!!
..outside their trade??? the guys they meet at the dance club??? or the sales associate at LV, Gucci or Prada??? kekeke... i have seen their lives and u should know that too... they spend much of their time watching DVDs after work and sleeping. maybe some grooming appointments here and there but do they really meet people besides their customers??? rarely lah......
Add high tea, cards, shopping et al... in no order of merit. Grooming bit is necessity not only for partner's sake but also self belief. Nothing further from truth, though I have not had benefit (or the misfortune) of personally experience same. Touch wood
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... nothing is a lost cause, especially when we r still healthy and strong. imagine those who r very ill... they have the guts to spend every moment fighting their illness. we r much luckier, no matter what.
Reality check.. never fail to count our blessings. On smaller scale, recount my own ... Whilst en-route for a beer with a ex lau jiao samster kaki to GM over last weekend (public transport, conveniently left car keys behind), passed by old Crawford st blocks. Saw retirees lounging about in open areas, reminded how lucky we are with our own problems comparatively so miniscule. Hop on to life, as some of us may fall off from bus tomorrow. Excuse my personal diatribe, guys
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You're most welcomed. If every newbie were zapped and ignored, this forum would be very lonely.
First of all, I thank you very much for the 5 points. You're the first samster to award me and you will be the first that I will also give me humble points to, when I qualify that is.
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Its difficult to take a step down from material offerings once used to it. It happens to everyone. If a drive a lamborghini one day and circumstances force me to drive a Hyundai, I would feel most uncomfortable and try my best to get my Lambo back.
Yes it's difficult but not impossible. There will always come a time when one realise when one stands.
Trying to get back to your previous status is not a bad thing, it's ambition. Of course I'm not talking about going back to FL.
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They are happy mostly because they got the raw end of the deal. What about their partners? It takes alot from the man to accept that... cash inclusive.
Well, the same goes for us guys with what we are trying to get out from ladies other than our own spouses.
Add high tea, cards, shopping et al... in no order of merit. Grooming bit is necessity not only for partner's sake but also self belief. Nothing further from truth, though I have not had benefit (or the misfortune) of personally experience same. Touch wood
self belief??? think not... just making sure that they keep their perceived value high through packaging. however, i do suspect that these r the things that make them forget what they really r, albeit for a short moment. most of them crave for the high life, thus making what seems lots of $ in the shortest time to experience the feeling of spending on whatever they feel like.
more often than not, this craving for spending on whatever they like, leads to their eventual downfall of passing their sell-by date, with little or no $ left, no one willing to take them and their nonsense and being human, blame it on the lack of good (and rich) men around. all i can say, if they want to marry rich men, especially those "old money" type, then decorum is a pre-requisite. it takes a lifetime to perfect the art. FLs and women who berate their men in public need not apply.
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Reality check.. never fail to count our blessings. On smaller scale, recount my own ... Whilst en-route for a beer with a ex lau jiao samster kaki to GM over last weekend (public transport, conveniently left car keys behind), passed by old Crawford st blocks. Saw retirees lounging about in open areas, reminded how lucky we are with our own problems comparatively so miniscule. Hop on to life, as some of us may fall off from bus tomorrow. Excuse my personal diatribe, guys.
public transport??? bro, trying to experience what we lesser mortals do on a daily basis??? kekeke...
these retirees have it good... cos i have spoken to some of them in the course of my volunteer work in a temple (at the request of my parents)... they usually have the time and mood to hang around and play chess cos their children r filial. thus, they usually have no monetary worries, just boredom issues... LOL... i have seen those who r ill... haiz... no amount of wealth can take that away. well, u can always say that with wealth, one can suffer in comfort. but still suffer, nonetheless...
how i wish i could have it good like the retirees... just one day a week would be nice. i could just send OC to town and let her do her shopping and stuff with her friends while i just get to sit down with my buddy, cigar in hand with a good bottle of brandy and just play chess... oh, heaven!!!
First of all, I must commend you for being able to take all the negativity against you in this forum as I have read in other threads. That shows your maturity and that you don't take to heart many things. I hope I am entitled to tell you to "Keep It Up!"
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Originally Posted by suteerak1099
if you compare the designs of these 2 makes, they're virtually the same, except that the lexus was intended to penetrate the european market. nevertheless, the general specs the same, except the camry may fall short of optional fucntions/features, that comes as default with the lexus.
watever it is, for the material savvy chicks, they'd insist on brand name... ignoring the performance specs. likewise their mentality for men. bcos the default settings of all men, the same, only very minor extreme differences i.e.: longer or thicker manhood.
I'm not an expert on cars and I have never owned a Lexus before. But I do remember when it was first launched in Singapore many years back. Advertisements showed the high standards of the Lexus with one where a guitar recording was done inside the Lexus while it was cruising. So impressive was it that many "high flyers" bought one including our MM. With that, I'm inclined to believe that there is a difference in standards between the Lexus and the Camry.
