[babyjohnwong]

Anyway there is this dh which I've been chatting for months.
Poor thing only one off day every month and no holidays.
Met her at supermarket and exchanged contacts.
She's a single mum, on her first dh job in Singapore with no friends and relatives here.
Late 20s, slim but not a looker.
Barely average looks, but had the kind of face that grows on you.
For me, right from start, I told her my status and because of that I cannot give her any promises of relationships, love or marriage.
I'm only in for the companionship and sex if she agrees.
She didn't reject me.
She said she didn't want to have sex with a married man but don't mind making friends with me.
So we just text each other.
Suddenly one day stopped messaging me, so I went down to the supermarket she frequents. I met her there easily since I already knew her routine.
She was looked very sad and was surprised to see me and told me her phone spoilt, and she already took her off day have to wait till the next month before she can buy new phone.
The next day I went down to Little India to buy a phone for her after asking what brand and model she prefers.
It's just a $100 plus phone and I refused to take her money.
When she asked what she could do to repay me since I refused to take her money.
I jokingly said meet me on your next off day and we have some fun in the hotel.
To my surprise, she actually agreed.
She was hesitant and reserved and was quiet all the way during the meet-up and trip to hotel on her next off day.
But once the hotel room door was closed, she totally went wild after I started kissing and hugging her and touching her.
Since then, she's been meeting me on all her off days.
Honesty and sincerity with a bit of time and money investment sometimes can go a long way.
These maids are humans too, and have sexual needs just like any other humans.
No need to give false hopes and promises and make them fall in love etc, cheat their feelings and then break their hearts and dump them after sleeping with them.
The dhs that I meet usually come from neighbourhood and supermarket pick ups.
I find it easier to engage a conversation when they are alone.