Especially for the newbies, and maybe some tips for the more seasoned bros, I just put together my experiences and feedback I've received from friends and ladyboys about how to get a good ladyboy "education".
But why bother? Straightforward isn't it? Just go contact a ladyboy, do a deal and that's it?
Not really, like any education, you need to study, to do your homework. So when the exam comes, you're ready!
So the idea here is to bonk a ladyboy and get the best experience for your money.
Lesson One
Firstly, they're not freaks! Not an animal you look at in a zoo.
They're human, odd behaviour sometimes, but still human. So the treatment has to be how they would like to be treated i.e. like girls.
The moment you treat then otherwise, they react differently. If they react differently, everything is done machine like, with no emotions and they're dying to finish the act. And you get a so so experience.
So be nice;compliment them, even if it's a white lie. Tell them their hair looks good, the dress looks great on them etc. But, don't overdo it. One or two compliments is enough. (In the Rowell situation where talking before the deal is sometimes impossible, it's a bit hard)
Lesson Two
Don't take Field Reports (FRs) as the whole truth. Some people exaggerate; to put it mildly. So use them as a rough guide. Take the trouble to read the posts in forums, note locations, descriptions, services so you save time. Take note, as others have mentioned, some ladyboy ads in vicesisters and web sites are also exaggerated. Also remember that Mr A may get a good level of service for one reason or other but Mr B may get something different with the same ladyboy.
Try and experience the locations yourself - where do you feel comfortable? Strolling along Rowell Road, sitting on a bar stool in Romeos
or daring to be different and heading across the causeway to experience the rough Susor Empat?
Not sure? Try them all, using your own sixth sense to guide you. (Incidentally, do try Bangkok's Nana Plaza for the ultimate range if you can.)
And, oh yes, heck, even try a cross dresser who's willing to give free blow jobs!
Once you've seen the locations, you've seen who's available and what turns you on you're ready to choose!
Lesson Three
Decide on your price level. For your education to be complete you must try all the levels if possible. Why? Because then you can compare the price and quality that gives you the best satisfaction. Some people are fast workers so not much point taking a trans for one hour and then TCSS, unless you like to talk! Even so, do try try an escort or a trans from OT at least once just for the experience.
Once you've decided, use your sensors! Where you can, make contact, smile, say hello, ask where they come from (even if you know). If you sense warmth in their response, chances are, it's a good time ahead.
Start negotiations!
Always confirm a price and ask how long and what service is provided. Don't be embarrassed! It will save an awkward moment later. When talking of price, if for example, a trans asks for $100 don't try for $50! It says you're not serious and straight away it gives a negative impression. Tipping - if the service is good, give a tip at the end, usually if it's $30 give $35/40. But don't overdo it, because the next time you take the same one she will expect that level of pricing. So be reasonable, it has to be good for both sides or else the experience is usually no fun.
Lesson Four
Before the bonking, prepare yourself, you know your own body. Over eating and over drinking is not wise, especially too much booze!
Safety -
always use a cap! This is one point I cannot elaborate enough. Getting an STD or worse - AIDS is not funny.
Cleanliness - yes, one turn off for a ladyboy is always customers that stink, especially when you can't shower before the act.
Go for it! Forget your problems and just enjoy yourself. If you're happy, it gets infectious! It usually makes the trans more comfortable.
After the act, chit chat a bit and if it was good don't forget the telephone number and her name!
Lesson Five
The idea is to try as many trans as you can within a reasonable time. Many reasons for this. First, you need to try different people who will give different techniques and experiences etc. Second, if you stick to one, what happens when she goes back? So, if possible have 3 alternatives and better still, in 3 different locations so as to avoid an odd moment.
Security - Be careful of your belongings especially if you pick up a trans from Geylang or hanging outside Orchard Towers (those not connected to a house or pub).
Lastly, share your experiences on this forum - good or bad, try and be specific, where, who, how much, service provided etc. The more information we all have the better for all of us here.
Cheers all, happy bonking
and please, I'm not perfect and nor is this post, any comments or questions?