How to be more open to anal
 

Hi guys,
I have never seen the appeal in letting a guy do anal with me, I kind of want to try it once and see what all the fuss is about but I am scared and worried I wont like it.
How can I be a bit more open to try it?
Anything I should do before just letting a guy jump right in?!

Re: How to be more open to anal
 

Foreplay play a part, I poke her in pussy till she high then apply lubricant on ur anal before my 2ic enter her

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Ok. For me. I foreplay n make love w the gal till the gal cum a few time first. Then make make her freaking high again n slowly finger her ass w one pinky finger then index finger. Using her pussy juice as lube. Then go back to her pussy make her high again. Then finger her pussy n ass at the same time. Reminding her to relax. Then kiss her body to make her very sensitive. Then go down and lick her pussy while all the while my index is in her ass. Once in a while lick her ass then insert index n middle in her ass. Once she got use to 2 finger. Use lube on my dick n mission accomplished....

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The best thing you can do is let a guy with experience take your first time.

For it to be enjoyable and even painless for you takes more than just foreplay and lube. It may seem easy but it's not and your body obviously does not come with an Operations Manual. So not all advice may work.

If he knows what he's doing, you may even enjoy it more than regular sex but let someone inexperienced do it wrongly and you will be scarred for life..

Good luck :D

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Totally agree with you bro...the lady has to be relaxed...the guy needs to understand that the lady needs to get over the initial tightening she will experience....I have found in the past that if you have small size solid butt plug that you can use gently with lots of lube it helps better than fingers ...I wish you luck fatChick5 and hope you find someone who understands what is is all about and does not jump into you :) .....you may enjoy it or you may not but is worth to try

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ask for a Ass rim first and allow light poking of fingers to start with.

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I'm an anal virgin (both ways) but hopefully this link helps
https://sg.answers.yahoo.com/questio...6125455AAyS5YX

from what i've read, start with foreplay/clit pleasuring followed by slow fingering of the ass. Then put sufficient lube both inside your ass and on your penetrator. I think KY Lube is a popular option for this? Correct me if I'm wrong. Try to relaxed and just go with the flow i guess.

Get someone with the experienced to help u out.. importantly is that u must be mentally ready.. the experienced guy can help u be prepared physically.. for some gals, they will need a few sessions with fingering first before the actual deed..

So it depends on how u want to go from here..

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Yes. Foreplay play a big part.
And mutual trust/hygiene etc as well

Once I was bonking with my ex, and when switch position, due to too high, poke the wrong hole... Worst part is that we were doing some light bdsm (Her mouth stuff with one of those thing (Can't remember what it called), hence she couldn't shouted in pain. For me, as my dick contain her love juice which act as lubricant, plus do felt quite tight, but thought it was just cause of the position, and legs together... Hence did no think that poke the wrong hole, and continued to bonk till cummed...

Re: How to be more open to anal
 

wah bro, u make me remember the good old days.

Re: How to be more open to anal
 

For the first time u will have to use lub or cd with lub on it so u will feel smooth when entering. U will feel nth but shiok and moan louder than entering ur pussy.

Re: How to be more open to anal
 

why do u want to try something u dont think you are going to like it?
the anal isnt designed for that..

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it's too painful if you try it directly with cock..

what you can do is to finger yourself first with lube for a couple of occasion, try to find the sweetspot where you feel great. then you can slowly use slim type buttplug or dildo.

don't forget to always do enema (clean) your ass before anal session. you can google how to do it

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Most people are worried because they think the anus is not very clean.

This is true to a certain extend, as anal sex greatly increases the chances of sexual illness transmission.

However, like safe sex, safe anal sex can definitely be conducted with proper protection.

As the anus is a much tighter hole than the vagina, i would suggest always to wear condom for the male party as this minimises potential pain for participants new to anal sex.

Secondly, always lube up before anal sex. This will minimise potential abrasion, and will make it a much more enjoyable experience for both parties. A water base lube will do the trick well.

If you feels that the anus is still too tight for pentration. Consdering practicing with anal plugs first, before intial engagement. That will able the anus to improve its muscles around to be more stretchable.

Lastly, i always applaude the lady who is willing to be adventurous. Keep us updated on updated experience! ;)

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You guys actually entertain her inquires?

Don't you find it weird on her?

Pls CSI her threads ...