Re: Can anyone give me suggestion?
For me I will try to talk to my dad first and I will use theroy to tell him, if he still does not listen I will really F him upside down. I am not trying to teach you bad buddy, I am based in China for 2 years and have met all kinds of women.
Women in China are more towards $ based (not all but there are alot of black sheeps around), pardon my frankness but it seems like your dad is a easy to entertain old man. 70 years old I believe sex is not a always thing for him, how many times can your dad stand?
Talk to him in a man to man way cause I believe your age is reasonable already, do not need to talk to the China lady unless u tell me u know the big shots here and hire someone to kill her (there is this kind of people). Normally they will not give a damn to wat u will be saying, they have lived that life of since I already have nothing y shld I give a hoot abt my life if I can win this game.
I talked to my dad before and frankly speaking he told me he do have a mistress also, being the eldest son and the most adored child of my mom I know it is not right.
I questioned my dad in a man to man way and he did tell me reasons (I too was a flirt before and best is I cheong KTV with my dad), I kind of accepted it cause I know wat he is saying and he did promise me a lot of things.
For my family I am lucky that my Dad n me was like friends rather than Father and Son kind of relationship. I still would hope that you can talk to him before anything and if case get worst u might want to fly in to China n see for yourself.
Do not be rash cause u never know what will happen.
Hope this helps,
Oak
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