Husband Having Affair! Help!!!

[Pui Pui]

My husband is having an affair. I feel very sad but i dun wan to end my marriage. Can any bros or sis advise me on wat to do?

[ol'coyote]

hmm...logical thing is talk to hubby...
illogical thing is...have your own affair...
if going for option 2...pls private message (pm) me...

[chengzc]

get a good lawyer? lol

[ah rat]

Originally Posted by Pui Pui

My husband is having an affair. I feel very sad but i dun wan to end my marriage. Can any bros or sis advise me on wat to do?

Sis,like that.U must try to have 1 eye open & 1 eye close

[chengzc]

im sure he dont mind u around.

but u mind being around him, closing two eyes?

[ah_heng81]

1) Talk to him . (Things may get out of hand)
2) Go for marriage counselling ( He may not want to go)
3) Let it go and find a good lawyer

[autoroam]

Originally Posted by Pui Pui

My husband is having an affair. I feel very sad but i dun wan to end my marriage. Can any bros or sis advise me on wat to do?

1) Gather information
2) Talk to him abt his affair
3) Divorce lor
If dun wan to divorce then pretend nothing happen lor

Originally Posted by ol'coyote

hmm...logical thing is talk to hubby...
illogical thing is...have your own affair...
if going for option 2...pls private message (pm) me...

Need to take Q nos????

[Pui Pui]

Wat is wrong? Is it i didnt give him enof sex tats y he do tat ? Or is it im not good in sex?

[newyorker88]

Sorry to hear that. But your account is 2005. You must be an old timer here too. 1st post also?

1) have a talk with him. Find out what happened.
2) Did you not treat him well enough?
3) usually, men stray with other woman( if not a one time affair, but long time), there is something wrong between both of your relationship that need to work out. Try to salvage. Is there something wrong between the 2 of u? Man go out to have fun at times. but does he comes home everyday n provide all?
4) If all fails, get a PI to gather evidence, if he continues. It will come in handy in court. Of cos, I don't suggest this as it will really mean the end.

[Wipedout]

So many replies, how about the most important initial question:

"How do you know?"

[Pui Pui]

As his job need him to drink most of the days but when he drink he very long then cum. So sometimes when he ask for it i jus say tired. Even if do i will say y so long haven cum. Is it wrong of me to say tat?

[a2014]

Originally Posted by Pui Pui

My husband is having an affair. I feel very sad but i dun wan to end my marriage. Can any bros or sis advise me on wat to do?

No details how to advise.

[Pui Pui]

Sorry its my 1st time posting so i dun really know wat to post.

[Pui Pui]

Originally Posted by newyorker88

Sorry to hear that. But your account is 2005. You must be an old timer here too. 1st post also?

1) have a talk with him. Find out what happened.
2) Did you not treat him well enough?
3) usually, men stray with other woman( if not a one time affair, but long time), there is something wrong between both of your relationship that need to work out. Try to salvage. Is there something wrong between the 2 of u? Man go out to have fun at times. but does he comes home everyday n provide all?
4) If all fails, get a PI to gather evidence, if he continues. It will come in handy in court. Of cos, I don't suggest this as it will really mean the end.

As his job require him to drink most of the days n when he drink he very long then ejaculate. So sometimes when he ask for it i will say im tired. Or even if got do i also will say y so long? Is it wrong of me to say tat ?

[Pui Pui]

At days when he didnt drink he ask for a bj i also give it to him. Still not enof?