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Originally Posted by AnnieYJL
One of my subordinate came to me and said the same thing. The issue is her husband is also having a lot of activities outside. As in not really lover or mistress. Her husband started by going to some funny joints and after which he was smitten with that lady. From that service provider to customer relationship, they developed into a bf/ gf relationship.
The 1st trigger point is when the husband started asking my staff for kinky sex. She said he loves to go back door and initially my staff agreed wanting to keep the relationship. However, she shared that it was really unbearable as the entry was totally miserable. She was devastated when her husband said why other woman can take it graciously but she becomes a wimp!
Well, the next unfortunate thing is she started to have relationship with her friend. She said that guy is really handsome, gentle, caring and accommodating. When she was feeling really down, he comforted her etc….sex was really good according to her because she feels like in love. He hugged her in her arms and both of them slept through the night
Like everyone’s guess, that relationship ended in a divorce. She shared during courtship, her husband put in a lot of effort to court us. During then, she deny him sex etc…maybe just let him hold her hands and kiss her forehead. Yet he continue his pursue and eventually got married. She gave birth to 2 beautiful children, sacrifice her career for the family and in the end, she got this shit. Worst of all, she also had another relationship which complicates matter most.
Personally I think both sides have to self reflect. In fact these kind of things can be avoided. I was pissed when she told me the story. How can a man compare his demure wife to a whore? And of course when my staff is down, other men also prey on her. And the most stupid thing is she is beautiful. Her husband is really an idiot
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Did your friend at least find happiness in the other guy? I imagine the guy must be with her mainly for the sex, men are usually uninterested in baggage from a previous marriage....no matter how miserable your ex-subordinate must have been, surely she knows that the moment she allows her pussy to be penetrated by another cock she will start to develop feelings for the man. In a way, I think your ex-subordinate asked for it. Women are usually more logical than emotional when it comes to relationships than men, I see that this woman is probably an exception.
Yes, her ex-husband is truly idiotic, the way he used those words on this wife is unforgivable. But two wrongs do not make one right, she should have known from the start that the relationship with the other guy will never progress beyond the physical no matter how happy she feels when she was in his arms. To me that is pure stupidity, on her part.