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Originally Posted by meanbow
You wouldn't want to date a superficial girl either. Not all malays are stupid. Let people think what they want. You can't control them. Being stereotyped sucks, but you can only live with it, ignore it. Religion issue can't be helped though, unless you're willing to convert.
I don't know how smart you are, but if your friends assume you're stupid, you need to reconsider who are your actual friends. Then again, you mentioned that you are currently studying for your degree. If that makes you stupid, then they aren't much better.
You don't need to be so eager to enter a relationship just for the sake of it. Take your time, improve on yourself, find a girl you're actually compatible with in terms of interests, sense of humor, etc.
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I'm really trying to. I thought getting a nice body would improve or change my fashion. Get a nice haircut but it's not even working. The girls I meet totally ignore me probably due to my height, not saying in super short. Short not as tall as my other friends. Friend bring me to club to introduce me to some girls but they aren't interested cause well... I'm the only Malay among the group. It sucks that I'm being stereotype for my skin color and race. I don't want to use race as an excuse.
I can't think of meeting girls anywhere else besides clubs and pubs. And I'm not the passive kind. I'm kinda introverted when I'm in a group.
I guess maybe doing something that I like which is photography would be okay but sadly there's no one to take pictures with. And I have more guy friends sadly