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Sad Man
I'm not really into the "commercial" scense but discovered this site and the "heart thread" after looking around on the Internet for help. Mx ex PRC GF had spent time in Singapore about 4 to 5 years ago with her sister. Is it possible she was a former KTV gal? We fought a lot over money with her saying men should pay for everything. I helped her with her business which failed, bought groceries, and gifts (though never an LV bad or anything outlandish). In the end she said I made her feel cheap but over the course of about a year it was my guess over 250K RMB. We broke up over my suspiciones of her having another BF (phone calls late at night, vacations for one week by herself, etc). I got a lot of pressure to purchase an apt for her because her GF's BF had done so, wanted a car, tuition, etc. She had a lot of problems with her family and I was her savior but not we are broke up. I even helped with her things (money) immediately after we broke up. We were to meet for CNY but before meeting I told her she had lost my trust because of the past. She wanted to forget and I stopped contact with her. Two months later I try to contact her and she refuses to answer. Im CBC so clueless about PRC women and CH dating customs. One thing is for sure this gal is still in my heart. Did I make the wrong call? I'm probably never going to get answers from her. One she is extremely sensitive and doesnt like confrontation and I dont think she will take my calls again. Some things hat bothered me which she said while we were together in addition to the unexplained abscences not sometimes not being reachable late at night (one time caught her at a nightclub) are she once said to me I can get this from any man, I can get 20K RMB by just going out to dinner and entertainment but nothing else with another man. Hope you can help. I'm looking for closure. Stll have a heavy heart but I also feel like the relationship was not real. I did meet her family and spent a lot of time with them. Thanks.
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