My little Affair

[jayson]

Dear all,

It has been a while since I enter this site and do a posting, hope that you guys can bear with me.

Intro:

I am a married man currently working overseas for my own business. My wife is back home and i had been married for 5 years now. This incident happened 2 years ago, which made me a different person altogether.

I work in a small town north of s'pore. it is a small town, thus everyone knows everyone and people like to gossip as there isn't much to do after all. I had been here for the last 8 years now, thus I know all the little dark secrets of those 'famous' people (famous as in rich man in town, pretty chicks and etc)

After only 3 years in this small town did I had my first affair (i was not marry yet that time) The first lady, Christine, was this friend who was interested in me for the longest time and we had lunch almost everyday and once she got drunk I had to bring her to my place over night but did not do anything. She mention to me the night I finally make love to her that she expected me to rape her that night she was drunk.

Anyway, since that incident i realize that small town girls are actually quite easy (in a way of cos) Me and Christine had the most enjoyable and kinkiest sex, she always fulfill my fantasy, i.e in the car, and in the office. Plus she had a boyfriend that time so some times her bf would drop her at a coffee shop with me and i will drive her to my apartment for a love making session. She is the only gals that have ever done a CIM with me and even swallow. Despite not having much of assets (boobs) she make it up with her service and it is almost like in porn except its a girl next door.

Somehow she wanted to forget me and went to KL to work, slowly we meet less and of cos stop having sex. Only once in a blue moon when she looks for me then i will be naughty cos i miss the CIM hahaha...

After this first affairs i was feeling invincible and though that i could have all the ladies if i set my mind to it. True enough in between Christine and this topic girl (Alicia) I actually had 4 chinese girls and 1 malay girl to fulfill my sexual desire.

Side track a bit. there were times when i was caught in situation where 2 of my GFs are in the same pub and i had to play smart to avoid them knowing that I have had 'something' going on with either of them. everytime i look back, i thank my lucky stars and wonder how in the world i manage through the night.... plus in most cases they know each other.

I always believed that, married man should never tell lies about their own marriage status. I always tell them that i am married and my wife is back home. I think thats why most of them never get too close with me when we see each other in public. (since people like to gossip in small town)

Somehow, most cases the girls leave me and i seldom have to break off with them. Each time i break off with a girl i would almost immediately get one more. Each time they leave or break off, i have never felt sad or missed them, despite the fact when we are together we promise to love each other as much as possible. (i also play my cards well to make them think that i love them, but never one time i would tell them that i would leave my wife)

Somehow one day, i met this girl Alicia, which changed me completely and taught me a lesson well!.....

to be con't

Bros please bear with my writing skills... i am not as good as some bros here.

[jayson]

Con't

I have seen Alicia quite a number of times but she was married then with a kid, I have always admire her figure... to be able to keep fit even after giving birth. Anyway, she was divorce and had a boyfriend. Somehow we got close and i tried really hard to be close to her. It took me about 1 month before i could finally feel that she actually has a bit of feelings for me.

The day I told her i 'like' and she hold my hand tightly and replied 'me too' really melts my heart till now. I would try to shower her with gifts during her b'days and etc. The gifts that i often give to GFs are normally within my budget and nothing fancier than my wife's. But with Alicia i would try to get something close to what i have given my wife. For example, if a pair of earrings are $500 for the Mrs, i would try get something like $400 for Alicia.

I still remember the day i make love to her, it was not rough sex nor kinky sex, but a really lovely love making session. In between we would say 'i love you' to each other and get more intense. At that time when i was with her, she was with her boyfriend, but was about to break off. We would meet for lunch in my apartment and make love.

I still remember the first time we make love, she cried after the session as she said that she do not want to be the third party in my marriage, but loves me so much. I was at cloud 9.

Anyway, to cut short, the feeling soon ended when she stop giving me and during our meetings she would be telling me great stuff about other people. really making me feel small. There was this particular guy she always talked about who is like a 5 footer, married but very good at what he does.

Soon since things dont seems to work out, we had a couple of argument and her excuse was that she dont want to me the third party and etc. After the so-cal break up, i found out that she was already seeing the shorty (while she was with me). I was very angry and disappointed, I felt that if she had found a single guy i would not take it so badly but another married man! Damn!

I did not confront her or anything. I just when back to work and tried to be a better husband. To be honest, in a way, I lost my confidence in the things i do and no longer want to get myself into this type of situation anymore, feeling emotionally hurt is unbearable and i sincerely regret the kinda of damage i did to my ex-frames. It took me abt 6 months to finally forget about her, but i guess we have to be practical, for a married man... nothing is better than our wives.

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[see see only]

Nice .........


Nevertheless, we are only human

Put it this way, you should considered yourself lucky it ended this way. You got what you've budgeted for. I believed some bros may kana worse - like photos taken and blackmail for money since you sound like you are quite well to do.

Emotionally hurt only but dont lose confident ok. At least when its time for ... (ok skip this word better la) to leave this world, you had scores of good times to recall "NO WHITE LIVE"

[Cheonging101]

Damn... I'm also a shorty! Are we going into height discrimination now? Is it our fault that we get a height advantage since we are nearer to the pussy than taller guys?

By the way, can we use SI Units instead of going back to the stupid British Standard (which even the Brits don't use)?

