Just like the earlier two comments, u are already in a better position to play with them.
Good news for u is that they tell u upfront their requirements.
Which means they are game as long as u know what u
are not getting before getting it. Understand?
And of course they want love first.
No decent or sane women would say, "ok lets fuck first and talk later".
There are some but they are fucking epic trouble, trust me.
This is a good and clear mindset at the start.
And i can guarantee u is that over a few sessions later, mindset changes due to what u can offer them.
So keep that in mind.
Lastly, dont ever educate them.
They are there to educate u. Learn from them.
Learn what? Learn why they want another man.
Learn what their man did wrong or not do.
Basically learn what causes them to welcome your rod into theirs.
Then use that insight to strengthen your own relationship with your
woman and other
women 
In no time, your own relationship benefits.
Your alternate sexual relationships benefits.
Everyone benefits. Dont educate them on the mindset.
Learn from them but u can educate them on bed-set instead