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Old 12-05-2012, 12:55 PM
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Re: Intimacy issues with BF

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Originally Posted by Xgenre View Post
Whose idea was it to have designated sex and non-sex days? When you strip to sexy lingerie, is it possible to have sex at that time and location? Is it private enough for sex? The long term solution to tiredness is actually exercise. He's not going to get fitter as he age unless he exercises. Perhaps you can go exercise with him. What does he do for a living? He sounds like he has a physically energy zapping job.

How do you touch his private parts? You didn't actually describe in detail? Touch from outside of his pants? Touch in public? (take mrt sometimes can see some girls who aren't shy) As a guy, it's sometimes quite frustrating to be aroused without the possibility of a release. Touch until he got to walk around with an erection, that's quite uncomfortable for guys. There is also the issue of respect. He may be your bf but his body is still his. Imagine us guys fingering our gfs whether the ladies like it or not because the ladies are our gfs. Ladies will be pissed off too right?

Meeting other men for confidence boosting doesn't solve the problems between you and your bf. If anything, it adds more problems. Does physical intimacy equate to love for you? Is there any non-physical way that he can show you that he loves you? Some girls I know like their bfs to send them 1 or 2 periodic sms each day to ask how the day is for the lady. It's like a confirmation that the guy got think of her. Will that work for you?
ha ha quite true bo dai ji anyhow touch , touch aready dun want do. feel like slapping also
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