[Big Sexy]

Cunts. The pair of you ( Ts and alice)
your missus deserves better...

Originally Posted by jayson

At that time when i was with her, she was with her boyfriend

I felt that if she had found a single guy i would not take it so badly but another married man! Damn!

[jayson]

Bro See See only,

Yes i was quite lucky, that there was no big fuss and i learn my lesson well. Mind you i am not well to do but good at saving money....The damage was actually quite bad .... 1 LV wallet, Gold Heart Earrings and 1 Tiffany necklace total: abt $2500.

I am tall... so losing to a shorty was quite an impact to my morale and ego. Nevertheless, once we are successful and rich, I think women will come flocking in, so need to work hard towards this goal. ha!

I believe that from this forum i actually realized something about cheonging, there is actually a flow chart and reasoning for it.

1) first timers - health centers - scare other people see

2) more guts - Geyland (Cat 50) - cheaper and can choose

3) Working already more guts - Geyland (Cat150) - Better and service SOP

4) Bored with Geyland - KTV - can drink, tcss and be naughty (last time)
or
5) Bored with Geyland - FL- there is a trill to screw a GND or local s'porean plus the feeling is different

6) Bored with commerical sex - ONS or affairs - more challenging, boost morale. Like the feeling of being love once again.

7) Scare being caught - Geyland - serve by the pros, service guaranteed, can choose, know friends in brothel and never get caught!

Hahahahaa..... this is just my 2 cents. I think that all successful man will have a woman behind ..... only if the wife dont find out. hahhahaa

But seriously, saw many cases already. A successful man have a greater chance of having an affair, cos:

1) They are confident cos got career and money (all women like a confident man)
2) Mature
3) Good time management (to plan timetable with 2 women not easy)
4) Heartless (hard to explain)

Well.... I think there are a lot of things to learn....

[see see only]

Originally Posted by jayson

Bro See See only,

Yes i was quite lucky, that there was no big fuss and i learn my lesson well. Mind you i am not well to do but good at saving money....The damage was actually quite bad .... 1 LV wallet, Gold Heart Earrings and 1 Tiffany necklace total: abt $2500.

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Well.... I think there are a lot of things to learn....

Ha, small case liao ..........

Long long time ago, a sweet girl next door who I tot very sweet and will save money type, gave her a card after months of sweet-hearting, spent almost 4k with my sub-card (with limit more than $XX,XXX) in less than a month (lucky never tell her the limited).

Got to lie to her that I need the card back to make payment (so no evidences left behind, I know can cancel though) me run away immediately with my card and never answer or call her anymore.

Not only PRC or other ...... knows, local also know the rules as well - when u r a married man, we have too much to lose than just that few $K

1 lesson learned pain pain ............

[jayson]

Bro,

I am quite a miser so i always divide 2.5k with the amount of screws.... thus the return of investment(given the current geyland rate of 150/1 lah) not high on this last one hahahaha... needed 16.6 screws.... i only hit 10.5 (0.5 was half way through got things to rush! damn!)

anyway, never am i going to go through with this anymore. (this event happened a long time ago... when i was young and dangerous)

Jay

[see see only]

Originally Posted by jayson

Bro,

I am quite a miser so i always divide 2.5k with the amount of screws.... thus the return of investment(given the current geyland rate of 150/1 lah) not high on this last one hahahaha... needed 16.6 screws.... i only hit 10.5 (0.5 was half way through got things to rush! damn!)

anyway, never am i going to go through with this anymore. (this event happened a long time ago... when i was young and dangerous)

Jay

Hey same formula, we have here ........

But hehe sometime we tried investments as well right. Maybe the STI soars like nobody business who knows ...............

But found out that it really seldom happens (but it did happened once to me, a real great investment - a teacher somemore. BTW I dont discuss such matter openly - scare scare )

[jayson]

Ha! great minds think alike....

yeah... only after 5 yrs then talk abt it hehehe

[see see only]

Originally Posted by jayson

Ha! great minds think alike....

yeah... only after 5 yrs then talk abt it hehehe

After 5 years? ISO standard ?

5 years later can destory documents no more proof liao isn't?

[Cheonging101]

Originally Posted by jayson

I am tall... so losing to a shorty was quite an impact to my morale and ego.

Being a shorty myself, that statement alone made my day.

[jayson]

Bro Cheonging101,

I am not against shorty, but this guy got a character problem which is quite annoying but somehow, he scores with girls.... sweet talker, to be honest talented and pretty successful. In a way i respect him despite losing to him.

Business and life is all about daily learning. Take defeat as a lesson learnt, and from any situation stay positive. Thats my motto hard to follow but i try my best. ha!

Jayson

[see see only]

Once upon a time, me lost a PRC FB (FOC ok) 21yo D-cupper to a 10 (maybe 100) x times worse "not so useful" man before....... both of us single at that time - looks, $ power, all kind of the C things dont even need to fight with me.

But

Sometime, something just trigger the ladies heart. She eventually did said me too practical to be with........... not caring enough ..........

Or Maybe me ride a BMX, he drive a old COE toyota.


Anyway, I suggest we can go hunting once a while but me see see only ok

[LT747]

2.5 k , thats small compare to all the enjoyment you have got.

The thing that you cant let go is more your pride being dump by the girl instead to you dumping them.

Well in this game of cat and mouse , you win some , lose some.