10 reasons why PRC women love to marry foreign men overseas

[HCKing]

copied n pasted frm an article in a PRC blog.

昨天，我小区的一位叫燕子的美女回来了，还带来了一位外国男人，大家都争着去看，这位美女骄傲的向大家介绍 ，这是她的老公，来自美国，那神情仿佛比吃了蜜糖还要甜，她的父母也一脸幸福，围观的群众都表现出十分羡慕 的神情，仿佛恨自己的女儿没有如此福气。前几天，我看到一篇报道，说上海女人就一门心思要嫁外国男人，还有 ，很多人借此专门介绍中国女人嫁到外国。

为什么中国女人以嫁外国男人为荣，以嫁给外国男人为时尚，笔者认为有以下十大原因：

一是认为外国比中国富，所以嫁给外国男人就有钱。目前，中国还是发展中国家，还不是很富裕，所以，嫁到外国 ，就以为是嫁到钱袋子里，所以，许多女人都想方设法嫁到国外，即使不能嫁到国外，也要嫁到香港、澳门、台湾 。

二是认为嫁给外国男人就是有地位。因为中国目前都在招商引资，有一种崇洋媚外的心理，只要是外国人来中国， 都以为是个宝，争先恐后的去接待和引见，中国女人嫁给这些外国男人，地位自然跟着上升。

三是嫁给外国男人可以满足中国女人的虚荣心。中国女人都有虚荣心，认为嫁给外国男人达到了自己的目的，满足 了她的虚荣心。

四是通过嫁给外国男人为跳板，达到自己出国的目的。许多中国人都想出国，但出国机会有限，于是，有些中国女 人用自己的美貌嫁给外国男人，以达到出国的目的。

五是认为外国男人比较有绅士风度。我们经常在电影和媒体上看到外国男人彬彬有礼，很有绅士风度，对一些中国 女人自然有吸引力，所以这些女人希望嫁给这些有绅士风度的外国男人。

六是嫁给外国男人以满足自己的新鲜感和好奇心。中国男人她们已经看惯，太熟悉中国男人的风格了，嫁给外国男 人可以满足他们的新鲜感和好奇心。

七是由于朝夕相处产生了感情，自然而然嫁给外国男人。有些中国女人在外国留学或在外资企业上班，经常和外国 男人找交道，久而久之，产生了感情，最后当然选择嫁给外国男人。

八是喜欢国外的生活习惯和风土人情，通过嫁给外国男人去追求国外的生活方式。有些中国女人从小就通过文学或 媒体，喜欢外国的生活习惯和风土人情充满渴望，而没有其它方式进入她喜欢的国家，只能通过嫁给外国男人的方 式达到自己的目的。

九是认为外国能做到男女平等，而中国一直重男轻女，男人有大男子主义，想通过嫁给外国男人以求的平等的生活 和工作机会。

十是国外出台优惠政策，以吸引中国人才，这些人才中自然包括一部分中国女人。这些中国女人到外国工作后，自 然首选外国男人为嫁人对象。

中国目前男女比例已经失衡，男人比女人要多，而现在中国女人又喜欢嫁给外国男人，我们一定要警惕中国女人的 流失，笔者认为主要办法有三个：一是提高中国的经济等综合实力，让中国成为真正的世界强国，不但让中国女人 喜欢自己的国家，而且要让外国女人羡慕我们中国；二是我们男人也要改掉自己的坏习惯，不要大男子主义，尤其 在老婆面前要用心爱自己的老婆，改变中国男人在女人心目中的形象，不但要让中国女人喜欢中国男人，还要让外 国女人喜欢中国男人，并嫁给我们中国男人；三是我国要出台更好的政策，不但让中国的人才留在中国，更要让国 外优秀人才来到中国，自然包括国外优秀女人才。

但愿有一天，外国女人以嫁给中国男人为荣，为时尚！

[whitegals]

Ho say leow lah! What am I still doing here, ok, monday go take leave!

[ilovelife.now]

Very interesting points..!
but how true is that?

[jnudes]

Translated using Google Translate to English:

Yesterday, I called the district of a beauty swallows come back, and also brought a foreign man, we are all fighting over who gets to see, this beauty proud to tell you, this is her husband, from the United States, that looked as if even than eating the honey-sweet, and her parents look of well-being of the masses are shown surrounding the envy of the expression, as if hate his own daughter, not so fortunate. A few days ago, I saw a report that Shanghai women marry foreign men on the single-minded, there are a lot of people devoted to the Chinese women married to foreign countries.

Why do Chinese women to marry foreign men are proud to marry foreign men for fashion, I believe that the following ten reasons:

The first is that the rich countries than China, so there is money to marry foreign men. At present, China is still developing country, is not very rich, so married to foreign countries thought the married purse yard, so many women are seeking married abroad, if not married abroad, but also married into Hong Kong, Macao and Taiwan.

