How you spice up your sex with wife?

stmapede · #1 30-03-2008, 10:55 AM

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tnb1206 · #2 30-03-2008, 11:45 AM

yea...ones must try to keep the spice of life (sex) up in a r/s..its one impt part of r/s or marriage!!!

as mentioned, one of many ideas is to get out of your boundary, be it environment, emotional or believes etc.

I know some couples might think its sex should be only shared among themselves..yes, it is very true..but then whats the boundary?...can it be share with another couple? hhaah maybe watching each other? any other ideas to explore?....

The idea is to break out from your norm, and try to explore your fantasies....if it happens ..then it really bring a new prospective view to your sex life!!!...and of course managing it properly it will enhance your r/s and sex life..and you will never feel bored it again!!!

do it step by step, try to convince your partner that it will do good to the r/s and of course it must be true...not lying to her/him that you only want to fuck others and not let her have the fun and also both must know the limits and not get jealous over it. --- basically trust and understanding and appreciation of each other.

so good luck bros....with some imagination ,effort and patience..i am sure you can do it too....

sony2002 · #3 30-03-2008, 12:20 PM

Outdoor sex in some ulu place or oversea

jerrystockton · #4 30-03-2008, 12:35 PM

Make a short trip to Bali, Bangkok or Phuket once in 3 months. Enjoy the trip as much as you can, definitely she feel so much in love.

Schmi · #5 30-03-2008, 01:05 PM

What if cases like, husband & wife have not been doing it for years?

sammyboyfor · #6 30-03-2008, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by stmapede

I believe there's many married men in SBF cheong outside. I'm one of them too. But as they saying goes, "You can play all you want outside, but end of day you still have to go home take care of you family."

The only time men need to have sex with their wives is when they want to make a baby. Otherwise, don't bother. It's not worth the trouble.

desk13 · #7 30-03-2008, 02:03 PM

I do agreed with what Sam said and in real life, I do have friends whose wife told them off straight and no sex after babies quota met

colins · #8 30-03-2008, 02:17 PM

Dun quite agree. I think the number of times a couple engages in sex is proportionate to the closeness of the relationship.

When a couple drifts apart, they find it difficult to have sex. As human beings who need to release, they then have their own sex life (outside) because they can't get from each other, even more no need for sex.

An effort to spice things up for sex shows that both are still interested in each other, I mean at least until menopause la. After menopause, both can sit at rocking chair and thats closeness liao.

I think sex is pretty important for couples in relationship, married or not. Whether closeness takes precedent or sex takes precendent, both sex and closeness compliment each other.

stmapede · #9 30-03-2008, 03:08 PM

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colins · #10 30-03-2008, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by stmapede

Very happy to see so many replies and support to this thread. Some more got so many old birds contributing to this thread.

Thanks. Do continue to keep this thread alive!

You probably have to give some examples on how you spice up your marriage life la, you definitely have more stories to share, right?

#11 30-03-2008, 03:33 PM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

The only time men need to have sex with their wives is when they want to make a baby. Otherwise, don't bother. It's not worth the trouble.

So sad to hear this.

stmapede · #12 30-03-2008, 03:48 PM

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EatPussyToo · #13 30-03-2008, 04:05 PM

Nice to know such a thread.

However, I've a problem, which is my small bro. can't eject out when doing with wife. But doing it with others - no problem. To solve this problem, most times, I have to HJ it to come out. Note that my wife HJ my bro., also cannot cum.

colins · #14 30-03-2008, 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by stmapede

...A few years ago, during one of our anniversary, we plan the whole day's program identical to a date of our courting days...

Wah this is sweet. A few of my friends, including myself, also like to visit old haunts with our love ones, some even went all the way back to aust to re-visit places in their 'best days'. For me, it would be at the regular steamboat place where we always have supper and the lone stretch of road where we used to stay.

I wonder how long have you been married bro?

woogieboogie · #15 30-03-2008, 04:48 PM

Maybe u wan2 buy some sexy and kinky lingeries for her