Not feeling happy
 

Visited FL, sex was so so. No chemistry just fuck and go. Want to get girlfriend but too ugly. Went to club but girls don't like me cause I short and of a certain race. Even my own race don't want me. I feel helpless needing to masturbed everytime and everytime I do it I feel even more shitty cause I can't bed a women. My friend even uglier and fatter than me got to fuck a milf and I can't even find women to do it with me. It's very very depressing to know that youre gonna end up with no wife and gf and you have to pay for sex for the rest of your life cause you're ugly and short. Confident wise I bring myself up very well. I initiate and all that but it never happens. I don't know who else to talk to cause everyone says I'm overreacting. Anyone can talk to me and maybe give me an advice or something. If its about accepting my fate then that's it. If it's about helping me out like how to get girls etc I'm Open to listen.

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Is there anything about yourself you are pleased with?

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The fact that you are full of negativity will shows in ur body language when u meet people....be more positive n ur life will starts to change. For all the bad points u list above, i am sure there are also a lot of hidden good points. :p

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Once you have confidence in yourself the things you say, your body language and your aura will bring in the chicks!

Look at this guy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ujRNtCuQovw

Nick Vujicic was born into unfathomable circumstances...no arms and no legs. After a suicide attempt at age 10, God worked in his heart in a mighty way.
A beautiful love story about Nick Vujicic and his wife Kanae Miyahara is spreading on the internet.

Nick was born with no arms and no legs, and he never thought he would find his soul mate who wants to share the rest life with him. "I definitely had doubts that I'd ever got married, that I never met anybody who would love to spend the rest life with me," Nick said recently in a video interview.

How did Nick Vujicic Meet His Wife?

After a suicide attempt at age 10, God worked in his heart in a mighty way. Determined to never give up again, he has grown into an incredible young man, using his testimony to glorify God.

God blesses the people who are willing to follow Him. Surprisingly, Nick met his own princess Kanae Miyahara. They fell in love at the first sight.

"I fell in love with him the way he is now," Kanae said. Before she met Nick, she had dated with other guy for a physical goal, but she became tired of that. "The moment I met Nick, I was looking for other thing, and all the things I found in him," Kanae said. "He is not only a boyfriend material, but he could be my husband."

When Kanae met Nick in 2008, she was impressed by his signature generosity in spirit and good humor. For her, Nick is so handsome, and "the perfect match." For Nick, "it was electric, when she stood by me, I just felt right."

What Qualities or Characteristics Attracted Nick to Kanae Miyahara?

They also revealed the moment when Nick proposed marriage to Kanae. Many people might question how Nick put the ring on her finger? However, it was solved by his unique ingenuity.

"Baby, can I kiss your hands?" Nick recalled, "I'm putting the ring all the way down on her finger." Kanae felt Nick was biting her finger, but then she saw it was a ring.

"Baby, I love you, would you love to marry me and spend the rest of your life with me?" Nick said, Kanae just cried.

A lot of people might be curious that whether it is difficult for them to have intimacy because of Nick's physical disabilities. Nick said no problem, "we are very affectionately." And Kanae smiled, "He's got everything he needs."

After marriage, they settled their house in South California. Nick focuses on his writing and inspirational speech. Kanae works as a wife, taking care of the household.

Even though they have some challenges in their lives, Nick said that his wife was ready for those, and he was amazed at her love.

Another great blessing comes soon. Would you believe it or not? Kanae got pregnant and gave birth to a healthy baby boy early this year.

"Nick is very deserving of such a beautiful wife and a beautiful baby boy! He has been obedient and spread the Good News and given testimony all over the world and now God has rewarded this faithful servant," a comment from Judy Lane Cole.

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I'm pleased that I'm alive having awesome friends and family members but I just feel like as a human, I sort of stop cause humans eventually go on in life with sex etc

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If u seriously feels that you sort of stop being a human due to the fact that you have not had sex with a woman yet. There are only two reasons i can think of that explains this phenomenon.

Either you are still in puberty stage and have raging hormones within ur body. So u needed sex to curb this hormones from running wild. In this case, you can be forgiven n should probably DIY more and stop watching porn etc. And focus more on self improvement. The women and sex part will comes eventually.

The 2nd case i could think of assuming u are an adult is that you are mentally challenged or of low IQ and most likely a low achiever in life. If that is so all i can say is good luck to you. Coz i find communicating ppl with low IQ beyond my capability. Their thinking n mindset is of a different level.

Just remember this, a woman is also a human being like u n me. Not just an object to satisfied ur lust. :p

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My bad, I meant something you had to get out of your comfort zone to achieve. Having family, friends and not being dead do not count for most people.

Big steps are daunting, and often unrealistic except for people with will of iron.

Start with something as simple as doing something you've been wanting to do for a long time but haven't gotten round to doing. Or dropping a long time bad habit.

Anything that gets you out of the basement.

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Honestly, there is more to life than just women and sex.

And I have seen many ugly guys with smoking hot partners. And vice versa. So it is nothing to do about your height, weight, race or age.

Once you are comfortable doing the right things in life, the right woman will fall into place. So don't be too worried!

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Upped u bro :)

From how you described your problem, you have too many things to complain, full of negative thinking.

Girls hate these kinda of people. I too hate these kinda people.

Be grateful for what you have. This world doesn't owe you a shit. :o

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Love =/= sex

Maybe be more positive?

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Hey, if you can't get laid, then you can't reproduce.
Then you need not pass on your short and ugly genes.
Society as a whole will improve with better genetic stock.
Plus, the carbon footprint will decrease.

You're doing good without realising it!
Long live eugenics!
Which is what Papa Lee was advocating all along anyways...

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Master this skill & women will line up for you; lick your eyebrows

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TS,
I can identify with you. Here is some advice.. I am not particularly tall. I do not consider myself very good looking too. Neither do I get one night stands in clubs. But I nailed the prettiest girl in my faculty when I was young. And many other pretty girls too. Here is what I discovered.

Personality. Girls actually like guys with personalities. Are you stubborn, self centred and obnoxious? Or are you happy go lucky? Easy to get along with. Considerate and well mannered. Do you have good values? Respectful of elders, humble and have a good temper. Smiley and warm?

Humor. This is probably my ace calling card. I can make anyone and everyone laugh. The intelligent and not so intelligent ones included. Girls love this. It makes them happy. Seriously, have you ever seen a comedian with an ugly girl?? I have not.

Confidence. Girls are attracted to men with confidence. It does not matter whether you are highly educated or hold a good paying job. If you believe in yourself, she will too.

You have a misconceived idea that all girls like hunks, looks and height. I have many pretty girl friends. They actually like the nerdy homely sort. Bec they know hunks are heart breakers, and won't give them long term happiness. Do examine yourself. I believe you have fallen short in some of the abovementioned areas.

One more thing. Don't over rate yourself. Come on, if you are of a certain race, please do not expect to nail a young german blonde. If you need me to tell you this, your personality is already suspect.

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Nice sharing :)