There was an ex-ML whom I visited regularly then. Sessions usually ended with HJ plus I fingered her a bit.
She's now happily married to a local SG and has a kid.
While I do agree with bros here that most such relationships (if u fall in love) doesnt end well, there are some success stories to tell
Anyway, if u have not step into this KC trap, suggest not too... If u did, all da best. Challenge I personally feel is having to live with the ML's past (or even present).