But we're not talking about cars here. Your notion is that FLs will go for anything that is "upmarket" even if they don't really know much about the products. Isn't it the same for non-FLs so long as the money isn't forked out from them?
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not that there's no glimmer of light. there's always a silver lining for every dark cloud. the only problem is, how long it takes for the cloud to clear... not to mention there's a possible citing of a rainbow during/after the rain
For those who say that FLs falling in love or having a happily ever after life, is rare, I suggest you rethink your stance. As I don't believed that ALL FLs end up unhappy in their life. I'm sure a good majority ends up with someone who can really take care of them, raise a family and get on with their lives.
That's quite presumptuous don't you think? I once had a very close bro who insisted to me that he was the ONE, only to return home heart-broken but not dejected...he moved on with someone else. I'm not sure about now as we've lost contact but the reality is - the stigma of the FL may be forgotten...but it cannot be erased.
Add high tea, cards, shopping et al... in no order of merit. Grooming bit is necessity not only for partner's sake but also self belief. Nothing further from truth, though I have not had benefit (or the misfortune) of personally experience same. Touch wood
Hi Bro yinyang,
Allow me the priviledge to add some words in response to your post.
If you ever engaged the services of FLs and have not had the benefit of personally experiencing the materialistic natures of FLs, where does the statement "Nothing further from the truth" comes in?
Wouldn't your experiences shows that there are goodness in some FLs too and like any other ladies, they too looked forward to the day where they could also fall in love?
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Reality check.. never fail to count our blessings. On smaller scale, recount my own ... Whilst en-route for a beer with a ex lau jiao samster kaki to GM over last weekend (public transport, conveniently left car keys behind), passed by old Crawford st blocks. Saw retirees lounging about in open areas, reminded how lucky we are with our own problems comparatively so miniscule. Hop on to life, as some of us may fall off from bus tomorrow. Excuse my personal diatribe, guys
Thanks for the reality check. I just hope that the day I retire, I would be travelling around the world with someone who will warm my bed every night, not necessarily the same woman every night though.
Wouldn't your experiences shows that there are goodness in some FLs too and like any other ladies, they too looked forward to the day where they could also fall in love?
buts at whu's expense? many hearts r broken 2...be4 anythin else
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That's quite presumptuous don't you think? I once had a very close bro who insisted to me that he was the ONE, only to return home heart-broken but not dejected...he moved on with someone else. I'm not sure about now as we've lost contact but the reality is - the stigma of the FL may be forgotten...but it cannot be erased.
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Hello Bro JWNY,
Thanks for the points, you will not be forgotten.
Yes, some of my posts or statements are presumptuous. But aren't many of the posts in this forum too? That's human nature after all as we're not having an academic discussion. More like.... TCSS?
If we were to all use our own experiences, then we will see a lot of subjectivity which is not all that bad actually. As if we consolidate all the views, there could be an objective result too, provided the views come from a large enough base.
As for your friend, I once thought that I was the ONE too, to a non-FL. After nearly 20 years, someone else becomes the ONE. Like I asked before, what is the difference between my ex and a FL as far as matters of the heart are concern? If an FL's heart is affected by a guy's pocket, I don't think it is any different from a no-FL.
By the way, let me clarify that I am not condemning my ex in any way whatsoever. I'm only using her as an example since it's a case which I know of.
Finally, the stigma of an FL may not be erased from the guy's mind. This is true, but will the stigma of a guy cheonging FLs & WLs be erased from the girl's mind too?
As I browse throught the thread. Every points from everyone make sense, be it that there is love from FL or no love from FL. However, the opinion is also skewed to one side.
Even non-FL can also be digging the gold out of you (doesn't matter if you have it or not), so why can't FL have the same mentality too? There are gem to be found among FLs but difficult to fish out and we cannot just conclude all will be the same. This goes the same for normal sg gers you may met too. Doesn't means they are non-FL, they won't do the same too. Myself I had met too.
They are all the same. The non-FL will think they cb made of gold (as most prolly would know and experience) that is why they don't FLs, while FLs they may think their don't value their cb as gold that is why they become FLs. In all, it is the same cb. That is why, just deal with them with caution! Comparatively, I may choose to deal with those who don't think their cb as gold so I don't get them climbing above my head. Whether you want to bao the cb for the rest of you rest, is a matter of choice. Cheers!
buts at whu's expense? many hearts r broken 2...be4 anythin else
Hi Bro pfingo,
Broken hearts are part of life.
Even if you did marry your first love and she you, I believe many of us didn't.
We would have gone through several relationships, make love like rabbits before we finally settled down with someone who probably has also gone through the same cycle as we had. This is why it’s practically impossible to marry a virgin these days.
And talking about expense, FLs don't take half of what you got. Read my previous posts and you get what I mean.
So my point is simple. FLs are also like non-FLs.
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