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Old 04-10-2015, 02:48 PM
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Re: How to confirm wife is eating outside

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Originally Posted by @h-BeN View Post
My fren Encountered this issue recently too.... Another half changed job,new superior.... She started to wear more revealing and doll up herself to work which doesn't do during her previous job....

Even went out for few drinking with all the colleagues and boss. Went out couple of times straight after work and drink till 11pm-12midnight and kinda drunk too... That sucks....

End up one fine day night, she back drunk again and my fren already been suspicious of her behavior, checked her iPhone, viola!! She forgotten to delete the msg she sent on that day with the sales manager... All those "miss you, miss your hugs, baby here n there msgs" damn gross.....

He still can't forget it and furthermore they are married and with kids too...

My fren confronted her but she just admitted its the beginning stage only, haven't have any intimacy yet... And claim will clean all ties away with the sales manager however my fren wants her to quit the job but she kinda refuse it claiming good prospect and pay and already in comfort zones with all the colleagues.


However one week ago, she seems to use alternative msg mode - LINE to strike conversation again (just suspicion and guys 6th sense) but this time round he yet to catch his wife redhanded.

He feel like divorcing but becoz of the kids at young age...

If there any ways to hack into whatsapp or line? Meaning the msg history even its deleted or if the guy msg her, another device can straight away prompt it and view the msg...

What would you guys do or advise?
I feel for your friend and he should be thankful that you're helping him.

To have a friend confide these details to you, it means you are a very good friend. Besides helping your friend to find out how to hack and read social apps messages, have you considered advising him how to salvage the marriage?

The entire situation can become very complex if the spouse is found to have cheated. Then the spouse can turn the table around and say he doesn't trust her to the extend of having to evesdrop on her conversation.

The best thing the wife can do is to leave the existing company if she feels the marriage is more important than the job but she's not, citing money (or maybe the sales manager's company) is more important.

There are some tools/services online that can install spyware in the mobile but I dont know how true they are. There are also PI services.

Ask him what he wants out of this marriage. Can he continue to trust her after this? Can he take the truth that his wife is cheating if the text messages reveal dirty secrets?