[PandaFluff]

I totally agree respect is important. That said I feel that sometime if one pays for somthing you suddenly forget and respect goes out the window.

Remember paying for somthing does not give one carte blanche to act like a buffon respect is a mutal thing.

Now dont get respect mixed up with courtesy. This is a topic for another day.

So if the FL has a shit attitude well then it is up to you haw to react. However 2 x shit attitudes do not make it better. Just my 2 cents