[halfhearted]

Originally Posted by Kopiosteve

Even seasoned cheongsters need occasional reminders that we must always be extra vigilant when visiting a ML/FL for the first time. But honestly you guys, all the signs were very clear from the start.

1. The FL/ML ad: When pictures are PS very white, means the filter takes away contrast, lightens skin, make blacks and shadows light, so skin is smooth and fat/age lines disappear. So the whiter the picture, the older and fatter the girl probably is! Just look at all the "Singaporean" FLs ads... All so white even the nose also disappear haha. Ada"s picture so white and she looks plumb already... So in real life definitely old hippo lor! Avoid girls who have extra white pictures in their ads at all cost...!

2. Spa: when you know it's a spa, why even bother going down? You can never have a completely fun time in spa. Even if FL is willing, the small room, high bed and thin walls restricts movement , roaming and ultimately the pleasure. And remember, in a spa, the girl controls the situation. From collecting money, to how far she can go, etc. Many more excuses can be used against you in a spa. I've tried once and vowed never to return.

3. Walk away: why scared to walk away, or have to make up stories to reject?
Just have your phone ready with her pictures. If not the same and you don't like , just tell her the truth! Just say you book the girl in the pictures, and she's clearly not the same, so very sorry I don't want , thank you. Be polite, direct. Simple. Did this a few times, and the girl even apologize.

Anyway to spot whether Apartment or spa ?