To me, it’s ok to give them money to help if u feel so. But the amount you give them should be something u should not be terribly worried about and something u can just forget if it does not come back. When you help some of these maids, wat do u get? The sex is more better and awesome!!
But u must always know when to draw the line. Sometimes, must act blur. Sometimes must be a firm No. But don’t ever get emotionally tangled in their problems. Like someone said here, it’s like a fucking abyss. There’s no end to their problems and most will get multiple boyfriends to help them out.
Having said that, I am sure not all of them are like that. They are some good and nice ones. But if they are good and nice, chances are u will never get them. Anyways, be safe with money. Cheers!!