The second is that to marry a foreign man is standing. Because the Chinese are currently to attract foreign investors, there is a worshiper of foreign things psychological, as long as foreigners come to China, have thought it was a treasure, rushed in to the reception and introductions, the Chinese women to marry these foreign men, the status of a natural follow up.

The third is to meet Chinese women married to foreign men's vanity. Chinese women have a vanity that to marry a foreign man to achieve his objective, to satisfy her vanity.

Fourth, by marrying a foreign man as a springboard to go abroad for their own purposes. Many Chinese people want to go abroad, but limited opportunities to go abroad, so, some Chinese women married to foreign countries with their own beauty, men, in order to achieve the purpose of going abroad.

5 is that the foreign men have more gentlemanly. We often see in film and media a foreign man was very polite, very gentlemanly, for some Chinese women naturally attractive, so these women want to marry these foreign men are gentlemanly.

6 is married to foreign men to meet their freshness and curiosity. They have been used to seeing Chinese men, and too familiar with the style of the Chinese men married to foreign men to meet their freshness and curiosity.

7 is due to the feelings generated in daily life, and naturally to marry foreign men. Some Chinese women studying in a foreign country or in foreign work, frequent dealings with foreign men to find the passage of time, resulting in feelings, end of course, choose to marry foreign men.

8 is a favorite of foreign habits and customs, by marrying a foreign man to pursue the foreign way of life. Some Chinese women from an early age through literature or the media, like foreign habits and customs of life is full of anxiety, and no other means of getting into her favorite country, only by marrying foreign men the way to achieve their own objectives.

9 is that foreign countries can be equality between the sexes, while China has always been patriarchal, the men are macho, want to marry foreign men in order to equal the life and job opportunities.

10 is the introduction of foreign preferential policies to attract Chinese talent, naturally including some Chinese women. These Chinese women to work in foreign countries, the natural choice for foreign men to marry the object.

The proportion of China's current imbalance between men and women, men more than women want to, but now they prefer Chinese women married to foreign men, we must guard against the loss of Chinese women, I believe that there are three main ways: First, improve the comprehensive strength of China's economy, China to become a true world power, not only for Chinese women like their own countries, but also make us the envy of foreign women in China; Second, we men have Gaidiao their own bad habits, not machismo, especially in front of his wife to use his beloved wife, to change the minds of Chinese men in a woman's image, not only to make women like Chinese men in China, but also to foreign women like Chinese men and Chinese men married to us; Third, China is necessary to adopt better policies, not only enable the Chinese people to stay in China, but to let foreign talents to come to China, naturally including the foreign outstanding female talent.

I hope one day to a foreign woman married to Chinese men proud of, for fashion!

[NewandLost]

Originally Posted by jnudes

Translated using Google Translate to English:

Yesterday, I called the district of a beauty swallows come back, and also brought a foreign man, we are all fighting over who gets to see, this beauty proud to tell you, this is her husband, from the United States, that looked as if even than eating the honey-sweet, and her parents look of well-being of the masses are shown surrounding the envy of the expression, as if hate his own daughter, not so fortunate. A few days ago, I saw a report that Shanghai women marry foreign men on the single-minded, there are a lot of people devoted to the Chinese women married to foreign countries.

Why do Chinese women to marry foreign men are proud to marry foreign men for fashion, I believe that the following ten reasons:

The first is that the rich countries than China, so there is money to marry foreign men. At present, China is still developing country, is not very rich, so married to foreign countries thought the married purse yard, so many women are seeking married abroad, if not married abroad, but also married into Hong Kong, Macao and Taiwan.

The second is that to marry a foreign man is standing. Because the Chinese are currently to attract foreign investors, there is a worshiper of foreign things psychological, as long as foreigners come to China, have thought it was a treasure, rushed in to the reception and introductions, the Chinese women to marry these foreign men, the status of a natural follow up.

The third is to meet Chinese women married to foreign men's vanity. Chinese women have a vanity that to marry a foreign man to achieve his objective, to satisfy her vanity.

Fourth, by marrying a foreign man as a springboard to go abroad for their own purposes. Many Chinese people want to go abroad, but limited opportunities to go abroad, so, some Chinese women married to foreign countries with their own beauty, men, in order to achieve the purpose of going abroad.

5 is that the foreign men have more gentlemanly. We often see in film and media a foreign man was very polite, very gentlemanly, for some Chinese women naturally attractive, so these women want to marry these foreign men are gentlemanly.

6 is married to foreign men to meet their freshness and curiosity. They have been used to seeing Chinese men, and too familiar with the style of the Chinese men married to foreign men to meet their freshness and curiosity.

7 is due to the feelings generated in daily life, and naturally to marry foreign men. Some Chinese women studying in a foreign country or in foreign work, frequent dealings with foreign men to find the passage of time, resulting in feelings, end of course, choose to marry foreign men.

