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Originally Posted by crazymani
thanks @ UncleHasBeen for the replies.
The way you put it - it feels a lot like courtship except that you made known that you are married and not looking for love relationship/emotional thing.
The part I feel that is impressive is - ladies knowing the above fact, then proceed to have a sexual relationship with you. You somehow are able to sell it that the ladies are not losing out but in fact gaining from such an arrangement.
Most ladies will not want to be involved - or at least the ones I know.
When you ask them out, those that rejected, I would presume you stop there? cos it will be obvious that they dont want to have anything w you. Does it affect your reputation some how? It seems like you only do it through Dance classes where these ladies are not within your normal social circle so even if the word gets out, it does go to your social circle (i.e friends, colleagues and relatives). |
I am assuming all women in this context would view me as someone lusting after their bodies.
Totally acceptable and i dont deny.
Which is why i need to wine and dine them.
On one hand to show them that besides having an intimate relationship with me, there might be other perks.
For this, my maturity needs to take one for me.
Imagine if i come across as someone young dumb full of cum, my chances of taking them along for the ride is much lowered.
I have been doing for this for a long time, before and now being married.
Very few women would want me for sex. As of now, i only met about 7.
But that is 7 out of at least 30 successful FWB/OPP.
So the majority are attracted to me simply because of my perceived charm.
Not my looks which i dont have or my bod.
My perceived charm. What they think and make of it.
They think they are getting into a relationship of intimacy, a little romance and rendezvous. Hide and seek, covering trails.
Then sex, that would be the bonus and last perk that they would offer.
Which means only if i can offer all the above or they think i can offer all the above then the thighs are spread.
I have high numbers of FWB/OPP not because i am attractive, which i am not.
I got those numbers because i try and try. Rejection to be me is good because at least i know what she does not want and where i could have presented better.
Reputation? This helps me.
Words get spread around within that specific circle.
Like dance classes, baking workshops or dive classes.
Such reputation will tickles those curious and daring ones
Words wont get out, how could they?
Remember i wine and dine first.
I watch them for specific signals, body language and eye contact.
And i never ask first. I make the first move but i never ask first.
The willing pussies always ask first. I never ask.
