[maneepunnani]

Originally Posted by ps7432

TS, sorry to hear your sticky situation but your bff is filling in the gap of whatever your hubby is not. Though you nay want to let go but you do love your bff enough to hold back each time. His attention for you far exceed what your hubby has for you. Maybe it may make you feel better to know that if a guy is not passionate to you anymore, it may mean he finds you unattractive enough. Unless the guy is impotent or extremely busy with work, otherwise it is he has an outlet outside. Likewise, your bff may one day get tired of the companionship and sex. If your bff really loves you, and wants to be with you, he probably would not harm your relationship with your family, and would himself sacrifice first to make things straight with his wife and be with you. Otherwise, he is just enjoying the joyride of having a FWB. And to me, there is rarely a guy who is gooey gooey good shoes. . I can have friends who frequent church, serves in church, do not go to party, do not drink, but also have affairs outside or many outlets outside. No offence but we are all human. At the end of the day, if your guilt does not consume you, then you know what to do.

I concur. At the end of the day, decide with a clear head. the friend now is a temptation. For him, he will continue to be a temptation as he is still not married to you. long term also he may become bored of you. so really need to consider wisely.