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Originally Posted by Drifter1999
Agree. ( Click to show/hide )To be fair, if you know where she is located, it is rather inconvenient to get food, not that she is lazy to go down stairs and buy. The fact she asked for your help clearly shows that she is comfortable with you to make the request. I have also regularly brought meals for my regular MLs, past and present, if I happen to make appointments at meal times. Sometime i will even check with them if they need me to get food. So far they are quite appreciative and did not complain about the food i bought nor make any special requests, just plain cai png, $5/6 only, ok lah. Of course i do check with them what are their dislikes (eg. They don't seems to like our local curry). Anyway, if you don't like to spend extra, just tell them you no time to get or try to avoid meal times appointments altogether. I ever heard of bros ordering tingkat for MLs to deliver lunch and dinners or help to order grab food when they are not even visiting them (Paisay.. i benefited from some of the food they ordered) so buy food is not a big thing, not like asking you to buy LV for them
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Nah, don't agree with the reasoning. I'm a paying customer and not an errand boy. The tone matters a lot - if the ML expects me to buy, it is a turnoff.
Lest we forget, these are adult working women who know their trade. They are not little princesses.
Besides I dislike bringing food over. I very much prefer beer, which I will bring on my own initiative. One day, I will bring wine.