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Originally Posted by KimSiew769

I think i mentioned this several times in this forum about apps & match.

1) Getting a match - most of you wonder why you have never gotten a match. The reason why is because you are choosy! Note: This is not a beauty pageant contest and you are not the pageant judge. You do not choose the most chio ones or only click right to the Chiobus. SYT, or someone scantly dressed - most of them (esp the PRC looking ones) are fake account trying to milk your dough (never your rod)

2) Account without pic/photos - I am talking about the other party's account. Those with no photos/pic or only have photos of coffee, MBS, flowers, food they cooked - ask yourself why you are not eager to have your own photos posted (then you will get the answer) right click on them, usually they might match - cause they are either attached, married, or wants to be discreet

3) The reason why - Females who log in to such apps are usually bored with their life either with too much free time or have no frens to talk to to pass their time (hence why you see lots of DH on such apps) - prob 20% of that group are females naively looking for that "someone" (they usually heard true stories of success cases and want to try their luck) the other 40% are females who are bored and the rest are fake accounts - either click baits, scams or something

4) The conversation -to excite a man, u attack the lower body (stomach and dick) to excite a woman, u attack the upper body (brain and heart) - so have some decent conversation/topics - please dont go asking how was their day and what are they doing (they hear this everyday in their office and from their bosses). Put in some effort - if you see photos of cooked food, means they like to cook - talk about that topic etc

Lastly, my 2 cents - if u want a match - dont be choosy or you will be wasting time clicking on fake accounts and wondering why u never get a match.

The matches we had or are having seems so easy in stories you read here but the truth is who are the people we have met or are meeting from such apps.. we share our stories, but have you actually seen photos of the women in the stories?

To match is not hard, what's is hard is whether you have an open-mind or a heart big enough to accept whatever comes to your plate? if you cant, then you will continue to have zero match.

If your expectations are high, you should prob go pay for it. then you can choose till your heart content. dont expect such apps to deliver on ROI or KPI

The rest is up to you

Well said bro! Can I ask, what app are you usually using? My tinder is really bad (all fake ones matching), most of my dates are from bumble. Hinge has not many, but all of them are real women.