Hahaha! I really like bro slider_72's way of scenario's play! So in the end it's whether how are you going to approach this matter to the other party, either (1) softly or (2) hardly aka like a lawyer accusing the accused... Very nicely put! Oh yeah, both you and bro cablesandwires are both GREAT heroes!
On the topic of love, through the years that I've been cheonging I've came to learn one thing about it, though it's actually just learnt recently from someone... It seriously doesn't matter how long you have known each other... Last time my mentality was that a couple has got to have at least 3-5 years of knowing each other before they can think about whether to tie the knot, and thus whenever I knew of friends whom seems to married on haste, I would cautioned them and think they are making a mistake... But now I know that it's the quality and having the fate of meeting each other being that's the most important. Quality time will transcends quantity of time and having the fate of knowing each other at that point in time and still manage to persevere the tests of uncertainties ahead, be it indifference behaviours of each other, quarrels, obstacles in your way... No matter if you might know the person only for a couple of months, you'll feel that it seems like years instead.. So summarily, quality precedes over quantity and of course a dash of fate of knowing each other in the first place..
Cheers!