wow bro. mad respect. I also have issues finishing from vaginal penetration and I do recognize it might be the porn and masturbation combo that im hooked on. i tried "fasting" for 10 days and it seems to be my limit but still need to use hand to finish after performing on the bed.
for some reason, even after 30 minutes of various positions, trying to finish using hand takes longer than just straight up using hand when alone. dam difficult to quit the masturbation/porn addition.
at first i thought it was because I don't have any "emotional connection" to the FL i was fucking. then I found a FWB whom i found really attractive and had a short term relationship. even travelled overseas together and had raw sex multiple times. still needed to finish by hand. feelsbadman
i try nofap for a few days every once in a while, but on the day i break the "fast" i will be so horny that i will fap 3 times. how did u even last 9 months? im still a virgin when it comes to orgasm thru penetration
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Originally Posted by xylphz
That explains.
Like boss Sam mentioned as above from my reply.
One of anti-depressant medication side effects is that it will disrupt your sex drive / libido :
Managing Antidepressant Sexual Side Effects
Because since you can physically erect during normal days.
Most of the time, the problem lies with psychological first rather the physical part.
Let me share my experience:
Last year there is a 3 months lockdown in SG,
The only way I could release is masturbate.
After awhile I tried to masturbate, I failed to erect and cum.
Realized that I have PIED (Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction) last year.
Went cold turkey no fap for 9 months to detox my mind's dopamine reactors towards sex.
After 9 months, tried with first 2 FL bookings I messed up, still can't cum.
After the 3rd attempt booking,
This one 90 mins session, I took an hour, manage to successfully cum with pussy penetration. |