[JohnTan2517]

Thanks for the insight, maybe I will share more. I hope I'm not boring the other Bros/Sisters out there. With my old relationship I really got along with her intellectually and emotionally but physical attraction had always been so-so on my part. I feel quite shallow admitting this but I thought somehow with enough effort I could make it work. Just wondering how important is sexual chemistry in a relationship?

Oddly because I'm more turned on/tense with the physical attraction and no strings attached with the professionals the performance becomes inconsistent. Somewhat worried I'm losing my groove.

Sorry if I've turned this into a therapy session/advice column. Appreciate the comments, thanks!