Relationship Advice Needed. Girl might hurt herself. :(

[thisisjq]

Hi All,

Longtime SBF forumer but created a new account to protect my identity. Some of the bros here may know me.

I am in a relationship with a lady from the land of the smiles. I met her as a WL and we've grown to be really, really close, to the point that she's stopped working as a WL already which is really positive.

We are together for 6 months now, and it's been quite a roller coaster ride. When it's good, it's really good. But when it's bad, it's bad. Granted, it's not always been bad, but it's just scary when it is.

I tend to see that she can be a little unstable. And now that I've expressed that I want to break it off, her instability is surfacing. She tends to say things about going back to work as a WL, hurting herself, and hurting me. Of course I don't want that to happen, but I feel that there's no use staying in a relationship out of pity instead of love.

<Continuation to come later. Moderated user at the moment. Appreciate any insights. >

[thisisjq]

The idealist in me thinks that she's actually a strong girl and can survive on her own if I'm not around anymore. But the paranoid in me thinks that she'll take a flight to SG and start doing something stupid.

I really don't want to stay with her, but it seems like that's the only way I can prevent her from doing something stupid. Doesn't sound like a relationship to me, but a prison.


Any insights will be appreciated.

Thanks
J

[FCCialis]

Its hard to really trust n believe a girl frm los. They r by nature very stong emotionally cos of the enviorment they r brought up in, so unless both of u have gone thru thick n thin n if ur financially supporting her, u leaving her might be the end of that financial support, hence she has to go back to her previous lifestyle. Moreover, for a thai girl that has been exposed to this easy way of getting money, u dont expect to go work as a waitress or an OL getting so lttle money rite?

[hotstuffm8]

trolololol

[chanster]

Why do you have to commit when you know you can't in the first place ?!

[etct88]

This where the difference between the SG guys and the Thai guys......

If you are the Thai guy, she couldn't be bothered and move on, so will the Thai guy.