Will our future gf/wife a FL before also ??

[tiolaixiong]

Actually seeing the FL reports with quite a number of local doing FL because of financial problems , i start to think that once into it will they be hook onto this whenever they are short of cash.I think that not all doing FL is because of financial problem some are for other reasons like fun and boredom and most of all easy money ,because first of all they are not like the gl 40 cat in fish tank where they cant choose customer ,for FL they have their right to choose and even some have people intro b4 they accept .Nowadays lot of young local gal doing it also the FL report here is only ice tip.so i start to think will our future gf/wife doing this b4 also regardless of what reason ,if u found out can u accept?We guys like to fling and flirt ,nowadays ,gal also very flirt somemore still can earn money for that.

[Hanxinco88]

Originally Posted by tiolaixiong

Actually seeing the FL reports with quite a number of local doing FL because of financial problems , i start to think that once into it will they be hook onto this whenever they are short of cash.I think that not all doing FL is because of financial problem some are for other reasons like fun and boredom and most of all easy money ,because first of all they are not like the gl 40 cat in fish tank where they cant choose customer ,for FL they have their right to choose and even some have people intro b4 they accept .Nowadays lot of young local gal doing it also the FL report here is only ice tip.so i start to think will our future gf/wife doing this b4 also regardless of what reason ,if u found out can u accept?We guys like to fling and flirt ,nowadays ,gal also very flirt somemore still can earn money for that.

I dont know about others...but for sure I cannot accept it....can u??
Its a really pathetic society nowadays....but what to do??....many prefers to seek the easier way out.....

[littleme]

There are 3 main reasons:

1. Financial needs (no choice, easy money included)
2. Not enough sex so might as well earn some dollars at the same time,
3. Forced by bf or husbands for whatever reason.

[Devilzz]

Actually if your girlfriend come from a normal family and she not into branded stuff,chance is she work as FL is as low as striking TOTO.

[yinyang]

Originally Posted by Devilzz

....if your girlfriend come from a normal family and she not into branded stuff,chance is she work as FL is as low as striking TOTO....

Originally Posted by tiolaixiong

..Nowadays lot of young local gal doing it also the FL report here is only ice tip.so i start to think will our future gf/wife doing this b4...

Let's not cloud our thinking by sbf here. For every FL (or those moonlighting as 1), there are many others who are deserving of your pursuits

[The Undertaker]

Mostly those FLs are in need of $. No gal in this world wana be a FL if given a choice, but sadly most have no choice due to $ related issues
I think its hard to accept if ur gf/wife are ex-FL for most guys

[JrBoy]

OMG..can u imagine the worst situation ?? calling on a FL and your gf appears !

[no_faith]

tbh, i dun tink i can accept but in reality, future gf/wife could be a FB/WL/FL/ONS/SPG etc.
juz look ard u.

[breastlover]

Originally Posted by JrBoy

OMG..can u imagine the worst situation ?? calling on a FL and your gf appears !

Just one word: SUAY!

[Midnightiger]

Maybe I like to expand the question a little so I hope you guys don't mind.

What if a one of your friends were to call you up, and tell you that he discovered that his wife was formerly an FL before they were married?

After marrying for so many years, 3 beautiful kids came along and now they are all in school, some primary and some secondary. You go out to work to bring the bacon back while she dutifully keeps the house in order. And then this suddenly sprang out!

And she had done FL in her youth as firstly she wanted to put herself and some younger siblings through school, mother was sick with cancer and eventually died and father left them while they were young, etc.

Your friend believed his wife was telling the truth and you had no reasons to doubt her, but your friend is devastated when he found out about her past.

What would you as a friend, advise him to do? Take the kids and immediately divorce the wife? Forgive her past and get on with life together?

I really curious to know.

[no_faith]

based on wat u descirbe, since itz been so many years and she has fulfill his duty as a wife, mother of 3 kids, tink can forgive her bah.

[Freman]

Originally Posted by Midnightiger

Maybe I like to expand the question a little so I hope you guys don't mind.

What if a one of your friends were to call you up, and tell you that he discovered that his wife was formerly an FL before they were married?

After marrying for so many years, 3 beautiful kids came along and now they are all in school, some primary and some secondary. You go out to work to bring the bacon back while she dutifully keeps the house in order. And then this suddenly sprang out!

And she had done FL in her youth as firstly she wanted to put herself and some younger siblings through school, mother was sick with cancer and eventually died and father left them while they were young, etc.

Your friend believed his wife was telling the truth and you had no reasons to doubt her, but your friend is devastated when he found out about her past.

What would you as a friend, advise him to do? Take the kids and immediately divorce the wife? Forgive her past and get on with life together?

I really curious to know.

hi,

first of all, as a friend, I wouldn't be so bad as to tell my buddy that his wife is a former FL and you bonk her many times...
might as well give your buddy your rating (gf feeling, BBBJ, FJ, RTF) and ask him what he thinks.

that's very bad lah hor. We may think it's okie but the fella may not be able to accept it.

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by Midnightiger

And she had done FL in her youth as firstly she wanted to put herself and some younger siblings through school, mother was sick with cancer and eventually died and father left them while they were young, etc.

Your friend believed his wife was telling the truth and you had no reasons to doubt her, but your friend is devastated when he found out about her past.

What would you as a friend, advise him to do? Take the kids and immediately divorce the wife? Forgive her past and get on with life together?

Is this a real account? You didn't mention how both of them meet? Thru' match-making?

Come mon'.... if she's a FL before.... chances of them meeting up in a normal relationship is quite remote. If your frd stand firm by his wife, he shld have brush his friend off, and giving his emotional support to wife no matter what happened in the past.

Surely you can't blame the wife for not telling him.

[littleme]

As a true friend, you should keep it secret since the woman had proven herself as a wife and mother. If a woman can have 3 kids for the man, she is dedicated to him.

But if the woman is known to be after your friend's money, then you should dig up the FRs here and show your friend.

[soba006]

i feel that can forgive her lah... just my 2 cents worth of tots.