bro TS... i guess it's the 'feeling' that you are after... maybe you shoud try an escort with that 'special' so that can go like on a 'date like' and end up the night with the 'exercise' since money may not be an issue for you?
For me, the feeling of paid sex became numb after more than a year and now it's a different game my desire takes me to... i agree with you that it's not always about the money...