[Black Serpeant]

I, myself kena tuah big time by my ex-singaporean wife. It's my current vietnamese wife who gave me the strength to carry on despite having to start over wrt rebuilding my finances.I guess I was lucky to have met a vietnam lady who cherishes her life in Singapore more than to worry about her relatives who are far away in HCM. She gave birth to a cute dragon baby and gave full priority to our family without bothering to send back a single cent even after i allowed her to manage my entire salary. I think the trick is to really be honest about your situation and then let them decide how they want to build their future with you.If they really have to use you as an atm machine for family in hometown,you will surely know.