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Originally Posted by Macadonia
hi bros,first time posting here.
i had sex at GL with a legal WL yesterday. i wore condom for BJ and FJ.i didnt french kiss her or anything. Just a BJ and FJ. i only did doggie,missionary and cowgirl position.oh and i fingered her for 2-3 mins while we were bathing. although i know the risk of getting HIV/STDs is low, is there any possibility of getting it? im just extremely paranoid because this my first time i had with with a prosititude..i was so paranoid that even when she tried to french me i rejected..hah
so yea,can somebody help me? would really appreacite it
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Hey bro first of all she's legal. So they have to undergo health checks if i'm not mistaken? Anyway you wore a condom for BJ and FJ. and HIV is easily transmitted by unprotected FJ or AJ. So since you wore a condom then you're safe.
Fingering is not a risk for HIV transmission. Your first time can be paranoia so if you want you can go for a test at the 6th week. But if you go, know that it's only for peace of mind because you were at no risk.
Please refer to this links
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http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Li...ex/show/247583
I'll get a quote from there (it's from unprotected oral (which the doctors in that forum - experts in their fields said is of no risk)
"you could have the same exposure twice a day for the next 30 years and expect to never catch HIV."
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Pre...y/show/1360421
another few quotes:
"I am sure you can find lots of people who belive that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..." DR HOOK
There is no debate (among experts) about the HIV risks associated with oral sex. The risk is so low that almost nobody who cares for HIV infected patients has ever had a patient believed to have been infected that way. Among experts, it's a semantic issue about using terms like "no risk" and "very low risk". There is no difference between my or Dr. Hook's use of "low risk" and other experts' "no risk".
DR. HANSFIELD
"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK
There have been studies one of which went on for 10 years between partners - one positive and another negative where they had protected sex and unprotected oral. GUess how many became infected? 0 [Moreover, yours was protected so chance is even lower]
As for fingering this is the same quotes from the doctor:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Pre...ng/show/255454
"Nobody has ever been known to acquire HIV by hand-to-genital contact, even with cuts or other lesions on their hands. Further, the chance your partner had HIV is very low. " - Dr HHH
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Pre...-/show/1166124
"The "fingering" exposure that you describe is a form or masturbation and HIV is not spread through masturbation. This is true even if your partner's secretions get on (or possibly into) you. Transfer of infection from person to person on someone's hands simply does not work. The organisms die VERY quickly outside of the body and the transfer process "dilutes" out the numbers of organisms present to the point where they are no longer infectious even if there were any present." - Dr EWH
As long as your condom didn't rip (and before you get paranoid, trust me you'll know if it rips and besides after the event as long as your semen is still in the condom it didn't rip - condoms don't develop miniscule tears, if it fails it's a catastrophic fail) , you're safe.
Know that the quotes that I provided were from experts in their fields and they have been advising users from that forum for years now. So they know what they are talking about. All the best bro
Always use a condom.