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Your story is the exception. Husbands that dont need or want sex is very rare.

Originally Posted by hydeparkk

All my life, I had been a believer of no sex before marriage. Even though I feel I am quite a sexual person - I've always liked the intimacy and the connection, I told myself I will save the penetrative sex for my marriage. So throughout my dating years, my ex bfs and I engaged in all sorts of sexual acts except for the actual penetration.

After I got married, I told myself that it is finally the time to enjoy the actual deed with my husband. Who would have known that I would end up in a marriage that is sexless. The biggest reason is due to his inability to be hard enough to penetrate me. Due to his ego or whatever reasons, he never got that treated, even though I offered to go for checks etc with him. He refused.

I love my husband. He is loving towards me and everything I would have asked for in a husband. To me, sex is important as well. After about 8 yrs of marriage, I finally decided that if I am not going to get sex in my marriage, I will have to find it somewhere else.

I ended up fucking a friend who has been a friend for more than 10 yrs. He's now married with kids. When we were younger, we never dated, but have been very close friends all the while. All these years, we flirted and had some sexual chats along the way, but nothing really happened. As we are still very close friends even after we each gotten married to our partners, we continue to share many things with each other. One thing led to another and it's been more than 2 yrs since we starting fucking.

My friend and I are very clear that we will not let this affect our marriage. From the start, we agreed that I have no intentions of leaving my husband, and he also have no intentions of leaving his wife. With this common understanding, we have been having great sex. Though not frequent, but every time we connect, it is always satisfying.