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Originally Posted by hugs
Logically u should just moves back to stay with your parents and pay rent to your parents. Admit to your parents that it didnt work out and pour out to them. This solved a number of issue. 1. You pay rent to parent= you are a grown up living with parents, not living off parents. 2. You build bonding with parents who are old now and so they receive genuine love from you and you also receive from them. 3. More expensive to rent outside alone. 4. You need someone else to love you besides that gf and your parents provide love.
Now we talk about about the different type of love you will need, besides those from parents and siblings.
You saw some bad personalities and behavour of your gf. You dont like it so much now. You are unhappy. You hope something will change. You..hope a marriage will change all these..? Are you hoping that? You are? Thats cunning hahaha but after we secretly laughed over your plan..lets honestly think it through. Can a marriage change her?
It is your future. You decide.
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i pay the installment for my parent flat and i give them monthly allowance for their expenses..
yeah. i have decided.