8 is a favorite of foreign habits and customs, by marrying a foreign man to pursue the foreign way of life. Some Chinese women from an early age through literature or the media, like foreign habits and customs of life is full of anxiety, and no other means of getting into her favorite country, only by marrying foreign men the way to achieve their own objectives.

9 is that foreign countries can be equality between the sexes, while China has always been patriarchal, the men are macho, want to marry foreign men in order to equal the life and job opportunities.

10 is the introduction of foreign preferential policies to attract Chinese talent, naturally including some Chinese women. These Chinese women to work in foreign countries, the natural choice for foreign men to marry the object.

The proportion of China's current imbalance between men and women, men more than women want to, but now they prefer Chinese women married to foreign men, we must guard against the loss of Chinese women, I believe that there are three main ways: First, improve the comprehensive strength of China's economy, China to become a true world power, not only for Chinese women like their own countries, but also make us the envy of foreign women in China; Second, we men have Gaidiao their own bad habits, not machismo, especially in front of his wife to use his beloved wife, to change the minds of Chinese men in a woman's image, not only to make women like Chinese men in China, but also to foreign women like Chinese men and Chinese men married to us; Third, China is necessary to adopt better policies, not only enable the Chinese people to stay in China, but to let foreign talents to come to China, naturally including the foreign outstanding female talent.

I hope one day to a foreign woman married to Chinese men proud of, for fashion!

Braddah, I don't like the fact PRC always use the word "object." Make things seem like just a transcation to fufill their needs.

[HCKing]

China tries to stop women marrying for money, rather than love

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worl...than-love.html

[HCKing]

"true love" story with a PRC WL.

http://www.tnp.sg/content/china-brid...then-ran-13000

[HCKing]

to the ballless asshole who has been zapping me -3 using different clone accounts, aiyah u got so many clones liao still sissy until cant even leave one of yr nicks? haiz y like that one leh?

[lohwengkuen]

It's easy to date PRC girls,as some of them told me that PRC guys are quite bad in their treatment to girls.Definitely financially and security contributes to this too.

[sean69]

Originally Posted by HCKing

"true love" story with a PRC WL.

http://www.tnp.sg/content/china-brid...then-ran-13000

sometimes i really feel sad for singaporean men.. i mean, it is not the first time singaporean men kenna con by PRC ladies but yet, you still read this kind of stories in the newspaper every now and then...

no wonder they love to come here and cheat us of our money cos it is so simple!! ..

sometimes i wonder is it the way we have been so "sheltered" by our government that we have become so naive to believe any BS from anyone ?

sad.. real sad..

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by sean69

sometimes i really feel sad for singaporean men.. i mean, it is not the first time singaporean men kenna con by PRC ladies but yet, you still read this kind of stories in the newspaper every now and then...

no wonder they love to come here and cheat us of our money cos it is so simple!! ..

sometimes i wonder is it the way we have been so "sheltered" by our government that we have become so naive to believe any BS from anyone ?

sad.. real sad..

most guys here are quite vulnerable to their KC tactics as many are used to playing the role of the giver and follower in their r/s with local girls so whenever a PRC girl comes along and starts acting the role of a sweet n submissive kitten the guy's ego will be so boosted that the logic part of his brain will temporarily stops functioning and starts believing whatever she says, even if she tells him she has preserved her virginity just for him.

[WIBlack]

Basically, I don't think that only PRC women love to marry foreign men. Yes, they seem to be on higher list of lovers of foreign men, however all these years, women from Asia Countries such as Thailand, Phillippines, Indonesia and even our very own SPGs (most of them) love to get married to overseas and they though life over in other countries are better than in Singapore.


Wonders why they do not really like their own countries' men.

[sean69]

Originally Posted by HCKing

most guys here are quite vulnerable to their KC tactics as many are used to playing the role of the giver and follower in their r/s with local girls so whenever a PRC girl comes along and starts acting the role of a sweet n submissive kitten the guy's ego will be so boosted that the logic part of his brain will temporarily stops functioning and starts believing whatever she says, even if she tells him she has preserved her virginity just for him.

true true... the way they "teh" a bit, play the role of "a little woman" is more than enuff liao.. sigh... singapore man ah singapore man.. when will u wake up??!!!

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by sean69

true true... the way they "teh" a bit, play the role of "a little woman" is more than enuff liao.. sigh... singapore man ah singapore man.. when will u wake up??!!!

yes bro, tis kinda "teh" always works in stroking the guy's ego and gives him a sudden feel of self-importance. everyone, regardless of male or female love the feeling of being needed by someone. when she starts playing the 'little woman' role the guy will naturally feel obligated to 'protect' his girl and will gradually give in to all her ridiculous demands without knowing what's actually happening at all.

[BowBow]

Grass is alway greener on the other side...